Enyanisweni, unokufumana izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umntu onqabileyo ukwesaba ukudibana nawe. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba lo ngumhlobo wakho oyinyani, ngokukhawuleza uhlabelela iingoma malunga naloo nto, ngoko uyamthanda kakhulu, ngesibindi ngexesha elifanayo lilele. Kunokwenzeka ukuba, nangona kunjalo - nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba ungabandakanyi ukhetho ngamanga. Kunzima ukumba emphefumlweni womntu, ingakumbi ukuba uyazi umntu kuphela kwimigca kwesikrini. Emva kwakho konke, nakweyiphi na imeko, umfanekiso wayo onguhlobo nje ngumfanekiso. Mhlawumbi sele isondele ngokwaneleyo ukuba yinyani, kodwa inokuba nayo ivela "A" ukuya "Mina". Kuzo zonke izinto, ngaphandle kokungafani. Yaye le sizathu esihle sokwenqaba ukudibana.
Umzekelo, inkwenkwe kaKolya ihlala kwindawo ethile. Into eqhelekileyo yinkwenkwe, ayikho inkwenkwezi ezaneleyo esibhakabhakeni, akayikunandipha naluphi na udumo olukhethekileyo. Ulula kwaye uyathobekile, mhlawumbi unesihawu, kodwa unomusa. Kwaye mhlawumbi akulungile - ngubani owaziyo, lo Kolya. Yaye ngubani na kwi-intanethi? Mhlawumbi akayikho u-Kolya, kodwa u-Nikolai wangempela unesifo esihle (mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi nangona isifuba sakhe), kunye ne-biography evuyisayo kunye neentlanzi. Uyamthanda: unobungqina obuhle, uthanda - kwaye, kubonakala ngathi onke amantombazana e-Intanethi amkhala. Umntu omdala, lo Kolya! Kwaye ubonakala uyamthanda kakhulu. Ngokwemvelo, ixesha liya kufika xa ugqiba ukuba ixesha lokuba "usondele". Ndidibana nani ixesha. Okokuqala uya kukulinda ngokuthobeka umceli wakhe kunye nesiphakamiso. Kodwa yena, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, uya kubuya kwindlela, kwaye ubonise ukuba ungayiboni iziphakamiso zakho. Kwaye uya kuphazamiseka: "Kutheni le ntlani yindoda eyikayiyo ukuhlangana nawe, ingekho ngaphantsi kwendodakazi?". Kwaye awuyi kukwazi ukuba uKolya unomdla kakhulu kwaye zonke izibuko kwisibuko kwiimpumlo zakhe eziselula, zibukeka zidibeneyo kwindawo apho kufuneka kube khona i-torso ephawulekayo kwaye iyaqonda ukuba uya kumphosa nje ngekhwama yokukhwabanisa okunjalo. Ngoko ke, uphumla, akafuni ukukwazi nawe. Uthi imoto yakhe yaphuka (ewe, kunye nalabo abangabulawa yi-BMW, balala). Okanye ukuba ukuvalelwa emsebenzini - ikhulu abangaphantsi abaqondi nto nantoni na, kufuneka uziphendulele. Kodwa uyabaleka kwiiCanary Islands kunye nonina-kakuhle, ukuze athole i-tan enhle. Kwaye ukholwa konke, ukholwa.
Kule meko, kukho iindlela ezimbini. Okanye uba ngabahlobo abasondelene kakhulu, xubusha yonke into kunye nomntu wonke, kodwa ufuna ukumbona umntu ontle (nangona kunjalo, njengawe - wena). Okanye uyaba nesibindi aze akunike yonke into eyonakalisayo ngaye. Yaye uyagqiba: Ngaba ufuna umntu oqale ukuthetha ngamanga, inkohlakalo enkulu, ekhohlisayo. Andiqiniseki ukuba uya kuqhuba lo mhlobo - kwaye oku akubangelwa yimpumpe yakhe okanye ukungafi kwemoto ebiza. Awuthandi nje amanga.
