Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bayathula malunga noko bangenakukuxelela. Kuxhomekeke kwinto eyenzeka ebomini bakhe, yiziphi utshintsho ezenzekile. Abasetyhini abathuli ngothando kunye nosapho. Ngubani onesizungu, ucinga indlela yokwakha intsapho, fumana uthando lwakhe kuphela. Baye bathule ngoxolo lwabo, oluzisa uthando kunye nobomi bethu. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bayathula ngentlungu abayithandayo, abathandekayo kunye nabathandekayo abenza ukuba. Kodwa awukwazi ukuwugcina kuwe, kungcono ukuwaxelela malunga nawo ukuze bangabangeli nto.
Ibhinqa lingahlala lithe cwaka nje ngezinto ezikhankanywe ngasentla, uhlala ecinga ngexesha elidlulileyo, elikhoyo kunye nekamva. Uthelekisa ubuhlobo bakhe, iimvakalelo zakhe. Kukho nabaninzi abafazi abaphuphayo. Bahamba ngelo xesha, bayalibale yonke into kwaye bavele baphupha. Ngoko baphulukana nexesha labo elixabisekileyo, endaweni yokuvuya kunye nokuphila ngoku. Ukuze ugweme oku, indoda kufuneka imthande, imkhusele, imncome, mxelele ukuba uyona mhle. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umfazi uthanda "indlebe". Ngombulelo kubathandekayo, akayi kulahleka ngaphakathi kwakhe, kwiingcamango zakhe.
Xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini, amadoda ayingxenye yobugovu, bacinga ngakumbi malunga nabo kunye nekhoyo, kunokuba baphuphe ngento ethile. Kodwa lona mfazi unomonde, ongenamkhawulo. Ibhinqa liyayinyamekela indlu yakhe, ikhaya layo, abantwana bayo. Uyabakhathalela. Ndiyabulela ukuthanda nokunyamekela izihlobo zakhe, unokuba ngumonwabileyo.