Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana ngumxinzelelo omkhulu kumama. Emva koko, intombazana esanda kuzalwa ayikwazi nokuba yintoni eya kufuneka ibhekane nayo. Umama uya kufuneka azi ukuba umntwana wakhe uya kutshintsha njani: ngokwenyama nangokwengqondo. Kule nqaku, siza kuthetha ngokubanzi malunga noko kukuphuhliswa kwengane malunga nonyaka.
Inyanga yokuqala emva kokuzalwa
Inyanga yokuqala ngenye yexesha elinzima kakhulu. Emva koko, yonke into ebonwa yintsana, yonke into ejikeleze yona iyintsha kuye. Ufuna ukuzisebenzisa, kubantu, kwindalo, izandi. Umntwana konke oku kubangela ingozi yengozi. Okanye xa umama esondele, uziva ezolile.
Ingane ihambelana nommandla kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala. Le ntsuku kufuneka umntwana abekwe eceleni kwakho ekhuselekileyo, kwaye ejikelezwe ngononophelo kunye nothando. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana usanqabisa isifuba. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo, ukuqonda kunye noluthando oluxhomekeke phakathi komntwana kunye nonina.
Akukho nto iya kuyenzela. Nangona kunjalo, kungekudala umzuzu uza kuza xa kufuneka uqonde umntwana: ukuqonda yonke into aziva ngayo, into ayifunayo, yintoni eyikhathazayo. Kwi-stimuli yangaphandle, unokusabela ngokumomotheka okanye ukukhala. Kwaye kufuneka umfundise ukulawula umlinganiselo wezenzo zakhe, ukuvulwa kwe-isna.
Xa umntwana engalali, chitha kunye naye ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa eqala ukungenangqungquthela, ukugubungela iinyawo zakhe okanye ukuphazamisa umlomo wakhe ngokungathandekiyo, unomsebenzi. Ncedisa umntwana ukuba angene kwindawo yokuphumla: bhubela kuye i-lullabies, yigubungele. Emva kwexesha, uya kuqonda ukuba umntwana uthanda kangakanani ukulala (ehlanganiswe ngengubo okanye ngaphandle kwayo kunye nokunye okunjalo).
Ukumomotheka kokuqala kubonakala ngexesha lokulala. Emva koko uvela kwinkqubo yokondla, kunye nezandi eziqhelekileyo okanye ngexesha apho abazali beqhagamshelana naye. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yokuqala, i-crumb iya kuvele ithambile kakuhle.
Umzuzu wokuzalwa womntwana ngamnye unomxholo ohlukeneyo wemisipha kunye nemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yemoto. Ezinye iintsana azibonakaliyo kwaye zingasebenzi, kanti ezinye zichasene. Kuyafana nokuqonda kwengqondo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba usebenze kumntwana: utshintshe ukuhamba kwakhe, ujike ecaleni linye, uthethe naye kwaye umomothele, ummise.
Ngenyanga yesibini
Impawu kunye neempawu zomntu ziqala ukubonakala engqondweni, ngoko kufuneka ufumane indlela ethile. Umntwana ujonge ngenyameko yonke into ejikelezile, ulungisa ngokucacileyo yonke into eyenzekayo emehlweni akhe aze athabathe izandi. Ngoko ke, ukuba akayithandi into ethile, uya kukwazisa ngokukhawuleza ngayo ngokumemeza kwakhe. Okwangoku, ukukhala yindlela ephela yokubonakalisa ukungafuni kwakhe. Ukhalela xa elambile, xa ethatywe okanye xa kukho into ephazamisayo.
Kakuspokoit crumb, uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi kuya kunciphisa iphunga lakho okanye ukuthintela uthando. Ngenyanga yesibini unokuzama ukumnika umntwana isisindo, kodwa akubona bonke abantwana abayiqonda.
Ngenyanga yesibini umntwana uqala ukunyuka, ukujika intloko. Ukuhambela akusiyonto, kodwa iyazi kwaye inenjongo.
Indlela yokusebenza nomntwana :
- sebenzisa amathoyizi ahlukeneyo;
- ukuphuhliswa kwamehlo;
- uthetha nomntwana kangangoko kunokwenzeka;
- Vumela i-crumb iphulaphule izandi nomculo;
- ukuqonda ngokucacileyo i-crumb;
- ukufunda iimvumi zezingane ngexesha leemidlalo;
- qalisa ukwenza ukuqeqeshwa komzimba: thumela izibambo kumacala, uze uwele kubo esifubeni. Khuphula imilenze kwaye uphathe.
Inyanga yesithathu
Ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo somntwana, qinisa imisebenzi yaso. Umntwana uya kwenza ngokubanzi nangakumbi. Uya kuhlolisisa nomdla izifundo ezintsha. Ingane iya kukwazi ukuba ikuxelele oko kukukhathazayo. Uya kuba noxolo kakhulu. Uya kuyidinga ukunxibelelana ngakumbi nabantu. Ngoko ke, siya kufuneka sidlale kunye naye.
Ngenyanga yesithathu, umntwana kufuneka abambe kwaye achukumise ipen, owamnika yona. Ukuba akayiyo, ngoko kufuneka uqhagamshelane nogqirha. Ngeli xesha, umntwana usuqalile ukuvelisa i-reflex, ngoko ke uya kuguqula ikhanda lakhe ngokunyamezela ukuba afune ingxowa, kwaye ngoko ngenzondelelo ukunwa ubisi. Ukongezelela, zonke izinto eziza kumbetha, uya kutsala emlonyeni.
Inyanga yesithathu i-crumb isele ihamba kakuhle kwaye ijika. Ngethuba lo mdlalo, unako ukuphakamisa i-handles up, kwaye sele sele uzimela ngokuzimeleyo ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala.
