Unomdla
Ubonakala ngathi? I-Kid igxininise, ijonge ngenyameko kwaye inomdla kwizinto (ngokuqhelekileyo into). Uthobezela aze aphakamise iincinci zakhe, umlomo wakhe u-ajar kancane, unokujonga kwizinto azijongayo, kwenye into, kodwa kwakhona ubuyela kuye. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kakade, ukuba udlale i-rattle ayikho into enomdla kakhulu, kodwa kwi-kid iya kuba yinto engavamile. Ukwandisa amathuba ayo - makuchukumise into entsha kwaye uyidlale xa ikhuselekile. Khuthaza umdla wakhe kumava amatsha kunye namava, ukuphawula malunga nento eyenzekayo, nangona ukhumbuza umvakalisi wezemidlalo: "Le yintsholongwane entsha, ithawula xa ndidibanisa njengaye. Masiwuthathe kwisibambo uze usitshangise. " Ukufunda ihlabathi kunye nawe kukhawuleza ukuphuhlisa kwengqondo yomntwana. Xa inkwenkwe ingabhekiseli kwinto yokudlala, kodwa ifikelele kuyo, kuyimfuneko yokufumana ulwazi olungakumbi, oko kuthetha ukuba ixesha lokuqalisa ukuqonda liqala.
Uyakhathazeka
Ubonakala ngathi? Amakhonkco omlomo ayancipha, zombini iinki zidibene kunye "nendlu" kwaye zikhwankqisa, isangqa esithuthumelayo, mhlawumbi sele isiva. Ezi zibonakaliso zibonisa ukuba umntwana ushukukuthele kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukhululekile, ukwenzela ukuba xa ungaphenduli, uya kufumana ukukhala kunye nokukhala okungenakukhutshwa. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Qinisekisa uxolo noxolo. Inani elikhulu lokubonakalisa, ukuhamba okude okanye izihlobo ezisebenzayo - konke oku kunokubangela iintlungu nexhala. Okokuqala, yithatha nje ingalo ezandleni zakho uze ubhekane ngobumnene uze ucindezele ngobumnene esifubeni sakho - ukuzulazula kweengqungquthela, ukucoca umzimba kunye noluntu lomama kuya kunceda umntwana ukuba ahlalise.
Ulahlekile
Ubonakala ngathi? Ufuna ukunyamekela: uyabetha, agubungula, akhankqalaza aze ahlasele, uphonsa amathoyizi phantsi. Ukumamatheka nokuhleka, ukuba uyayithobela okanye uthabathe ithoyiyi ejected from floor. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kuyinto enhle ukuba umntwana ucele ingqwalasela yakho: kuthetha ukuba kukho uxhulumano oluqinileyo phakathi kwakho. Njengoko ingqondo ikhula, imfuno yomntwana yezindlela ezintsha zokuvuselela ikhula. Ukuba ezinyangeni ezintathu umntwana usenokuchitha iiyure nje ekhangele ubuso bakho okanye udwebe ithawula, emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa kuya kuthatha inani elincinci lezinto ezithandekayo. Mnike into elula, kodwa ikuvumela ukuba udlale ngeendlela ezininzi. Enye kunye neefayile ezifanayo ziyakwazi ukugoba, ukuvakala okanye "ukubaleka" ukusuka kwintsana ebhedeni, kwaye ukukhangela okukhanyayo kube yibhola, "vuthela" okanye usondeze. Hlabelela ingoma eqhelekileyo-kodwa utshintshe isigqi, isantya sokusebenza kunye nesandi sezwi, engeza amagama amatsha. Akudingeki ukuba ube ngumthombo kuphela wokuzonwabisa - inkwenkwe esele ivela kwiinyanga ezi-4 idinga ixesha lokukhulula ukufundela oko akubonayo.
U nomsindo
Ubonakala ngathi? Ubuso bomntwana bubomvu, ngexesha, amehlo akhe aphelile, uyakhala ngokukhawuleza kwaye engafuni ukudibanisa-uyakunxusa okanye akubethe.
Yintoni endiyenzayo? Iimvakalelo zabantwana ziselula kakhulu, ubuchopho babo abukaphuhliswanga kwiinkcazo ezinzima, njengokuba, umzekelo, umona okanye uhlazo. Ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi umntwana akanakhathazeka, akanalo ubanda, impumlo yakhe ayifakiwe, mhlawumbi uyacaphuka ngenxa yokuba ulambile okanye ukhathele ukubonakala. Emva koko iindlela ezilula ziza kunceda: ukondla, ukhupha kwaye uncede ulale. Ukukhusela umntwana - kwaye akukho mzekelo ungazwakali, nangona ukuba unomdla kakhulu. Yivakalisa, yikhuphe kakuhle, yitshitshise into edibanisayo: yinto elula "sh-sh-sh ..." okanye "shh, konke okulungileyo" kuya kukwanela. Musa nje ukuqala iingxabano ezili-8 ezinjenge-Vanya, mhlawumbi, elambileyo, ngoku umama uya kucinga into.
