Umsebenzi ophumelelayo kwimiba yesintu kaninzi ifana ne-asphalt ebeka phezu kwebhedi yentsapho yobomi bentsapho. Kodwa ukuba unina wentsapho usebenza njengomfazi oshishino ophumelelayo, uya kwenza konke ukuguqula i-asphalt career bridgehead ibe yintsimi yeentyatyambo apho umsebenzi uphaphaza njengabantwana abonwabileyo, iikati neenja zikhawuleza ngotshani, kwaye abadala badlala indima ngokuzonwabisa abagadi beli paradesi encinci ...
Imizamo yokugula
Njengoko uyazi, ukubonakaliswa kwezicwangciso zeparadesi ebomini kudinga imizamo yesigwebo somfazi-ezi zizinto zanamhlanje. Ulwimi olomileyo lwamanani, ezo zityalo-mali zizifihliwe emva kwesiganeko esihle sama-50 - ipesenti enye yabesetyhini abasebenzayo abaqeshwe imihla ngemihla ngemisebenzi kunye nosapho kunamadoda. Okokuthi, kubonakala ukuba kokubili emsebenzini nasemakhaya intombazana isebenza ezimbini. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokubala ukuba yiyiphi isivumelwano esiphathelene nesivumelwano esiphambili malunga nesiqingatha sabasetyhini besenza umsebenzi rhoqo kwindlu, kwaye imisebenzi yendlu igqityiwe kude emva kweentsuku zobusuku ukuze ibambe yonke into.
Ngenxa yoko, iinjongo zamabhinqa zinzima kunzima ukuphumeza kunabesilisa - kule nto, eqinisweni, ukungalingani okugqithisileyo kwezesondo kubonisiwe. Ngenxa yokuba abaninzi abafazi baphoqelelwe ukubala isinyathelo ngasinye. Kodwa umbuzo oyintloko, mhlawumbi, ukuba sonke sivakala ngokuqhelekileyo: "Okokuqala, ube nabantwana, uze wenze umsebenzi, okanye ngokuthe ngqo?" Kodwa impendulo ixhomekeke ekubeni ngubani ojongene nayo.
Indlela yo msebenzi
Ngenxa yokukhetha okokuqala ngenxa yezizathu eziqondakalayo oogqirha baya kuthi - ukuyeka ukuzalwa komntwana "kamva," kunokwenzeka ukuba, kodwa le nto ngezinye iinkqubo inokuthi ihlale inganakulungiswa. Kuba oyingcali ekukhethiweyo kwabasebenzi, ubukho babantwana emntwaneni kuthetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane kuya kuba nzima ukuya kumyalelo. Kodwa iingxabano "zengqondo" zibukeka zibaluleke kakhulu: kufuneka uqale "ukuphakama", kwaye "ngokwenene uhlale" ukuze ungabikho ubunzima bezezimali. Ngelinye igama, amaxhoba akanakunqandwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, intengo yabo - inzima yecala, ukusukela unina-careerists. Abanye abazange bave abantwana babo bethetha ilizwi labo lokuqala, abanye abazange babone isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana wabo, okwesithathu abazange bakhumbule ukuba ngubani igama lootitshala beklasi. Ngokweqile, yinyaniso: abaphantsi bahlala bekhalaza ukuba abantwana babasebenzi bayathintela abazali babo ukuba bangakwazi ukuhlangabezana nemisebenzi. Ngelo xesha, iinkokeli zowesifazane zigxeka ngokuphindwe kabini njengamadoda. Naphezu kwazo zonke izikhalazo, namhlanje iinkampani ezininzi kunye neenkampani zikulungele ukuhlangabezana nabazali abasebenzayo ukuba bancede bafezekise imisebenzi yabo yintsapho. Uncedo olunjalo lwee-counter luquka inshuwalense yezobisi kumalungu entsapho, iintsuku ezongezelelweyo "iintsana" zeeholide, iikhowutsha ezihlawulwa ngokukhawuleza kwiinkampu zezingane nakwii-sanatoriums. Indlela epholileyo iyabonakala nangenxa yokuba abasebenzi bezinye iifemu kunye neenkampani banakho, ukuba kunyanzelekile, bazise umntwana wabo eofisini, endaweni yokuhlala ekhaya kunye naye, okanye ukuthatha ixesha emsebenzini, ukwenzela ukuba, umzekelo, ukuba ube nomhlangano wabazali kwi-kindergarten okanye kwisikolo. Kwaye abaphathi bayayibheka ngeminwe yabo - xa nje umsebenzi ufezekisiwe kunye nexesha. Kodwa olu luncedo lwengingqi ekuzameni ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nentsapho yinto yokwehla kwelitye phezu kwelitye elikhanyayo lobomi bemihla ngemihla. Kwaye xa ilitye linika ukutyhawula, lo mfazi uya kufuneka acinge kanzima kunokuba azalise ezi ntlukwano. Ubomi obuninzi abukhiphi kwiindawo zokuhlala, umfazi unqwenela ukuba uphumelele kuzo zonke iimeko kumama wezoshishino, kuyafaneleka ukuphulaphula iingcebiso zalabo abaphumelele kulo mlo.
