Bathi intombazana evela kwintsapho elungileyo akufanele ihlangane namadoda angathandabuzekiyo, kodwa iyaziwa ukuba izichaso zithandwa.
Wayengumfazi womfazi - ngoku akayithandi umphefumlo wakhe kumfazi kunye nabantwana bakhe, wabetha iibhakethi kwaye akenzanga nto - iminyaka emibini yobomi bentsapho akahlali nje kuphela, kodwa wenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo.
Amadoda anzima kunxibelelana nawo kwaye akanakwenzeka ukutshintsha abizwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: "uhlobo olubi", "uhlobo olunenkani" aluyinto elula, ngokubanzi. Kodwa ngobomi bemihla ngemihla kunokubonakalisa ngokuthanda kwakho. Ingqungquthela ibanzi kakhulu-ukusuka kwi-brawler kunye ne-grouch ukuya ku-silence "ne-beeches". Omnye wayethetha ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuthetha ngokucacileyo, omnye umntu ufanelekile ngakumbi ulonwabo oluzolileyo. Yintoni, ngokwenene, le "isimboli esinzima"? Yintoni enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo kwimimiselo eyamkelekileyo, kwaye yiyiphi impazamo embi, ukubuyisana ongazifundile? Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhethe imigaqo ecacileyo okanye ngaphantsi. Kodwa bonke banomdla ngeengcebiso ezinengqondo ezinjengokuthi "qaqhafaza - cwaka" kwaye "ukuba uyayithanda, yithwale"
Izizathu zokulwa neziphoso zabantu zihlala zininzi. Kodwa kukho phakathi kwabo kubaluleke kakhulu. Uninzi lwethu ucinga: ukuba umntu utshintsho, zonke iingxaki ziyabonakala, iingxaki ziyalala, kwaye ubomi bubumnandi. Ngaba oku kunjalo ngokwenene? Funda ukukunceda uvavanyo olulula. Ukuluhlu zonke iimigodi zaso, mhlawumbi, aziyi kuba nzima. Zama ukwenza uluhlu olufanayo lwezinto ezifanelekileyo. Emva koko, ukuze umthande umntu ngendlela, kubaluleke nje ukuzikhumbuza ngokwakhe - into enjani.