Imbali yentsomi
"Andizange ndihambe ngale ndlela, kwaye loo ndawo yile mini kunye nelo lixa kwakukho, kwaye wavela kwelinye idolophu waza wadidanisa izitalato ..." Ngokuqinisekileyo, amabali anokuhluka , bangene enye inqobo), banento enye efanayo: unesiqiniseko sokuba le ntlanganiso yayilungiselelwe ukusuka phezulu, kwaye ngoku ucinga ukuba kuya kuba yingozi xa uhlala kwindawo engafanelekanga kunye nelo lixa. Gcina le ntswelo yokwesaba ixesha elide kunokwenzeka. Kwaye ibali ngokwalo, nalo. Mkhumbule kwezinye iimeko zothando (nangona imemori enjalo isele isithandana), xelela ngamanye amaxesha kubahlobo kunye nakanjani-kubantwana bakho. Ungavumeli ukuba abantu abanobuqili bangabuza imfihlelo yalo mcimbi. Amabali anjalo akhusela uthando, anceda ukusinda iingxaki kunye nokukhusela intsapho. Ukungahambi ngokungahleliyo kwintlanganiso kwenza ukuba umbutho wakho ube nenjongo ekhethekileyo kwaye kuzo zonke iimeko kunceda ukucinga ngokuqinisekileyo. Uninzi luyakwazi ukufumana ukuba uyazi ukuba konke oku akunjalo ukuzonwabisa.
Uvavanyo: iJometri yeentsapho
Dweba iibini zakho ngezikwere ezimbini. Jonga indlela enkulu ngayo indawo yokudibanisa. Kufuneka kube yi-1 / 4-1 / 3, ingabi ngaphezulu. Wonke umntu kufuneka abe neendawo, izithakazelo, izinto ezithandwayo, abaqhelana naye. "Musa ukucwenga intendelezo apho i bhathane lihlala khona, kwaye uya kuhlala efika kuye," ngumzekeliso waseJapan. Enhle kwaye ilungile.
Oyokhokho
Ukuba isibini esicinga ukuba ubudlelwane babo buvuyayo ixesha elide, ngoko ubuncinane omnye wabatshatileyo banabantwana abonwabileyo kubomi bentsapho. Ulonwabo lwentsapho luzuze ilifa: emva koko, sifunda iimpawu zobudlelwane ukususela ekuqaleni, sibona indlela abantu abanothando abaziphatha ngayo. Indlela yokuxabana, ukuxolela, ukubonisa ububele - konke oku akunakufundiswa kwiincwadi, kuya kuphila. Ingaqondanga kwaye iba yinxalenye yayo. Kwaye umntu okhulile kwintsapho elonwabileyo unamandla kangangokuba ukonwaba kwakhe kwaneleyo kubini (xa umlingane engenalo inhlanhla njengomntwana). Ukuba awuzange ubone umzekelo onjalo kwintsapho yabazali, ezinye izalamane kunye nabantu abazaziyo nje banokukunceda. Fumana phakathi kwabo isibini (abadala, abangcono) oyithandayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubukele. Ngomnye umzekelo ukwanele ukuba ekuhlaleni komphefumlo wethu siqinisekile: uthando lunokuphila ixesha elide.
Dictionary Dictionary
Kumele ube namazwi athile kunye namazwi angabikho mntu owaziyo. Oko, okoqobo: ukuba uthetha njalo, akukho mntu kodwa uya kuqonda. Ewe, akufuneki ukuba uthethe olu lwimi kukho konke, kodwa kwezinye iimeko, kwiimeko ezithile, luncedo kakhulu, nangona ubuninzi begama lakho. Ngokomzekelo, ungathini kumcimbi kwiqabane eliziphatha ngalo elifanelekileyo: uyaphuza kakhulu, ukuncoma okungahambi kakubi kuwe (ngenxa yokuba ayinayo kuwe), iphosa ngenjongo? "Yeka le ndlela yokuziphatha!" - Kulungile, kwaye abantu abazungezile baya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza: phakathi kwakho into ephosakeleyo. Inye intsapho iminyaka eli-15 kule meko ithi: "Musa ukuyiqhuba." Nawe? Uyakufuna kwakhona amagama abonisa umnqweno wokuthatha umhlalaphantsi, ukubonakalisa ukunganeliseki okugqithisileyo kunye negama elifanayo elithi: "Masihambe ekhaya, uza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani nomama wakho?" Ababini abaye bahlala ndawonye iminyaka evuyoleyo, babe nesigama sabo seshumi okanye amathathu amagama anjalo, kungabi ngaphantsi. Izipho ngaphandle kwesizathu, i-SMS-ki engenanto engenako intsingiselo, izimemo kwiintlanganiso zifudumala iimvakalelo kwaye zandisa uthando.
Umntu, ngokungafani nezilwanyana, ufuna iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye nokubonakala kwintsha. Kwaye ke ... yonke imihla iyafana. "Kwanokuba siphikisana, njengokwesikripthi, ndiyazi kakuhle oko uya kuthetha, kwaye uyazi oko ndiza kuthetha." Uthando olunzulu lwabantu lwangaphambi komtshato, ophakamileyo amathuba okuba bathathe inxaxheba ngenxa yokuba "ubudlelwane buye buphelile." Uhluke kakhulu. Buyela emva kwexesha alinakwenzeka, kodwa ukwenza ulwalamano lubaluleke kakhulu. Ngokutsho kweengcamango zombini zeemvakalelo, naluphi na ukuxhaswa, kuyo nayiphi na into eyenzekayo, idluliselwa kwinto esondeleyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ihlolwe njengento emnandi. Nawuphi na umqathango obangela ukuvuswa komzimba (nokuba ukwesaba okanye umsindo) kukhuthaza ukukhanga. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukwenza into kunye kunye neengxaki ezinamandla. Nayiphi na into emangalisa ngayo, nangona ihleli. Imibono engahambelani nemeko (umzekelo, ixesha "elide" likhangeleka ngexesha lesidlo kwizihlobo okanye esitratweni). Nemihlangano yokuqokwa komnye nomnye. Yiyiphi inqaku lokuhamba kwenye indawo ekupheleni kwesi sixeko kwaye uhleli kwibhentshi xa unendawo yokuhlala? Ewe, hayi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu.
I mi qathango
Ezi ngqungquthela zihlala zizimeleyo, zikhona ngeendlela zangaphakathi kunye nemithetho. "Asizange sishiye ukuthula." Wayememeza ngokukhawuleza esithi: "Konke ngoku!", "Siyamanga xa sihlangana, nangona sithe sahlukana kuphela kwisiqingatha seyure." Kubonakala ngathi loo masiko kufuneka inqande ubudlelwane kunye nomda. Okokuqala, sidinga umuzwa wokuzinza kwimibutho yobomi bethu, sifuna ukuba into ehlala isigxina, isigxina .Iziganeko zinika nje umqondo wokuzola .Kwenzeka ntoni malunga naluphi na ixesha sasingakhathazeki, yonke into ihlelekile, ukuba ndihleli Ukunyuka kwifestile. Ukongeza, iirekhodi ziqinileyo kwaye azivumeli ukuba zibandakanye kwingxabano enkulu. Ukuba wena nomyeni wakho ninomthetho wokubanga xa niya emsebenzini, unokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ingxabano phakathi kwakho ayiyi kuthatha ixesha elide.Kongezelela, akukho mfuneko yokucinga indlela yokwenza Enyanisweni, ezo zithethe zentsapho zenza esinye isiko esikhulu - ukuhlawula kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle naphezu kwayo yonke into.