Ngonyaka umntwana ufunda ngokuthe ngcembe ukuqonda intsingiselo yamagama ahlukeneyo. Amanye amagama awavayo ngentetho yabazali ngamaxesha amaninzi ngemini, kunye neentetho ezahlukeneyo.
Okokuqala, inkunzi ifunda ukuqonda kuphela amagama kapapapa nonina, kuba banxibelelana naye kakhulu. Emva koko umntwana ufunda ukuqonda intetho yabanye abantu abadala - izalamane nabahlobo, uyaziqonda iintetho ezahlukeneyo zokuthetha. Intetho yabantu bezinye iintlanga i-kid ayayiqondi, kuba abantu abahlukeneyo baneentetho ezahlukeneyo, ubuso obuso, ubuso obungaqhelekanga kwintsana.
Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba akhulume kwangethuba kwaye aqonde amagama akho, kufuneka ulandele intetho yakho kunye nokubiza amagama ngamagama. Biza into efanayo ngendlela efanayo, kungekhona ngamagama ahlukeneyo. Xa uthetha nomntwana, yakha izibonelelo ezilula kunye nezizodwa. Thetha ngakumbi ngentsana malunga nezo zinto kunye nezinto azibona zonke ixesha. Ukuba wenza okuthile, kunye nebhokhwe ikujonga, qiniseka ukumxelela into oyenzayo. Thetha nomntwana wakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Thetha naye zama ukuzama ukuthetha ngendlela enokwenzeka, ngeentetho ezahlukeneyo. Buza umntwana, umkhuthaze ukuba enze isenzo, umemeza. Kodwa ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana ufuna ukuphendula okuthile kuwe, qiniseka ukumnika eli thuba. Akufanele ulawule enye igama lokuqala elikhankanywe ngumntwana. Konke oko umntwana akutshoyo kufanelekile kukudumisa. Ngoko ufuna ukuthetha ngakumbi. Phendula entetho yomntwana ngokuvuyayo, mkhuthaze ngokunyanisekileyo. Musa ukulungisa amagama okuqala omntwana, kuba izakhono zakhe zokuthetha zenziwa kuphela. Ukulungisa umntwana, ubeka umngcipheko kuye kumnqweno wokuthetha nawe, okubi kakhulu, kuba umntwana uya kuthetha kamva.
Kwinqanaba lokubunjwa kwalo, intetho yomntwana ikhula, ngenxa yenkxaso kunye nokuvunyelwa kwabazali. Iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo zikhuphula ukuphuhliswa kwentetho.
Kungekudala umntwana uza kuqala ukuqonda amagama angamanye kuphela, kodwa kunye nemiyalelo elula - ngenisa incwadi, unike idonki. Emva koko umntwana uya kufunda ukunikezela ukuba udlale kulo mdlalo okanye lowo mdlalo, oqukethe imiqondiso eqhelekileyo: ladushki, magpie.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana akayi kulahla emva kwabanye ekukhulululeni intetho, kuyimfuneko ukuba uzele kwaye anelisekile, ngamanye amazwi, umntwana kufuneka abe nokulungelelaniswa kwimihla ngemihla kunye nokunakekelwa okufanelekileyo.
Intetho yomntwana iqala ukuphuhliswa xa ukuhamba kuthatha indawo yendawo. Ukususela kwiinyanga ezilisithandathu, inkunzi iyakwazi ukuphendula kwiimpawu ezilula ezilula: ba-ba-ba, ewe-yebo-ewe. Kwiinyanga ezili-9, ukubethelwa kweentlobo kubhekene nexesha layo-linemibono eyahlukeneyo, efana neyantetho yabantu abadala. Intsana ihlala isabela ngamazwi xa abazali bethetha naye. I-Lepethe igxotha kuphela xa umntwana efunda ukubiza amagama okwenene: unina, uyise, unike, baba, av-av, njl.
I-Kid ayithandi ukuthetha kuphela nabazali, kodwa kunye neetayiti, umzekelo nge doll.
Awukwazi ukuhlala ungahambelani neengxaki zobuntwana. Ukuba uyaphinda izandi zentsana, eyazibizayo, uya kuziphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kuxoxwa kakuhle nomntwana.
Emva koko unokufaka iitys kwiingxoxo zakho. Faka iimvakalelo ezininzi kwintetho yakho, ukuze kamva inkunzi ibuye iphinde iphindiselele.
Umntwana akachazi izicelo zakhe zokuqala ngamazwi, kodwa ngezenzo, ukuziphatha. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana usefuna ukusela, uya kubonisa ukuba unina iglasi okanye ukumnika umdlalo ukuze atyelele ingqalelo.
Inyaniso enomdla kukuba umntwana uyaqonda amagama angakumbi kunokuba athethe. Kudala, njengoko esho igama lokuqala, uyaziqonda izicelo ezilula zabazali bakhe - zinike, zithathe. Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumene ukuba abantwana abangakwazi ukuthetha amagama 10 baqonda malunga nama-50 amagama.
Ngokulandela iziphakamiso ezingentla, ungafundisa umntwana ukuba athethe kwangaphambili.
Ukuba uneminyaka engama-1000 umntwana engazi ukuba athetha njani elinye igama, ukuba uthe cwaka kwaye akenzi nasiphi na isandi kukho konke, oku kufuneka kukuqaphele. Le yimiqondiso yokuqala yeziphene kwiintetho zentetho okanye kwinkqubo ye-nervous.