Inombolo yeBhunga le-1 Ngokukhawuleza unabantwana, amathuba okuqhubeka nokuqhuba umsebenzi, kuba inqanaba lomsebenzi wesifazane liwela kwiminyaka engama-35 ukuya kuma-40.
Iphupha # 2 Ukuba le khetho ayikho kuwe, ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba unomntwana, wenze umsebenzi, ungasasazeka kwiintlobo.
Iphupha # 3 Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, fumana i-pair okanye i-ory or a secretary. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza ngokwakho, kungcono ukuba uqashe unobhala.
Iphupha # 4 Ukuba uceba ukuba nezingane ezininzi, thabatha ikhefu lokubeletha elide ixesha ngalinye. Isizathu siyabonakala: abantwana abaninzi - ixesha elininzi kubo.
Ungakha njani ubomi bakho?
Ingaba ibhinqa, ukudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nentsapho, lingazi "luqhutywe yihashe"? Mhlawumbi! Into ephambili ukulungiselela yonke into. Ishedyuli yowesifazane ongumama ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo liphantsi kweshedyuli ethile, ngeentsuku ezithile - ukubhukuda nokudansa, kwezinye - isiNgesi kunye nexesha elikhululekileyo. Hlala ungatshintshi ukucoca, ukupheka, umsebenzi. Zama ukuphazamisana nomsebenzi wentsapho, kuba kwindawo yokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, intsapho kunye neengxaki zayo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo akufanele likhule libe ngumsebenzi. Ungamvumeli ubunzima bakhe bunzima. Kule minyaka, iingcali zakha imigaqo yemigaqo: ukuba kusasa kwakungekho nxephezelo, zonke izilungiso ezifunekayo zenziwa ngokuhlwa. Ukuba uceba iholide, lungiselela ngaphambili: uthenge izipho, ucinge ngeprogram. Kulukhuni kakhulu, xa yonke into ikulo mzuzu wokugqibela, ke umntu unomdla kwaye akanakuvuyela. Kusenokwenzeka ukuguqulela zonke iiyure malunga nemizuzu engama-7 phambili. Ngenxa yokuba kuninzi abantu kunzima ukuphuma ngexesha - rhoqo xa umntu ephula. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaqatshelwa ngaphambili: ngokugqithiseleyo ibhinqa kufuneka ifike ngexesha, ngakumbi ilungiselelwe. Uyazi nje ukuba namhlanje awukwazi ukuphumla, ngoko ke, ujolise ngakumbi.
Umzekelo, kubonakala kuwe ukuba ukwenza imidlalo kuwe ngumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka. Kanye. Kwaye kwavela ukuba ungaya echibini ngo-8: 30 - ngaphambi kokuba usebenze unayo ixesha lokubhukuda. Ngaphambili, uhlala uthumela wonke umntu kusasa ukuya esikolweni, i-nursergart kunye neyure epheleleyo iya kusebenza. Yiyo, ke, ixesha elihle kakhulu: unako ukusela ikhofi ngokuphepha, uzibeke ngendlela. Kodwa xa ushiya indlu kunye nabantu bonke, ungayichitha eli lixa edameni okanye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca - ushiya apho kwaye uyaziqhenya! Okufanayo ngeveki: unokuhlala yonke imini ekhaya phantsi kwesiqubulo esithi "Ndiyicoca!" Kwaye akukho nto enokwenzayo. Kwaye ungacinga kwaye ulungiselele lo mhla ngendlela enjengokukunceda abantwana ukuba bafundise, baye kwi-rink, bhakaze ikhekhe ngokuhlwa, uphuze itiye ndawonye. Kwaye, ke, akufanele nanini ukulahla uncedo lwezihlobo: bavumele abazali ukuba bancede, makhe umyeni abe nenxaxheba kuyo yonke imicimbi yentsapho.
Ingaba ibhinqa linokudibanisa emsebenzini wakhe nakwiintsapho zakhe neenjongo zakhe zokuphumeza? Wonke umfazi ngale ndlela unendlela yakhe. Kwaye amandla omntu ngamnye wethu ehlukile. Into eyona nto kukuqonda ukuba yiyiphi into ozama ukuyenza kwaye yintoni isigqirha sakho sobomi. Ekubeni kwindawo yokuqala kuyo nawuphi na umfazi oqhelekileyo usapho kunye nabantwana, ngoko ishishini lihambelana nezingane. Ngaphezu koko, abantwana banokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi! Ukuthatha inxaxheba ekukhutshweni, ukuncedisa ngokusesikweni kwiofisi. Ewe, oku kusebenza kubantwana abadala. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba le minyaka badinga ukubiza ngakumbi. Kodwa ke, xa unqumle ukuba ngaba umfazi unokudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nentsapho, uya kususa imfuno yokukhetha indlela yakho. Sele ikhethiwe. Zama iinjongo - kwaye ziya kufezwa.