Ziziphi iimpahla ezikhuthaza ukuzihlonela

Ngaba wake wacinga ngombuzo othi "yintoni impahla?" Izambatho akugcini nje ngokubambisana kwamagama amanqaku ayenziwe ngoboya, iingubo, iikhumba, njl njl., Ukugubungela umzimba kumanye abantu kunye nokukhusela kubanda nokushisa, umoya, imvula, iqhwa.

Le ndlela yinyaniso yokuzibonakalisa, yedwa umntu. Inzala kwimpahla, kwinqumle yayo, isimbo somntu yayisoloko ihlala. Kwaye abantu ba mandulo bazama ukuhlobisa iimpahla zabo zokuqala ngeemfusa, ukufakwa, imivimbo. Izambatho zinokutshela kakhulu ngomntu onxibe. Isimbolo seengubo, umbala wayo, ukulungiswa kwempahla, kunye nezixhobo zingatshela abanye ngohlobo, ukuthambekela, umgca wokuphila. Impahla, nokuba uyayithanda okanye ayikho, ibonakalisa ngokupheleleyo umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Umgangatho wendwangu apho izambatho zakho zikhonkxwe khona, ziya kukuxelela ngokuchuma. Izambatho ezibekwa kuwe, kunokubangela iimvakalelo ezahlukileyo phakathi kwabantu: inhlonipho, ukungaboni, ukungcikiva. Emva koko, kulo lonke ihlabathi kukho amabinzana ongawaguqulela ngolwimi lwakho lwasekhaya, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ngqiqo "ukuhlangabezana neempahla." Yaye ndikholwa, awusoze ube nelithuba lesibini lokuba wenze okokuqala. Yaye ingqiqo yokuqala ixhomekeke kwindlela uza kuqondwa ngayo kwikamva. Oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, bekude kube yimfihlo kumntu.

Ukubonakala kuyinto yolu hlobo lwekhadi lomashishini ngamnye wethu. Ukuba ungumntu onomphefumlo omhle, kodwa ungahlangabezane nomgangatho woluntu, akukho mntu uya kukwazi ngako. Uza kuhlala "kwindlu" yomphakathi, kuphela ngenxa yokunxibelelana nawe.

Kodwa ndiyazibuza ukuba unako ukufumanisa ukuba ziziphi iimpahla ezikhuthaza ukuzithobela. Ukuba ucinga kanzima, akuyiyo impahla eyenza ukuzithobela, kodwa luhlobo luni loxabiso olubalulekayo kumnika intanda yakho. Yaye ingubo yodwa yinto ebomini bethu engasigxininisa ngaphakathi kwethu. Umntu ohloniphayo akaze athande isigqubuthelo okanye igqoke, akayi kuvumela izitya ezingcolileyo kwiingubo zakhe. Uhlobo olungabonakaliyo lwabantu nabani na alukwazi ukubangela ukuzithemba, ngaphandle kokuba abantu abahlala "phantsi" - abantu abangenamakhaya, abaxhatshazwayo, izidakwa.

Ukungahlambuluki kubangelwe yimeko yengozi, umzekelo, xa i-suit ifafazwe yimoto edlulayo okanye isityalo esityalwe ngendebe ecocekileyo yekhofi, sinokunciphisa kakhulu indlela yokusebenza yomntu. Emva koko, izambatho ezingenakulungeleka zixhobo zokukhusela indawo yangasese yangaphakathi, i-personal, engaziwayo yehlabathi. I-Slovenety ithi ngokucacileyo ngesimo sayo sengqondo ngokwazo kwaye njengokungathi uthabathe indoda, imtyhila, ekhokelela, ngamanye amaxesha, ukugqiba ukungenakunceda. Kodwa la magama awabhekiseli kubo bonke, kodwa ngokubanzi kwiintengiso okanye kubantu bakarhulumente, abaqeqeshwayo kunye nokuphumelela kwimeko yabo bahlale bexhomekeka ngokubonakalayo. Emva koko, uluvo lwabanye malunga nomntu wabo luqala ukuvela kwithuba lokubonakala koluntu. Yaye ukuba umntu oshishino, - umntu ongaqhelekanga kwaye akafuni ukuzijonga rhoqo kwiimpahla eziqhelekileyo ezifanayo kunye nezibophelelo. Ngubani ongafuni ukuqonda izinto ezenziwa namhlanje? Indlela engcono kakhulu kukujika kumntu othethileyo. Uya kunceda ukhethe iimpahla ezifanisa isimo sakho, esiza kwenza uzive ukholo nakweyiphi na imeko.

