Yonke into eyenzeka ngobusuku, uva ngokuqhelekileyo "okwangoku", eli lixesha lithetha "ukungabikho", kodwa "ukuhambela", kwaye ke ukungahambi kakuhle, akukho nto ihamba ngayo ngokuhlwa, akukho busuku busasa ngaphambi kokushiya emsebenzini, kukho ukuthula kwaye ukungaqondi kakuhle ukuvumba kwayo, okungazange kushiywe kwindlu yakho.
Kwaye awukwazi ukuba uzibeke phi, hamba ujikeleze egumbini, ujonge iifoto uze ugibe, ungcwatyelwe emkhombeni okanye ukhangele ngefestile, naluphi na othandayo. Uqhekeza abahlobo. Kakade. Kodwa yena, okanye ngaphezulu, akunakubizana nje ukuba ubuze ukuba izinto ziphi. Kwaye akukho mntu omele uxanduva, kwenzeka nje, udlula uthando, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ayikwazi ukuqhubeka nokufana nale, kwaye ibuhlungu ngenxa yokuba ungokoqobo ongaqhelekanga.
Xa ulwalamano luphela, luhlala lusizi kwaye lukhubekisa, amaphupha kunye nethemba olixabayo ixesha elide liwela. Kodwa ubomi abupheli apho. Ekugqibeleni, emva kwexesha isikhulu esitsha siya kubuya kwakhona, kwaye awuyi kuba nexesha lakho. Ngoko ke, sebenzisa ithuba, musa ukuchitha ixesha ixesha elingenamsebenzi "ukuzisola."
Okulandelayo kufuneka uphendule umbuzo othi "Yintoni endiyenzayo?" Impendulo ihlala nje. Ubuthathaka obumiselweyo kufuneka buzaliswe kuyo, kwaye kuya kuwe ukugqiba indlela oya kwenza ngayo, ukuba kuya kuba neinyembezi, ukugxeka, inzondo, iimvakalelo zokungaphantsi okanye uvuyo, ukumangaliswa, ngokungalindelekanga kufumene umdla olutsha ebomini, ubunokwenzeka Ku luncedo ukusebenzisa ngokukhawuleza ixesha lokukhulula.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kwesithuba esifutshane emva kokuhlukana ekugqibeleni, umntu omtsha uvela. Njengomthetho, ulwalamano olutsha oluye lwaphuhliswa emva kwekhefu ludlulileyo kwaye lubulali, kodwa oku akusisona sizathu sokugcina ubungqina obungadingekanga kumntu ongekho ebomini bakho.
Uza kuqhathanisa rhoqo "umtsha" kunye neyokuqala, kwaye ukuthelekisa kuya kuba soloko iyakuthandana nomntu ongokoqobo kunye nolwazileyo, kodwa sele esele ungumhlobo. Sekunjalo, akufanele ubeke udonga phakathi kwakho nabanye abantu, nangona oku kuziphatha kulungile, kuba awufuni ukuziva uhlungu kunye nokudumala kwakhona. Kodwa emva koko, kusekho ithuba lokuba umhlobo omtsha uza kuba, mhlawumbi, isigqibo sakho.
Unokungena ngaphakathi emsebenzini. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhathazeka kunenzuzo kwaye ukuba ungumntu onokudala, emva kokuhamba kwemali uza kufumana umthombo wemibono emitsha eya kukunceda kumsebenzi wakho. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umntu ukhetha ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe kuyo yonke indawo. Akukho buhlobo obukrakrayo, akukho msebenzi obangelusikiyo onokukhethayo, ubuncinane ekukhangekeni komsebenzi omtsha nokuzisebenzisayo kuya kukukhohlwa malunga namava angaphumelelanga ngaphambili.
Ekugqibeleni, unokuyonwabela ikhefu elenziwe ngokuzeleyo : ukutyelela amantombazana, abashiya ngokupheleleyo, ukwenza iimvavanyo ezahlukahlukeneyo ekubonakaleni kwawo, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba kuya kuthini na, njengokuba ebuntwaneni beya kulala bavumelane ne-hare (okanye ibhere, ngubani, into enokuyidla), udlala ngothando, ngaphandle kokujonga emva "kwisiqingatha" sakhe.
Ukuba yedwa akuthethi ukuba uhleli kwaye uchitha iinyembezi ubusuku bonke , ukuba ukhangela amehlo enkanuko kumntu olandelayo ngethemba lokuba uya kuphawula. Ukuba yedwa kuthetha ukuhamba ngokukratshi esitalato kwaye ujonge ilanga elikhanyayo; akuthandi umntu othandayo, kodwa oko ufunayo; Musa ukucinga malunga nokufezekiswa kwento yokwenza, kodwa malunga nokuba ekhaya ukulindele iibhululo kunye neepende, kwaye ekugqibeleni unako, ngaphandle kokuhlaziswa ngumntu, ukuba ungene kulo lonke ukuhlwa ngaphandle kokwesaba ukubonakala ungaqhelekanga.
Emva koko, okwangoku unako ukwenza oko bekusoloko ungenalo ixesha lokuhlala kulindeleke elitsha elindela phambili. Khumbula ukuba ngelinye ilanga into enye iphela, enye iyaqala kwaye ayithathi ixesha elide ukulinda.