Musa ukuzikhawulela kwiphina ingcamango okanye isicwangciso esithile sokuhlangana nabantu abatsha. Ukwenza abahlobo amaninzi akulona nzima kunokuba kubonakale kukuqala. Ngoko ungenza njani abahlobo abaninzi? Zama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthandana ngexesha elifanayo:
- Yiya kwimicimbi yezemidlalo eyahlukeneyo, uye kwiiyaterholo, kubonisa, iikhonsathi, ukuya kumaziko okufunda, imibutho kawonkewonke, ubhalisele izifundo kwizifundo.
- Yiba nevolontiya kwintlangano yabaselula. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubudlelwane obuqinileyo bobuhlobo buqala kwinkqubo yokusebenzisana. Ukongeza, uya kuba nethuba lokwenene ukwazi abantu abaneemfuno ezifanayo.
- Yiba ilungu leqela elithile (ukuba unqwenela, uninzi) oluthandayo. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuba nabahlobo abaninzi.
- Fumana umngane okanye intombi, kwaye ngoko uya kuba nethuba lokumazi abahlobo babo, kwaye ngoko isangqa sahlobo bakho siya kwandisa kakhulu
- Ngexesha eliya ukuya kwimibutho, kukho ithuba lokwenene lokwenza abahlobo.
- Ngaba namaqela ahlukeneyo.
- Ukuba ufunda eyunivesithi, yiba ngumzekelo, umphathi weqela lakho okanye ngentloko yeBhunga leLutsha.
- Musa ukuyihoxisa i-intanethi.
Kwakhona ukhumbule apho udibene khona ngaphambili, jonga kwiphephandaba uze ufumane ukuba zeziphi iziganeko ezicwangcisiweyo kwisixeko sakho, kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwizinto ezibangel 'umdla kuwe! Apho ungenza abahlobo abaninzi.
Musa ukulibala ukuba abanye abantu abanelungelo lokuzonwabisa kwiiyure ezininzi "bahlale" kwingxoxo, ngoko ngokugcwele indlela yokwenene nokusebenzayo ukuze baqhelane okanye, ubuncinci, ixesha elide ukulahla ubunyulu obuxinzeleleyo. Uya kuba nethuba lokukhetha iifom zezintshisekelo, wabelane ngombono wakho wokujonga, kwaye ekugqibeleni, uzazi kwaye wenze abahlobo abaninzi!
Yintoni oyifunayo ukuze uqale incoko? Ewe, nento enqwenelekayo ukuqala incoko:
1. Okokuqala, ukumomotheka kunye nesimo esihle. Xa unomotheka ebusweni bakho, abantu bacinga ukuba kulula ukuthetha kunye nomntu onobungane.
2. Indlela eyona ndlela yokuqala yokuqhagamshelana nomntu kukuthetha into entle kwidilesi yakhe okanye yenza nje ukuncoma.
3. Buza olwaziyo ngokutsha ngobomi babo, izinto ezithandwayo, izinto ezithandwayo, izinto zokuzonwabisa, apho bahlala khona / baphile, njl.
4. Ngexesha le ncoko nawe akudingeki ukuba uthule. Ukuba umntu usebenza kuwe, qiniseka ukuba uphendule, ngokukhethekileyo kwintetho ye-jocular, ukuze ubeke iqabane lakho kuye.
5. Ukuba uhleli kwindawo yokutya yasentsimini, zama ukujoyina iqela labantu abatsha (ngokwemvelo, ukucela imvume yabo kwangaphambili). Okanye ukuba sele udibene nomnye umntu, unokucela ukuba akujoyine kwi-cafe (okanye uye kwi-movie, njl.).
6. Thumela umyalezo omncinci kumhlobo wakho omtsha nge-imeyile, uze ubone ukuba bayayiphendula okanye cha.
7. Qhubeka uxhulumana nabantu abatsha kwi-chat okanye kwi-ICQ. Ngendlela, unokwenza nabangani abaninzi apho.
8. Ukuba kukho elo thuba, nikela abahlobo bakho abatsha ngoncedo kunoma yimuphi umba.
9. Kulungile ukuba ungadluliseli ngaphezu kohlobo lwakho ngeefowuni zakho kunye nemilayezo. Musa ukulibala ukuba akukho mntu uthandayo xa beqala "ukufumana" rhoqo ngeefowuni.
Mema abantu abatsha ukuba bahambehamba esitratweni, jonga kwiifestile zesitolo okanye ezinye izinto!
Ndikholelwe, ukwenza abahlobo abaninzi kakhulu kunene kulula. Into eyona nto kukuba nobungane kunye nomntu ovulekile, kwaye abantu baya kufikelela kuwe.