Andiyi kuthetha ngemithetho yeklasi yokufundiswa, owaziyo yonke into (ndiyathemba). Ndifuna ukukuxelela ngamanye "AKHO", okuya kunceda "ukubetha indoda" sele isele kumhla wokuqala.
Musa ukuphazamisa.
Ubuncinci, ayikho into efanelekileyo. Okwesibini, ngoko ubonisa loo mntu ukuba awunomdla kwizinto azithethayo. Kungcono ukuphulaphula umbonisi ngokujonga ngokucophelela, ngamanye amaxesha ukufaka amagama ambalwa, okwenza loo ndoda ibonakalise kakuhle iingcamango zakhe. Mbonise ukuba unokuphulaphula! Amadoda ayawaxabisa oku kakhulu.
Musa ukuxelela yonke into malunga nawe.
Musa ukubeka umhla wokuqala lonke ulwazi malunga nawe: uhlala phi, usebenzela bani, xa uye waya kwinyanga yokuqala, kwaye ungaphi na amadoda ayenayo. Kwimfazi apho kukho imfihlelo. Oku kuya kukhathaza umntu kwaye uya kufuna ukwazi wena ngcono. Ukuba ubeka onke amakhadi ngokukhawuleza phambi kwakhe, unxibelelwano olungakumbi kuye aluyi kuba lunomdla.
Akukho zihlazo zobuwula!
Umdlalo wobuhle kakhulu. Kodwa akusoloko uphaya yonke into onokuyihlekisa. Musa ukugculela indoda. Akufanelekile kwaye kunokumlimaza. Ukuba awufumani ihlazo elihle kakhulu, lungiselela kwangaphambili. Cinga ngamanye amabali ahlekisayo oxelela omnye umntu. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba kwenzeke kuwe okanye namhlanje. Kwaye, ke, akukho amahlaya angcolileyo kunye namahlaya "ngaphantsi kwebhanti". Smile ngaphezulu. Khumbula ukuba amadoda afana namantombazana amnandi kwaye athathaka.
Musa ukwenza uphando.
Imibuzo yakho engqiqweni malunga nalapho isebenza khona, ingaba ufumana phi, apho ehlala khona, ubude bakhe bude bude buphelile kwaye kutheni, xa elahleka ubuntombi bakhe, banokumothusa umntu. Izimpendulo kuzo zonke le mibuzo uya kufunda emva koko. Yiba nesigulane kunye nesilumko.
Musa ukusela kakhulu.
Utywala akuyona into ephambili kumhlobo wokuqala. Ngokukodwa, ukuba unxila ngokukhawuleza kwaye uqale ukuziphatha ngokungafanelekanga. Ukusela ingqayi yewayini okanye i-cocktail yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokwesaba okunokwenzeka. Into ephambili ayiyikuyidlula. Amadoda afana nabafazi abahloniphekileyo abazilawulayo.
Musa ukukhangeleka.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, konke kuxhomekeke kwiziphi izicwangciso onalo kulo busuku. Ukuba ufuna ukudibana nalo mntu, musa ukubeka izinto ezingenanto, ukubonakalisa ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye ubonakale ngathi "intombazana yobumnandi obulula".
Musa ukulahla amehlo akho.
Ukuba uqhubeka ukhangele onke amaxesha, ujikeleza ngamehlo akho, uwisa phantsi, umntu angacinga ukuba kukuye, ukuba iphepha leparsley linamathele emazinyweni akhe, okanye kukho umkhondo wekhofi emlonyeni wakhe, okanye indiza yakhe ingabonakali. Ukujonga ukubonakala kwakho kwindlu yangasese, umnxibelelwano wakho uya kufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba awuqinisekanga kwaye unzima kakhulu. Awunjalo! Ngoko musa ukuziphatha kanje!
Musa ukugxeka.
Ukukhangela okukrakra kunye nokugcoba emlonyeni wakho akunakwenzeka ukukholisa umnxibelelwano wakho. Umhla wakho unokuphela xa uqala. Musa ukude kakhulu nomdlalo "Unomonde".
Musa ukuthandana nabanye.
Khawucinge ngeso simo ohlala kuyo kwi-cafe epholileyo, kwaye umhlobo omdala okanye umhlobo wakho ohlala naye uhlala etafileni elandelayo. Musa ukuzithoba nomnye phambi kokhethiweyo wakho. Ayaziwa ukuba uya kucinga ntoni ngawe.
Musa ukuba wonke umntu.
Uyaqonda ukuba indoda ichitha nawe akuyena umhla wokuqala ebomini bakhe. Yena, ngokuqinisekileyo, sele esele enze "udidi" lwamantombazana, kwaye ukholelwa ukuba unako ukubonela phambili amagama kunye nezenzo zakho. Yimangalisa ngenxa yokungabikho kwayo kunye nokuqala kwayo. Yilungelele "indawo yokudlala yomdlali omnye." Oku kungombuzo othi "umfazi oyimfihlakalo". Aba bafazi bamenywa kumhla omtsha.
Ngokuqwalasela le mithetho elula, awuyi kuphanga umhla wokuqala kwaye uya kumdla kumntu.