Umlingani wesinenekazi sensimbi, njengomgaqo, uye wakhiwa ukususela ebuntwaneni. Abafazi abanjalo bokuqala kuzo zonke iinkokheli kuzo zonke izinto. Owesifazane oqinileyo unakoloko ekwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo ngokwakhe, ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na imeko enzima okanye ingxaki, uxanduva lwezenzo zakhe kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba bubi kangakanani emphefumlweni wakhe, uhlala ebomini enentloko yakhe ephakamileyo. Ngendlela, aba bafazi basoloko bekwazi ukuphumelela kuyo yonke into. Yintoni ongayithethi ngayo ngobomi babo, apho amaninzi amaninzi loo mfazi enesizungu, kwaye ubuhlobo bakhe kunye nesondo esomeleleyo luya kulahlwa. Konke oku kungenxa yokuba abafazi abanjalo bafuna kakhulu. Iphinde iphendule kubo kungekhona nje kuphela abaqeqeshi, kodwa nabahlobo abasondeleyo. Kodwa ke, nangona kunjalo, umfazi oqinileyo uye wajwayele ukwenza umsebenzi oqinileyo womzimba kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba afake izicathulo zesifazane kwi-hairpin. Ngelinye igama, umfazi wanamhlanje unokuyeka ukugibela e-gallop aze afake indlu egxumekayo ... Ngoko ke amadoda sele anike umntu ukuba aqale ikhanda, kodwa ngokubhekisele ekubuthathaka komfazi oqinileyo, baziva beziva.
Ienkolelo zobomi bomfazi oqinileyo.
Abafazi banamandla kakhulu kwiindawo zabo ezikufutshane, kwaye bengasondeli kuphela, ababonanga imimiselo ngokwabo ukuba balandele. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba oku kubangelwa kukuba kukho yonke indlela yokuphila kunye nokubunjwa kobuntu "be-Iron Lady", akukho mntu wamyeka nje, kodwa wada wawukhupha kwinkokheli, uqala kwii-creaks ngokwabo. Yingakho loo ntokazi ibonakala kuyo yonke imiba yobomi kwaye ayiboni ngokulinganayo nonke. Kwaye akukho mntu unelungelo lokubeka izithintelo endleleni yokufezeka. Yingakho umoya oqinileyo wowesifazane waza wenza umgaqo wobomi, ukuba ungumzekelo wokuxelisa njalo njalo. Kodwa oko konke kuzisa izilungiso zakhe ebomini bakhe, kufuneka nje aphile kwimithetho yakhe, ayenayo ilungelo lokuphulaphula.
Zama ngomfanekiso womntu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuzama ngomfanekiso womntu, nazo zonke iimpawu zomntu, umfazi akaqapheli ukuba uyaba ngumfazi. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, aba bafazi babheka amadoda anamehlo ahluke kakhulu, kwizinga elincinci lokubona "njengobuthathaka." Ngenxa yeso sizathu, intombi enamandla kunazo zonke kwindawo yokuqala ebomini iyimisebenzi, inkululeko epheleleyo kunye nokuzimela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akukuthinteli umfazi wesimo somnqweno wokuziva unamandla entendeni yesigxina, kodwa ukuchukumisa lobu buthathaka kuthetha ukufumana ukhuphiswano olukufutshane nawe, oko kukuthi, indoda. Emva koko, owesifazane oqinileyo bonke ubomi bakhe bekulwela ukubonisa amadoda onke ukuzimela nokuqina. Yingakho, ukuzama ezi zimpawu zomntu, umfazi ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ukuzimela kwakhe.
Indoda yowesifazane oqinileyo.
Indoda, njengomthetho, i-knight eneqhinga elinamandla, elinenjongo kwaye elinesibindi kwihashe elimhlophe. Ngulo mfanekiso umfazi onomnye oyedwa ofuna ukubonakala kwintsimi eqinile, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uloyikeka ngumbono wokuthi loo nkwenkwe iya kuqina ngakumbi kunayo. Ngoko ke, abafazi abanjalo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba bangabikho, bakhethe okuchasene ngqo nala madoda. Ngendlela, olukhethiweyo le nkosikazi alisoloko lumncedisa ukuba uyonwabile, kodwa ukumkanikazi, ngoko ke nceda.
Ubuthathaka bhinqa elinamandla.
Abantu ababuthakathaka, nangona kunjalo i-paradoxical ingavakala, njengomtsalane ukhangela kubasetyhini abanjalo. Ngoko kufuneka sikhethe kulokho esinakho. Ngendlela, indoda enjalo inokuba ngumfazi ongokoqobo, ogqityiweyo ekugqibeleni ulwalamano kunye nokungaqondi kunye nokugxekwa kwabantwana. Oku kubangelwa kukuthi nawuphi na umntu onamandla ugxininiswa ngokuphindaphinda ngokubanzi (kwimeko yethu kwipketi), kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abaphathi bahlangabezana nokuguga ngokugqibeleleyo.
Impazamo ebomini yowesifazane oqinileyo.
Iphutha eliphambili lomfazi wesinyithi kukuba akakwazi ukunika isaphulelo kuye ngokwakhe. Ngokomzekelo, kutheni ngosuku lokuphuma, xa ixesha livumela, ukulala ngaphambi kokuhlwa kwasemini okanye ukuhamba ubusuku kungabikho izitya ezihlambulukileyo kunye ne-suiteded suit ... Le nkosikazi, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ixanduva kwaye ichanekile. Zizo zonke izihluthulelo, kodwa kunjalo, konke oku kuchaphazela kakhulu abantu abakujikelezile.
Ngaphezu koko, bonke ubuthathaka benkosikazi enamandla bancitshiswa ukuba babe nomnqweno wokunyanelana ngesondo esomeleleyo, kunye "kunye nabasetyhini" njengabo.
Okokugqibela yimfundo yabantwana. Unjalo unina unako ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo ukuzimela komntwana kunye neengcebiso zabo kunye nemizekelo ebomini.
Awuyi kuba "i-monster kwi skirt"?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuziqonda ukuba awukho into ofuna ukubonakala ngayo. Sitshintsha izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphila kunye nezinto ezixabisekileyo. Musa ukuzama ukwenza umsebenzi wabo kubo bonke, ngakumbi amadoda. Oku konke kukunceda ukuba uzive ungenawo "umshini osebenzayo", kodwa ngumfazi wangempela.
Emsebenzini, ungazami ukuthatha yonke into kuwe, hlala ubuthathaka kwaye wamukele uncedo lwabahlobo bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kutsala kuwe abantu kunye namadoda afanelekileyo.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, okwaneleyo ukuzama kwisigqubuthelo somntu, kungenjalo mhlawumbi emva koko okanye ekugqibeleni uya kugxininiswa ngokugcwele kwaye ulahlekelwe yinto yonke yobundlobongela kunye nobulili. Zijonge ngokwamehlo ahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye, ngenxa yesiphumo esihle, rhoqo kusasa, phambi kwesibuko, zicinge ungumfazi onobuhle kunye nosengozini. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uzive ukhululekile kunye namadoda. Khumbula ukuba amandla omfazi ebuthakathakeni bakhe, kunye ne-mask "yintombikazi yamatye" iyamqeda ukuba yedwa. Kwaye ngokubanzi, ukuxabana ngonaphakade nabantu abanakuze banike ithuba lokuva ukuvumelanisa konke ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo. Khumbula ukuba umfazi oqinileyo unokuhlala ekwazi ukubonisa ukulahla kwaye oku akusohlwayo ngumthetho!