Kwimeko efanayo, indoda kunye nomfazi, kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanayo, bona (ukuqonda) ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ukulindela okuhlukeneyo kubalingani. Kwaye ukuthumela kumlingani wakho umbono wakho weyure uya kuba nzima. Yileyo ke loo mfazi unemvakalelo kwaye uyatshintsha ukukhwaza. Ngetoni eyongeziweyo kunye nebango lokubonisa icala kwi-powerlessness. Ungaziqondi njani! Ndingakuxelela njani? Ndiqonde, ekugqibeleni!
Ngexesha elide, inqabileyo enkulu yokucaphukisa ijikeleze, okubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nayo. Yaye le ntlungu ayifuni naliphi na, kodwa kunoko iqokelela. I-voltage ibheka i-outlet, ukukhupha kwaye iyifumana. Ngelishwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, ngohlobo oluthile olungagqibekanga kwiimangalo ezingekho phantsi kwelanga, okubangela ukuba uvuseleleke. Yaye ingxabano ayinakupheka. Kwaye kuphela xa abantu ababini bengathandabuzekiyo besithi banqwenela, le meko ingakuphepha. Isaziso kungekhona amabango, oko kukufunayo ...... Okwenene, ndingathanda ukuba ufake i-slippers endaweni, ndiyakhubeka ngawo onke amaxesha.
Ngenjongo yokungafungi nomyeni wakhe, oko kukuthi, ukucima ngamabomu ukunganeliseki okuphumayo akukona ndlela efanayo. Kwintsapho, bobabini amaqabane bazama ukuqinisekisa ukuba batshatile, ubuncinci, ngokukhululekile. Yaye ukuba iimfuno ezilula zinganeliseki ngandlela-thile ngenduduzo yendawo yokuhlala, ulinde iingxaki. Ukuthula ngesifiso sakho, unike umyeni wakho ilungelo lokwenza ngendlela ayithandayo. Kwaye ulindele ukuba acinge. Ungazichukumisi. Ukuba kwakukho ithuba elincinci lokuba umyeni wakho uya kuqaphela iingcamango zakho, ubuncinane kufuneka abe ngumfazi. Oku kuncinci. Ngaloo nto, ukuze ugweme imeko apho umonde ungagqithiseli, musa ukunyamezela ... Yitsho ngaphandle kwesikhalazo, kodwa nje nje ngolwazi onokuthandayo. Le yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu, eyona mfutshane yokuqonda kwintsapho.
Indlela enkulu yokuphepha ukuqhuma kweemvakalelo, ngokuqinisekileyo kulandela ukuphazamisana. Shintshela kwisihloko esingabonakaliyo. Oku akuthethi ukuba ulungele ingxaki. Le yindlela yokususa iimvakalelo ezingadingekile kumbandela oxoxwa ngawo. Emva kokuncipha, mhlawumbi ukubuyela kumbuzo oxoxwe ngawo.
Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba umyeni akayena umchasi, kwaye kungekhona umchasi. Ukuba kumgca wokuqala kunye nomgca oyintloko ngumntu oyithandayo, owamtshatileyo. Kwaye ixesha lakho alizange likukhathaze ngeesokisi ezihlakazekile, ityhubhu evulekileyo yezinyosi ... kunye nezinye. Yaye intsapho yakho ayiyiyo imfazwe, apho kufuneka uphumelele indawo yakho phantsi kwelanga. Ukubuza malunga nokungaphumeleli komyeni wakhe, ukuphoqeleka ukuba sixabane ngale ndlela, okwesibini, khumbula iimpawu zakho ezintle. Ngamnye wethu uyazi kakuhle kakuhle. Umyeni wakho naye akanelisekanga nabanye babo, kwaye abanye bacinga ukuba akunakonakalisa, kwaye akakwazi nakubonayo.
Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokufungela kumyeni okanye ukungafungi. Impendulo iyabonakala. Ngomyeni wakhe kukho neminye imisebenzi emininzi, eyona nto imnandi kwaye inomsebenzi. Uya kumangaliswa, xa uzama ukuthetha nje ngezinto ezikukhathazayo. Amadoda alungiselelwe ukuba naliphi na isikhalazo somfazi abanombuzo wokuphendula. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Musa ukutshutshisa umyeni wakho ngokuqagela. Mncede yena kunye nawe. Ekugqibeleni, ubulumko bowesifazane buyingxenye yokwenza ikhaya libe nomoya wokufudumala, uthando kunye nokuqonda. Oku kufumaneka kuphela kumfazi. Ubulumko kuwe kwaye uthande.