Inyana yaseKezanat inenzuzo:
- Mbonise imifanekiso ecacileyo;
- uyifake ezandleni zezakhiwo ezahlukeneyo kunye nemifanekiso;
- ukuxelisa izandi ozithandayo;
- ukwenza umsebenzi osebenzayo ngaphezulu: imilenze yebhayisikili;
Inyanga yesine yonyaka yokuphuhlisa
Ngeli thuba, inkqubo yokuzifundela iqala. Kukho uphuhliso olukhawulezayo lweemvakalelo: inyane lifunda ukuziva lusizi kwaye livuya. Abazali bakuva ukuhleka okukhulu, kwaye bangaboni nje ukumomotheka. Yonke into iyathakazelisa kwi-crumb, ngoko thabatha kunye nawe rhoqo.
Kukho izandi ezintsha kwiintetho zomntwana, phakathi kweyiphi na umntu onokuva iingcamango ezilinde ixesha elide okanye ubaba.
Qhubeka nokuzilolonga kunye nomntwana. Qeqesha umntwana ngokusesikweni, kodwa kuphela into anokuyenza. Udla ngokumnika izinto ezintsha. Ungakulibala ukuphuhlisa imimandla engqondweni: funda iingoma kunye nokuxelela iingongoma. Sebenzisa iziboniso ezincinane kumntwana. Kwiimidlalo ugubungela i-crumb kwaye iphosa.
Isiqingatha sonyaka wobomi
Ngeli xesha, i-crumb iya kufunda ezininzi. I-Kroha inokukwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwale ngcamango "njengeyakhe" kunye "nomnye". Abazali baya kukwazi ukuva kwiintetho zentsana zabo ngokucacileyo iimfuno: kwisibambo, ukutya, ukulala nokunye.
UMalyshuzh uyazi indlela yokuguqulwa kwisisu sakhe emhlane, ngokukhawuleza ukubetha imilenze ebhedini. Ukongeza, unokukwazi ukulawula ukuhamba kwakhe.
Indlela yokujongana nosana ezintandathu ezintandathu? Kulula kakhulu. Ukwandisa inani lamathoyizi kunye nekiso. Bonisa umboniso wakhe ubude obude kwisibuko. Vumela ukuzama ukuzama ukuziva izinto zokushisa ezahlukeneyo. Ngethuba lokudlala, sebenzisa iimbongo ezivelisa abantwana ezahlukeneyo. Fundisa umntwana ukuba anciphise kwaye aphakamise isibambo, usebenzisa ixesha lomdlalo.
Inyanga yesibhozo nesibhozo yobomi
UKrohauzhe ngokucacileyo uyazi "wakhe" kwaye uyazi ukuba angaphatha njani abazali bakhe kuphela, kodwa nabo bahlala naye. Uqaphele abantu bezinye iintlanga, aze azibonele yena ngomona omkhulu. Ingane ifuna ukuba nomama kuyo yonke indawo, yondle, i-spank njalonjalo.
Yenza iinqwenela zomntwana, ungayichukumisi. Kule minyaka awuyi kuphazamisa, i-atolko iphakamisa ummandla wemoya. Khumbula ukuba ngowomnyaka wokuqala wokuphila, amava aseMamadolzhna anamaqabane omntu osondelene nomzimba.
Ngalesi sihlandlo, umntwana wakho usenokuzikhupha kwiipenki, uhlale phantsi, ume emilenzeni. Uqala ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza aze athathe izinto ezandleni zombini, ziguqule. Uqala ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi, ngoko i-crumb izakudonsa nayiphi na into encinci emlonyeni. Ngeli xesha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka iliso ukhuseleko lokukhupha kwaye kususe izinto ezinobungozi kunokwenzeka.
Inxano ikhula, kwaye nayo iyakwandisa isangqa sezinto zokudlala: imbiza, iintsimbi, iikhabhinethi, i-maminakosmetika kunye nezinye izinto zasendlini. Ngokukodwa ekukholiseni kwakhe kukukhokelela iipoksi kunye neensel. Naliphi na into iya kulahlwa kwaye iyanconywa, ize iphonswe ngaphandle.
Kwiyiphi na iminyaka, nangayiphi na imeko, awukwazi ukushiya umntwana wodwa, kuba uhlakulela ingqalelo. Vala zonke izinto eziyingozi phantsi kwesihluthulelo.
Yenza inxaxheba kwintsana. Uyijikeleze emagxeni, kwimilenze, wenze izithintelo kuye kwi-mattress pad. Xa unikeza umntwana izinto zokusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke ezandleni zakho, qiniseka ukubiza amagama abo. Kwiimidlalo, sebenzisa amathoyizi emfundo: iipramamidi, ii cubes, kunye nezinto ezinjalo.
Ukususela kwiinyanga ezilisithoba ukuya kunyaka
Umfundi ufunde ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Uzama ukwenza konke ngokwakhe. Iimidlalo ezithandayo zifihla-kwaye-zifuna, ibhola okanye i-catch-up. Umsebenzi wengane akanakho imida kule minyaka. Njengangaphambili, umsebenzi wakhe ozithandayo ukwazi umhlaba ojikelezayo, kunye nokuxelisa izandi kunye nokunyakaza.
Yenza inxaxheba kwintsana ekuhambeni. Bonisa umntwana kwaye umxelele yonke into eyenzeka ngeenxa zonke. Buza imibuzo yomntwana. Funda ukupenda kunye naye. Masibeke izinto ngesandla ezandisa ukona okubhaliweyo: i-kiwi ekhuni, i-tape ene-sticky, iphepha kunye nezinto ezinje.