Impumelelo yinto ephilileyo, kodwa nayo ineemithetho yayo kunye nemithetho. Omnye wabo uxhatshaza ukudibanisa ukudibanisa kunye nendlela yokuziphatha. Naluphi na iphupha lakho - ufunde ukudanisa i-rumba okanye ukudala ikhaya lakho lephupha, ukwenza umsebenzi okanye ukhulise abantwana abalungileyo kwihlabathi-kuya kufuneka uqwalasele omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo. Cinga ngehlabathi, yenza indawo - ucebise abantu abaphumeleleyo baze balandele iingcebiso zabo.
Xa abantu bacinga ukwenza into ebalulekileyo, ebalulekileyo, ebalulekileyo ebomini babo Ukungabaza, ukungaqondani - apho uya khona kunye nento oyenzayo - musa ukuvumela wonke umntu ukuba abe yiGates okanye iPlisetskys ... Ingcinga - ngaba ndinento endiyilungiselele ehlombe lam? Ukukhanyela - hayi, andiyena loo nto, andikaze ndize ndifikelele ...
Iimfihlelo zempumelelo zilula kwaye ziyaqondakala, kodwa zimele zilandelwe imihla ngemihla, kungekho njengoko ziyimfuneko. Kwaye uqala ukuhlala ngoMvulo, ngaphandle kokufumana inkxaso kwiindlela zokukhuthaza kunye nokukwazi ukulawula iinjongo zakho - ezinkulu kunye ezincinci - akunamsebenzi.
I sebenza njani
Ukupheka kwempumelelo ngamanye amaxesha kuninzi ukuwasebenzisa konke. Kodwa enye - "iingcamango zomhlaba jikelele, zenzeke kwindawo" - zifanelwe ingqalelo. Iyintoni imfihlelo yempumelelo? Ngomyinge womsebenzi, nokuba ngaba ngumsebenzi "kumalume" okanye "usebenze ngokwakho"?
Amabhalana aphumelelayo ngamanye amaxesha athola amawaka ngamaninzi amashishini asembi abaye bazama "ukwenza ishishini" kangangamashumi eminyaka. Utitshala onetalente unokuzikhuseleka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngaphezu kwesiprogram yomnxeba osebenza kwinkampani ehloniphekileyo.
Ngubani okhetha impumelelo? Injongo, ufundela udonga ngodonga lakho? Okanye ngaba bayakwazi ukulinda amathuba abo (nabo "i-plankton yeofisi", eyiminyaka emininzi ibe yintyatyambo kwinqanaba elinye)?
Ekuqalekeni, akukho nto iqhelekileyo phakathi kwabo kwaye ayikwazi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bobabini basebenzi beeofisi, oosomashishini kunye nabantu abaqulunqa bakwazi ukuphumelela kwishishini labo. Kwaye banokuhlala kumvuzo omncinci, umvuzo omncinci ... konke kuxhomekeka kwiinjongo abazibekayo zona nokuba ngaba bawabeka.
Injongo enkulu, amanyathelo amancinci
Umgaqo "wokucinga kwihlabathi jikelele, usebenze endaweni" uchaza ukukwazi ukwahlula okwethutyana kwaye kubaluleke ngokwenene. Kukho into malunga ne-NLP kule nto, kodwa eqinisweni indala, ukuba kunjalo, "inqubo". "Ukwahlulwa kunye noyiso" yi-motto eqhelekileyo?
Xa umntu ejongene nenjongo enkulu, ulahlekile. Uloyiko lwamathemba, utshintsho olomeleleyo. Usoyika ukuba imizamo yokufezekisa okufunekayo kufuneka isetyenziswe-oh-mali-ye-how. Kwaye akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa isiphumo, yena ngokwakhe.
Kodwa xa umntu ecacisa ngokucacileyo izigaba zokufeza injongo - kuba lula. Emva koko, ungafikelela "kwisibonda" esilandelayo, faka "uphawu" uze uye kwisigaba esilandelayo. Ngoko ke, amanyathelo amancinci, izenzo ezenziwayo ziyaqhubeka ukusuka kwimisebenzi esheshayo kunye neemeko zangoku yindlela engcono yokuphumelela. Zibuze: ndiyakwenza ntoni ngoku?
Cima uphawu
Umgaqo "wokucinga ngehlabathi, usebenze endaweni" uthetha esinye isidingo esiphuthumayo-ukuhlala ukhumbula ikhanda. "Siya kuphi?" Uyazibuza, usebenza yonke imihla.
Ngaloo ndlela awuyi kukulibala ukuba emva kwegundane lemihla ngemihla libhekiselele kukho injongo enkulu, enhle, efunwayo. Kuphela ngoncedo lwe "inkwenkwezi ekhokelayo" - injongo - ungayigxotha ingxaki engadingekile, ukuziva ukunyathelisa kwindawo. Usebenza, kodwa uvavanya izenzo zakho ngoncedo lomgomo ode, apho bonke bangaphantsi.
Olu hlobo 'lokudanisa ngobomi'
Ukufezekisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, mnandi-ngokukodwa ukhokelwa ngumgaqo "wokucinga emhlabeni wonke, usebenze endaweni." Kodwa indlela eya kwiinjongo kufuneka ibe mnandi. Emva koko, umzuzu wokuphumelela - ufutshane kakhulu! Kuthekani ukuba akukho mntu ukukudumisa? Yaye ukuba omnye umvuzo ungakwaneli?
Ngoko ungakulibali ukuhlaziywa kwakhona - khangela iinjongo zakho ezifunwayo. Xa unesithuba esithile emini, xa usuqa esitheni ngcamango "Ndifuna ukwenza" - ngulo njongo yakho. Kwaye ukuziphoqa kungento engenamsebenzi. Bathi izenzo ongazifuni ukuzenza zonakaliswa yimpilo yamandla-kwaye oku, uyayazi, uqulethe ...