Enyanisweni, akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana usondliwe, atyulelwe, adle ngokugqithiseleyo, ulunge lokushisa, ungaguli, kodwa ukhale. Akukho sizathu esinokubangela ukuphazamiseka, kwaye umntwana ubonisa ukunganeliseki. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa iingcebiso ezinzima malunga nendlela yokuzolalisa iintsana ezililayo.
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze, qi ni sekise ukuba akukho sizathu sokuchithwa kwengane. Mhlawumbi ulahlekelwa ngcaciso ethile, kwaye umntwana ubeka nje wena. Emva koko, ukumemeza kunye neenyembezi yithuba elilodwa lokuba axelele iimfuno zakhe kunye nokunganeliseki. Izizathu ezinokwenzeka zokukhala:
ukulamba; umnqweno wokulala;
- malaise; ukucaphukisa isikhumba;
ukwesaba, ukusabela kumoya ombi (umzekelo, isimo sengxabano, ukungquzulana kwintsapho), njengoko bekude kwaziwa ukuba abantwana - banomdla kakhulu kwiimeko ezizungezile; Ukongeza, umntwana usenokusabela ngokutshintshwa kwemozulu, uxinzelelo, izigaba ezithile zomjikelezo wenyanga;
kubanda okanye kushushu;
idiapi ezingcolileyo;
- umnqweno wokuqhagamshelana nomama, umnqweno wokutsala ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela, ukukhathalela, ukuthandana;
nabanye.
2. Shintsha indawo yokukhala umntwana. Ukuba uthetha amanga, zithatha ezandleni zakho, zisondeza kuwe, zitshintshe ukusuka kwicala ukuya kwelinye icala okanye amaxesha amaninzi phezulu.
3. Ukunyusa umntwana, sebenzisa ukunyakaza. Hamba naye ezandleni zakho, ilitye kwisitulo sokuqhaqhazelayo, ngokulula ukuyijika okanye idwala kwindawo yokulala.
4. Ukushisa kunesiphumo sokunciphisa abantwana. Gquba umntwana ebusweni obufudumele okanye obushushu, ucinezele kuye. Ngaphambi kokuba ubeke kwisibhedlele, ukufudumala indawo yokulala (faka i-pad yokufudumala okanye nje into efudumeleyo).
5. Inkqubo endala eqinisekisiwe yizwi. Thetha kwintsana, bhala i-lullaby, vula umculo omnandi. Ukongeza kwesozwi, isandi esixolisayo sinomsindo: ucoceko olungasetyenziswayo, amanzi, imvula.
6. Thinta. Ukubetha umzimba womntwana, u-tummy kweso lesibini, kiss.
7. Yondla umntwana ngesifuba, akukho nto eyenza yena kunye nonina bayondelelene (ngelishwa, le ndlela iba, ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ayisebenzisayo). Kwixesha elizayo, unako ukunika umntwana intshukumo okanye ibhotile.
8. Ukuba indawo yokuhlala kunye nemvume yemozulu, thabatha umntwana ngaphandle kwesitalato. Umoya omtsha kunye nezandi ziya kuphazamisa kwaye zilawule umntwana okhalayo. Abantwana abaninzi banokulala ngokulala emoyeni omtsha.
9. Ukuphazamisa umntwana, qwa lasela. Yizise kwiwindow, bonisa into enomdla, okanye ukubonakalisa kwayo kwisibuko. Nika umdlalo ozithandayo.
10. Ukuba uzolile ukukhala umntwana usana ixesha elide, menze uhlaziye kakuhle: izithende, imilenze, izandla, uhlasele isisu. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa ama-creams nee-oyili ezizodwa kunye nezicatshulwa zokuphunga izityalo. Bathe umntwana emanzini afudumeleyo xa ephendula kakuhle xa ehlamba kwaye ethanda ukuhlamba.
Emva kokuba uzame iindlela ezahlukeneyo, ngokukhawuleza uya kuqonda oko umntwana wakho akuthandayo, kwaye yintoni indlela esebenza ngayo ngempumelelo xa uxolo umntwana. Emva kwakho konke, umntwana ngamnye ufuna iindlela ezizimeleyo. Kwimeko nayiphi na, kude kube ngumzuzu xa umntwana wakho efunda ukubonisa iimfuno zakho kunye nezicelo ngoncedo lwamagama, kuya kufuneka ubenqabile ukuba ungakabi namacandelo amancinci kunye namacandelo.