Indlela yokuphuma kumyeni wakhe?

Akusoloko umtshato ubonwabile kwaye unamandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kwexesha, kukho iingxaki kunye nokungavumelani. Abatshatileyo baqala ukuqaphela omnye umnye kuphela iimpazamo kwaye bayeke ukuqonda. Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, indoda iqala ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kwaye iyakunyamezela nobudlova kumfazi wayo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela yokuphuma kumyeni wakhe, kwaye sicinge ngeemeko zobomi.

Indlela yokuphuma kumyeni onxilisayo?

Ngoko, ukuba umyeni wakho ungumthandi weziphuzo kwaye kaninzi utywala kunye nangaphandle, ke le ngxaki enkulu. Iingxowa kunye nezinsongo apha aziyi kunceda, kuba utywala ngumzimba wangempela. Ukuba uzame zonke iindlela ezifana nophatho kunye nemikhankaso kwi-psychologist, kodwa ke uyaqhubeka nokusebenzisa kakubi utywala, ihlala isenza isigqibo - nokuba ufuna ukulwa neengxaki zayo okanye ukhetha ukuhamba?

Ukuba impendulo yakho iyakuthanda ukhetho lokugqibela, ke ulungele into yokuba emva kokuhlukana kwakho, akudingeki uncede wakho umlingane uze uphinde umkhuphe ngaphandle kwesinye i-snack bar. Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: "Yeka-hamba."

Yilungele ukuphulaphula izibhambathiso ezininzi kunye nezithembiso zokubopha, kodwa khumbula ukuba oku kungenye enye inkohliso. Xelela abaqhelana nabo malunga nekhefu ukuze bangaxeleli malunga neentlungu kunye neentlobano zomlingane ukubuyela. Qonda ukuba wonke umntu unoxanduva lobomi bakhe ngokwakhe. Ukuba umyeni unelungelo lokunyanzelisa ubundlobongela ngaphantsi kwefuthe lotywala, lungiselela kwangaphambili indawo, engazange azi. Eyona nto ingcono, musa ukuhlala ixesha elilodwa, kodwa uhlala nabahlobo okanye ngabazali.

Ukwahlukana kubenzela abagwebi nokunciphisa ubuncinci bezonxibelelwano kunye nomlingane osekudala. Into ebaluleke kakhulu isimo sakho sengqondo. Ukuba uqinisekile ngokuqinisekileyo ngesigqibo sakho, akukho nto iya kukuthintela ukuba uqaphele oko uceba. Qalisa ubomi obutsha: yenza into oyithandayo, hlawula ingqalelo yakho mbo nakalo, hamba nabantwana, hamba eholide. Ubomi bakho kusezandleni zakho!

Indlela yokuphuma kumyeni wakhe ukuba uyasongela?

Utshutshiso kunye nosongelo oluvela kumyeni wakhe bubonisa ubungqina bakhe obubuhlungu ekuphumeni kwakho. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bacinga ukuba oku kuluphawu luthando olukhulu kwaye iqabane likhangele nayiphi na indlela yokuphepha. Oku kuchazwa kwemeko kwingcambu yezinto ezingalunganga, kuba umntu osongela ukulimala ngokomzimba uthathwa njengengxaki yokuziphatha. Kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo - umyeni wakho ungumtyholi kwaye unokuba yingozi kakhulu kuwe nakubathandayo.

Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukubandakanya ii-arhente zokunyanzelisa umthetho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo, kubalulekile ukuqokelela ubuncinane ubungqina obuncinane. Indlela yokuphepha kumyeni wakhe kunye noko kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenzela ukubonakalisa ukwesaba kwakhe:

• ukugcina imiyalezo ye-SMS ngokusongela;
• ukurekhoda iingcingo zocingo;
• uthathe i-tape recorder nawe, ukuba iqabane lihlala likubukele kwisitalato kwaye lirekhode iingxoxo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abo bantu basongela ukuthatha umntwana enkundleni. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunjalo, amaxesha kwiinkqubo ezinjalo athatyathwa ngabasetyhini, kwaye akudingeki ukuba uxhalabele.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyasongela ukuthatha umntwana, ngoko kufuneka usebenze ngexesha. Xwayisa ootitshala okanye ootitshala, soloko udibana nomntwana esikolweni okanye kumacandelo. Qinisekisa ukubika imeko kumapolisa.

Kwakhona, iinkonzo zentlalo kwiziko lemitshato liya kukunceda. Kwimiba enjalo uya kuncedwa kwaye uxelelwe ukuba ubaleke kumyeni ungacineki.