Nangona oku akuthethi ukuba konke xa umntu enqaba ukudibana nawe, ungumntu okhohlakeleyo, oblique kunye nomgcini oqinileyo. Mhlawumbi uhlala engenakho ukuthetha, ukungabikho kwengqalelo yabesifazane-kwaye uzama ukufumana "abalandeli" abafana. Kule meko, kungekhona ebomini bakhe akukho ntombazana. Mhlawumbi ufuna nje ingqalelo yinkcazelo yabesifazane, kangangoko kunokwenzeka - kwaye ke ngoko uziva ekhululekile. Akayi kuhlangana nawe kuba akafuni nje iintlanganiso zabantu. Akakho "ukude", uvelwano oluqhelekileyo. Ufuna ukuba ubhale imilayezo enomdla malunga nendlela odikiweyo ngayo, malunga nendlela enhle ngayo kwaye umntu uza kuba nethamsanqa njani. Kodwa akafuni ukuba oku kwenzeke. Okokuqala, kulula ukuba ngumntu ofanelekileyo kwi-intanethi - kodwa ngokwenene kunzima ukugcina lo mfanekiso. Ekugqibeleni, uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba akayinto enhle - kwaye emva kokubonga nokuzinikela kwakho akukho mkhondo, kwaye uya kuza "kumbona" kuyo yonke into efanelekileyo. Kwaye akayidingi intombazana enjalo, ifuna "ikhoboka" -kuhle kukufumana kwi-intanethi.
Ewe, enye yezona zizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umntu oyinyani ukwesaba ukuhlangana kukukho intombazana. Uyazi, ubuhlobo obude obude, obukhulu kunye nomtshato womtshato. Baye bahlala benomdla ixesha elide kwaye uyayithanda, luhlobo olunjengalo. Kodwa akanakho ukuqhuba ngothando kwimpilo-mhlawumbi ubudlelwane babo bude buye bulinganiswa kwaye maxa wambi bubuhlungu ngenxa yokungabi nentswelo. Kwaye indoda leyo iya kwinqanaba, okanye iya kwicala kwi-Intanethi. Ufuna ukudlala ngothando, ukukhanya kwebhanti, ukungabikho kunye nokuzibophezela. Ufuna ukucinga, ufuna umntu azalise iimfuno zakhe. Kwaye ingaba yintoni engcono kule imeko ngaphandle kwe-Intanethi? Ininzi yamantombazana abaye bayaphoswa kwaye banokungabikho nkathalo yabantu babo, benomdla wokuzonwabisa kunye nabo banomdla kwaye banomdla. Unokungena kumntu onjalo, kodwa akayi kukuxelela ukuba unentombi. Yena, njengazo zonke iintlobo zangaphambili zamanqweno angamadoda, uya kulungiswa ngezenzo, kodwa akayi kuhamba kunye nawe.
Into yokugqibela endiyathanda ukuyithetha ngalo kwesi sihloko kukuba umntu akanakho ukufuna ukudibana nawe ebomini ngokwenene ngenxa yokuba akanithandi kakhulu. Ewe, unokutsho ukuba awufuni - akuvumeleki ukuthetha nabo bonke, kodwa akulula. Mhlawumbi unomdla kuye njengomhlobo onobungane. Mhlawumbi uthanda nje ukuphikisana nawe. Kodwa ngokubanzi, uhlamvu lwakho lubonakala luyinqaba kuye. Akakuqondi kwaye uyesaba ukuba akaze aqonde - kwaye oku kumgcinile ekubeni awaziyo ebomini. Emva kwakho konke, unokudideka kuwe (njengokuba ukhona kuyo, ngokuqinisekileyo) - kwaye awuyi kuba nomnye. Eyona nto ayiyi kubakho, ayiyi kuyenza-ayiyi kuba yindlela. Mhlawumbi uloyiko lokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo ontle?
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, asikwazi ngokuchaneka kwe-100% ethi le ndoda ayifuni ukudibana nam ngenxa yesi sizathu, kwaye enye-enye. Asiyazi into yabo kwimiphefumlo yabo kwaye kutheni abafuni ukujwayelana nabo. Into enye ndifuna ukuyicebisa: ungakhathazeki. Emva koko, akusaziwa: ngubani obenethamsanqa ukuba awubonanga?