Impendulo yalo mbuzo kukuba ichaneke ngokunokwenzeka, iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ukuba zingaphenduli ngokukhawuleza, kodwa emva kokuba zenze umsebenzi omncinci. Khawucinge ukuba ihlabathi elijikelezile liye laphela kwaye unomnye umklomelo, udwebe kuphela umbala omnye. Ngumuphi umbala wobuntu bakho - obomvu, ophuzi, njl. Ngaba uya kukhululeka kweli hlabathi elitsha? Ngoku funda impendulo!
Umbala wohlobo lwakho unomdla obomvu. Ayikho imfihlo ukuba lo ngumbala wokutshisa, ukunqoba, umsebenzi kunye nobukhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungo-altruist enkulu: uthanda ubomi kunye nabantu abakungeenxa yakho. Kodwa into eyona nto kukuba uhlobo luthandekayo, lukhutshwe, luqhakazile kwaye lunomdla. Uthanda ukuba kwindawo yomsebenzi nakwimpilo yakho. Kodwa apha kukho imibala emininzi. Okokuqala, uya kuba yinkokeli yonyani kwimeko kuphela, xa ufunda ukuba usebenza kwiimeko ezinzima zokungabikho kwiimvakalelo ezithintela. Kwaye okwesibini, ngobudlelwane nabathandekayo, umsebenzi ogqithiseleyo awuyona ndlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo.
Ngoko ke, ebomini bakho, ungesabi ukuvumela izinto zihambe ngokwazo, ziyeke ilungelo lokuzikhethela iqabane.
Umbala wohlobo lwakho luhlobo oluluhlaza. Ukuba ukhetha ukuluhlaza kumbala wonke, ngoko uyintokazi encinci (kodwa ingabi ngaphezu koko), uhlakaniphile kwaye unengqiqo. Uyazi indlela yokulawula amandla akho ngendlela efanelekileyo, ngoko kwishishini lakho uyingcali. Unomdla kakhulu (kokubili ngokwezinto eziphathekayo nangokwenyama), ngoko ke abantu bakhonywe kuwe, nawe, kwakhona, unokuxhomekeka ngoncedo lwabo. Musa ukukhangela wena kwaye uthanda iimvakalelo. Abameli bezesondo ezinamandla zala mabhinqa abaphosoliyo, ngoko unomfazi omhle kwaye akukho naso isaphulelo ukusuka kubalandeli.
Umbala wohlobo lwakho lubomvu, luphuzi, njl. ayifanelekanga, ke unalo uhlaza oluhlaza. Umbala wendalo, ubume, ukuzola. Amafayili ombala oluhlaza-omnandi, olinganiselayo nokuzithemba. Mhlawumbi yeso sizathu sokuba baphumelele emsebenzini kunye nolonwabo ebomini babo. Ukuba ukhethe lo mmbala, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo ungumphulaphuli obalaseleyo. Ngaloo nto, awuxeleli nantoni na ukuba uvalele abahlobo kunye nabathandekayo, ukhetha kwaye ujabule, kwaye udikelele ekuziqheleni. Mhlawumbi sifanele siphumelele imida ethile? Emva koko, bathetha ukuba xa ubelana ngokuvuyela kunye nabathandekayo bakho, buphindwe kabini. Yaye ukuba unokwabelana nenhlekelele kunye nomhlobo-sele isiqingatha seengxaki.
Umbala wohlobo lwakho luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ngaba ukhethe okwesibhakabhaka? Lo ngumbala wabathengi ngokubanzi ngala magama. Uhlala nje ukuba amawaka amehlo ekubukele onke amaxesha, kwaye uhlala ulindele ukuhlambalaza. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukubi, ngenxa yokuba usetyenziswe ukwenza yonke into, nokuba yintoni eyenzile, ngokugqibeleleyo. Kodwa kwenye, phumula kwaye uphumule, kufuneka kwakhona ukwazi ukukwazi. Qalisa ngqo ukususela namhlanje, kulungile? Kwaye iifom zeblue ziphupha, zithandana kwaye ziyakuthanda ukuhamba. Ngokuqhelekileyo bathanda into entsha: bathanda ukufunda, baninzi izinto ezikhethiweyo, isangqa esikhulu soqhagamshelwano. Ngothando, aba bafazi abancinci banothando, bazinikele kwaye bazincama, kunzima ukunyamezela ukuhlukana kwintanda yakho
Umbala womlingisi wakho unyaka obomvu. Amantombazane abakhetha umdaka, ukuzola, acocekileyo, ahloniphekileyo kwaye achanileyo, athambekele ekuhlaleni. Bahlala benesicwangciso.
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