Mama, ndikhangele kuwe!
Ingane ifundela ngokucophelela ubuso bakho ngesizathu-ngoko ihlola ihlabathi. Nika isandla kulo! Ukuziphatha kwakho kukuchaphazela ngqo ukuphuhliswa kwayo. Nazi iindlela zokwenza kube ngempumelelo. "Amehlo kwiso." Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo kuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu yonxibelelwano kunye nokuqonda phakathi komama nomntwana. Musa ukufihla amehlo akho, rhoqo ukuvumela umntwana ukuba akubukele ixesha elide. "Sinesibindi."
Ingane ikopisha ubuso bakho ngobuso. Ngaphambi kokungena naye kwindawo entsha okanye ngokokuqala ngqa ukuhlangabezana nomntwana, kubonakala kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonise isibindi nesibindi. Uya kukuphinda - kwaye ukukopisha "ithemba" lakho liya kukhangela ukwesaba kwakhe.
"Yintoni le nto?"
Thetha zakho iimvakalelo. Dlala ngomntwana: mququzelele ubuso obuhlukileyo kwaye undixelele uhlobo luni lokuthetha. Bonisa ubumnandi, ukudana, ukuhleka okanye ukwesaba kwaye uthi: "Umama uhleka", "Umama uyavuya", "Umama uyakhala". Ngokukhawuleza uqala ukufundisa umntwana, ngokukhawuleza uza kuqala ukuqonda iimvakalelo ngokwakhe ngokwenza oku, kuya kwenziwa ngokukhawuleza.
Uloyika
Ubonakala ngathi? Amehlo avulekileyo, ukubonakala kungenangqiqo, iimbambo kunye neengxube zinokuthuthumela. Mhlawumbi umntwana usanqabile kwaye akahambanga, okanye mhlawumbi sele ekhulile. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Uncinci kakhulu ukuzinqabisa yena ngokwakhe, kwaye ngaphandle koko, akakwazi ukuqonda ukuba yintoni eyoyikisayo. Isiqalo semoto esisigxina sivakala ngathi isandi sendawo - ngenxa yokuba uyayazi impawu zeemoto, kwaye umntwana owuvayo okokuqala unokusasazeka. Thatha umntwana ezandleni zakho uze uchaze oko kwenzeka ngokwenene. Nangona engayiqondi amagama akho, ilizwi lakho elizolileyo liya kumxelela ukuba konke kulungile.
Uziva ekhululekile
Ubonakala ngathi? Umntwana ukhala, ukukhala ngokukhawuleza kuqala ngokukhawuleza, ubuso bubomvu, bunzima, imilenze iyashukumisa ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye icinezela esiswini. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Lo mfanekiso ufana neenkcampu ezibuhlungu kwiisisu. Ukuxiliswa komzimba ngesisu, ukusebenzisa "ibhasikidi" kunceda ukukhululwa kweegesi. Intlungu ye-colic iyancipha kwi-exposure to heat-you can put a diaper in the baby's belly, ifakwe ngentsimbi eshushu, uyigubungele kwisibethe okanye uvele ubeke izandla zakho, ucinezele okanye ubeke isisu sakho ehlombe lakho. Ukuba isiqingatha seyure emva kokuba amanyathelo athathwe ngumntwana aphuculanga kwaye ukukhala kuyomeleza - kungcono ukudibana nodokotela.
U yavuya
Ubonakala ngathi? Ekubeni ubuso bomntwana bubanzi, ujabule (kwaye unomdla kakhulu!) Smile. Uyazigubungela iingalo kunye nemilenze yakhe, athethe into ethile, amagama athi "incoko" athambekele. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Jonga kwaye ujabulele umdlalo omhle. Ncedisa indlela enhle yomntwana, mncoma, uyaphulawule - oku kuya kumnika ukuzithemba kwaye kuya kwandisa umnqweno wokwabelana nawe uvuyo. Uthanda ukubona ukuba ukummotheka kwakhe kufumana impendulo enjalo. Xa uneminyaka engama-8 ukuya kweye-9 umntwana ufumana umvakalelo wokungaziphathi kakuhle kwezinto, oko kukuthi, uyaqonda ukuba into ikhona nokuba akayi kubona okwangoku. Le yithuba elifanelekileyo kakhulu lokuqala ukudlala nomntwana "ku-ku". Ungazifihla, okanye ungafihla amathoyizi. Iimidlalo ezinjalo ziya kumnceda kakhulu umntwana. Le yindlela enhle yokuqinisekisa umntwana ukuba uyakhala ngokukhawuleza.