Abanye abantu banako ukufumana ipolisi eyongezelelweyo, ibala okanye ukukhukhumeza, kunye nolunye uhlobo lokunganaki - ngokokuthanda kwabo. Kutheni ungenayo? - Ukuba loo nto ingabonakalisi inhlonipho.

Abafana abaselula baqala indlela yabo nzima Abantu, ngaphandle kokuba bangaphakathi, njengomoya, badinga umfanekiso wangaphandle. Ukuba unqwenela, ingaba "iso" okanye, umzekelo, "ukudukisa". Yaye ke, ukuba kungengengubo, kuya kugxininisa imifanekiso ekhethiweyo. Iingubo ezikhethiweyo ezifanelekileyo ziyakomeleza umoya kwaye zithembe, kwaye impumelelo kwisiqingatha esichaseneyo iya kwenza ukuba uzukise.

Kuyafana okufanayo malunga namantombazana. Kuphela ezo zinto zingabangela ukuzithemba, apho intombazana iya kuziva ihle. Konke kuxhomekeke kwingcamango yakhe kunye nokukhetha kwakhe. Kodwa kwindawo yokuqala uhlala uhlala, u-Mkhulu uMphathiswa. Izambatho eziphathekayo nakubani na onika ithemba, umqondo wesitayela. Ngamanye amaxesha udla ngokubona indlela intombazana enamahloni enomgca we-hip ephahlazayo yithatha i-jean-pipu. Kwaye iinqununu ezivela kulo kuphela zilahleka. Intombazana ayikwazi ukucinga ukuba yintoni ekhangelekayo, ubuncinane, ehlekisayo. Kodwa akukho malunga nokuhlonipha abanye, kodwa malunga nokuzihlonela. Ewe, kwaye, nangona kunjalo, uzive ephezulu - Ukuhlonipha isibindi sakhe. Oku kufana kuthiwa ngamacwecwe amancinci adwetshiwe kwi-body curvy, ukusuka apho bazama "ukugibela" umzimba. Kodwa unokucinga ukuba intombazana enqabileyo evela kumaArabhu ehamba ngeendlela zaso zaseburhulumenteni kwiT-shirt ehlobo kunye neengubo ezimfutshane. Emva koko, le ngubo yayiza kugxininisa isidima sayo.

Kodwa hayi! - iimpahla ezinjalo azikwazi ukumkhuthaza ngokuzithemba. Ngokwesiko, abafazi abazalwa phantsi kobuxoki benkolo yamaMuslim kufuneka bafihle imizimba yabo emihle

phantsi kweengcambu zonke zeempahla ezikhethekileyo. Nabo ubuso babo kufuneka bafihle.

Kwaye makhe sibuyele kwii-subcultures ezahlukeneyo. Ayikho iip punks, emo, i-hippies, i-bikers, izenzi zensimbi kunye nabanye abagqoke izinto kwi-"clan" yabo abayifanelekanga inhlonipho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ummeli ohloniphayo weengqungquthela ezahlukahlukeneyo uya kunxiba ngokugcoba iimpahla ngokweengcamango ezikhethiweyo.

Ngoko, emva koko, luhlobo luni lweempahla eziza kukukhuthaza kwaye zinike ithemba? Ngokwe siseko saso sonke isizathu esisodwa sinokwenza isigqibo esilandelayo malunga nenyaniso yokuba umntu ngamnye ukhetha iimpahla ezihambelana nokuthanda kwakhe, ukukhuliselwa, inkcubeko, uxolo lwangaphakathi, ukuchuma, imfashini. Yaye ukuba iimpahla zidibana nenqobo yakho, ukuba ihleli kuwe ngokugqibeleleyo, ukuba ikhululekile kuyo, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukhuthaza ukuzihlonela. Ewe, ukuba, kunye neento zonke-usibamba ukubonga kwabanye, ngoko uqiniseke ukuba uzuke ngokuzimela. Yaye ndikholwa, oku akunakwenzeka ukuba ufunde. Emva koko, imizekelo kunye neenkwenkwezi zizama konke okusemandleni ukuvuselela ukunyameka kunye nomdla kuluntu. Kule nto kuxhomekeke kwi-rating kunye nemisebenzi yabo, ngokubanzi.