Umntwana uxhomekeke kumntu omdala esemncinci. Iimpawu zokuziphatha kweenkokheli zentana ngoncedo lwabantu abadala: umama, utata, izihlobo ezifutshane. Imisitho kwaye ibonisa ukuba umntwana uthetha nabantu abadala. Intsana sele isenomdla ekuthintekeleni yonke into ngezandla zayo, yeyiphi intlobo yokudlala ithambile okanye i-rubber, iqala ukunyuka kuyo yonke indawo - ivula iitafile zobusuku, ifafaze i-croup. Ufuna ukwazi zonke izinto kwi-touch. Umntwana kufuneka ahlale eqhagamshelana nomdala. Kodwa umntwana akakwazi ukucela uncedo aze athi into ngaphandle kokuqonda intetho.
Ukunxibelelana nomntwana kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kubantu abadala, indlela angayilungisa ngayo le nxibelelwano, yintoni imfuneko yokwenza umntwana. Ukuba umntwana akanakho ukunxibelelana nomntu omdala, ugcinwa kuphela kwaye anelisekile kuphela ngezidingo, ngoko ke abantwana abanjalo bahluleka ukuphuhlisa intetho yabo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umntu omdala unakekele ingqalelo kumntwana ngokusebenzisa i-chur, ubambe isenzo sakhe kwi-fly, enze konke akufunayo, ngoko inkwenkwe leyo inokuhamba ngaphandle kwenkulumo ixesha elide. Kodwa xa abantu abadala bephoqele umntwana, bathetha amagama ngokucacileyo, le ngenye into, kwimeko nje umntwana usenza intando yabazali.
Imfuno yokunxibelelana ikhula ngokuxhumana nomntu omdala malunga nomsebenzi wesifundo. Kungenxa yomsebenzi wenjongo ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukufunda intsingiselo yamagama, imifanekiso yezinto.
Ukuthetha kwentetho ebuntwaneni kubunjwe kwindlela ezimbini: inkwenkwe iyaqonda intetho yomntu omdala kwaye intetho yakhe yenziwa.
Umntwana akakwazi ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngezivakalisi. Okokuqala ufunda ukubalisa amagama nezinto. Ngokomzekelo, umama uthi kuye: "Ngoku, le nto yokudlala ye-Zaika." Umntwana ubheka umdlalo, ukhumbula oko kubonakala ngathi. Emva kwesikhashana, umama angacela: "Uphi i-Bunny?". Emva koko, umntwana ukhangele umkhangeli, apho umdlalo wakhe udlala khona. Kodwa akubona bonke abadala, umntwana usabela ngokulinganayo. Unako ukubonisa unina apho iminwe yakhe, impumlo, umlomo, kwaye uyayinakunceda izicelo zabanye abantu abadala. Umama nomntwana basondelelene naye, nangona kuthethwa kwezwi lakhe okanye ujonge umntwana eqonda yonke into.
Kwiinyanga zokuqala zonyaka wesibini, ukuba umntwana uyazi igama kunye nendlela ekhangeleka ngayo, ngoko umxelela ukuba "Ndiphe i-Bear", umntwana uya kunika umntu omdala, ngaphandle kokuba uMishka uza kuhlala kwindawo ethile kufuphi. Ukuba i-kid ayiboni itekisi, ngoko uya kuqala ukuyifuna ngokujonga, ukuphendula kwisicelo somntu omdala. Ukuba kukho i-Bunny, iMishka, i-Cheburashka kunye nomntu omdala ophinda athi "Nika i-Cheburashka" maxesha amaninzi ngaphambi komntwana, ngoko ukukhangela kwengane kuya kuguqulwa phezu kwazo zonke iidyski kunye nokuyeka ukudlala kunye nokufuneka ufikelele kuyo ngepeni. Kodwa akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukuba umntwana uthanda uBunny ngaphezulu, ngoko uya kukhetha umdlalo owuthandayo.
Ngomntwana wesibini unyaka wobomi, ngokucela komntu omdala, kulula kakhulu ukuqala ukwenza isenzo kunokuyeka ukwenza oko kuqalisiwe. Uyayiqonda igama elithi "HAYI", kodwa umlingo awusebenzelanga kuye, njengoko kuya kuthanda. Ngokomzekelo, uMisha omncinci uzama ukufaka isikhonkwane kwisiseko, unina uyakhala esithi "Awukwazi!", Kodwa inkwenkwe izama ukubambelela isikhonkwane nantoni na, ayiqondi ukuba kuyingozi.
Ngomnyaka wesithathu kuphela, isibonakaliso sokupheliswa kwezenzo kulungile. Ingane isele iphulaphule ngenyameko, yintoni abantu abadala abakuthethileyo, sele sele bezama ukuqonda ingxoxo yabo. Abantwana sele bephulaphule ngenyameko imibhalo yamagama, imibongo.
Ukuphulaphula nokuqonda kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yomntwana. Ngentetho yakhe yoncedo yindlela ebalulekileyo yokwazi ukunyaniseka.
Inkulumo esebenzayo ikhula kumntwana ukuya kunyaka kunye nesiqingatha, kodwa ngokukhawuleza inani labo lilandelelwano lwama-30-40 ukuya kuma-100 amagama.
Emva kweminyaka emine nesiqingatha umntwana uqala ukwenza iinzame zokubhengeza loo mazwi engaziwayo, oko kukuthi, uthatha inyathelo. Ekupheleni konyaka wesibini, kukho amagama angama-300 kwisigama sakhe, ngomnyaka wesithathu - amagama ama-500-1500.
Intetho yomntwana ayifani nenkulumo yomntu omdala ekuqaleni. Intetho enjalo ibizwa ngokuba yi-autonomous. Ingane isebenzisa amagama abantu abadala abangazange bayisebenzise. Zifinyeleleke ngakumbi kubantwana ukuze zivakalise. "Ubisi" ubiza ngokuthi "mocha".
Ngemfundo efanelekileyo yokuthetha, intetho yokuzimela iyaphela. Ukuba umntu omdala uvakalisa ngokucacileyo amagama, ngoko umntwana uyazama ukuba oku, ukuba ngokuchaseneyo uxhasa inkulumo yokuzimela, umntwana uya kuthetha kakubi ixesha elide.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ukubunjwa kwesakhiwo segrama yokuthetha. Ekuqaleni kwesivakalisi, abantwana baqulethwe ngamagama amabini angatshintshi ngokuzalwa kunye necala. Kamva intetho yomntwana iyaxhumeka.
Ekupheleni kobudala, abantwana bavele benza amagama kwizivakalisi.
Ukunxibelelana phakathi komntwana kunye nomdala kukubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuculweni kwengqondo kwengane.