Indlela yokulungisa imeko ephikisanayo emsebenzini?
Emsebenzini kuvunyelwe ukuphikisana kuphela kwizifundo zokusebenza, kwaye kungekhona kwindlela umlomo wakho osebenza naye okanye oko akugqokayo, odibana naye. Ubomi bomntu wabasebenzi akufanele baxoxwe.
Kodwa ukuba umbuzo uphathelene nokunyuka komvuzo okanye umbutho wenkqubo yomsebenzi, unokuthetha ngokupheleleyo. I-Nakosstavaniyah ayikho inxaxheba kwimpikiswano. Kodwa ukuphazamisa isithethi, nangona ubonakala unengxaki kwiintetho zakhe, akufanelekile. Makugqibe aze aphendule imibuzo. Emva koko ungajoyina ingxoxo. Kodwa ufanele uthinte kuphela kwinqaku yengxoxo kwaye akukho naluphi uhlobo lweempawu zobuqu zabasebenzi. Iingcaphuno "Unamava ambalwa," "Awunayo imfundo" kwingxabano ayikwazi ukukhonza njengeengxabano. Nangona umntu ongenamava angakwazi ukunikela isisombululo esihle kwiingxaki. Nasiphina isiluleko esiphumeleleyo sidinga ukugxeka kunye nokugxekwa ngokucokisekileyo, okungafanelekanga ukuhlaziyeka umbhali, ukunyusa amaphuzu abuthathaka kwimfundiso kunye nokufumana iindlela ezichanekileyo zokuzilungisa.
Xa ubeka izimvo, phikisa, ngoko uzama ukulandela le mithetho elandelayo:
Ukugxeka oko kuthethwa okwangoku. Musa ukukhumbula iimpazamo zangaphambili zepropati zesithethi.
Qala intetho yakho uze uphele ngokudumisa. Emva koko, kukho into entle kwisifundo esicatshungulwayo (ukuze umntu osebenza naye afune ukulungisa imeko).
Xoxa ngesenzo okanye umphumo, kodwa kungekhona ubuntu bomntu osebenza naye. Amazwi anjenge "Uyenza into engalunganga," "Uhlala njalo, akukho nto eyenzekayo" ingxabano yakho ayiyi kuhobisa.
Xa ugqiba umba wokuphikisana, uze ucebise iindlela zokusombulula ingxaki. Kodwa cacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni kanye nendlela yokulungisa ngayo.
Ukuba uyinto ebalulekileyo yokuhlaselwa, kukulungele ukubonisa ukuthintela. Ukuthobeka kunye ngokucophelela ngobuso obunobungane, mamele umchasi, ungamphazamisi kwaye ungazami ukuzithethelela. Ekupheleni kwengxoxo, mbulela. Emva kwakho konke, akusoloko kulandelwa iicensure ezifanayo kunye nobubi.
Kodwa inxalenye ungadinga ukuchaphazela imibuzo yomntu. Umzekelo, umphathi wakho akayithandi ikhabethe lakho. Kodwa ukuba ihambelana nekhowudi yokugqoka yenkampani, ngoko ayikho into yokuxubusha yempango. Buza umphathi ukuba wenza umsebenzi wakho kakuhle kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngoko ufanele ukugqoka.
Iingxabano kwiingxabano zentsapho
Amaqhawe kumntu onxamnye akayi kuxolela. Emva koko, igama lokugqibela kufuneka lihlale kuye. Kwaye nokuba unamawaka ngokuphindaphindiweyo, akayi kukuqonda ukunqoba kwakho. Ukuze uvuselele indoda yakhe ngombono ofanelekileyo kuwe, musa ukuphikisana naye nonke. Menze nje abe nomuvo wokuthi uluvo lwakhe luyakhe. Masithi ufuna ukuchitha i-premium yendoda kwiprojekti yokutya, kwaye uhamba ngentonga yokuloba. Ingqiqo yeenkolelo zakho kufuneka ibe yinto elandelayo: "Ndiyathandaza, ndifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe, kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo ukupheka ukutya kwakho okumnandi." Ucinga ukuba oku kuyenziwa njani? "Le ndlela ibangela umsebenzi wesilisa. Iinjongo ezifana nalezi: "Ndiyadumisa, ndidiniwe ukupheka."
Kukho enye inketho. Kubalulekile ukubeka imibuzo ukuze umntu avume nabo. Umzekelo: "Ngaba uthanda ikhekhe lam iqabane?" "Ngaba ufuna ukuba ndipheke kaninzi?" "Ngaba ufuna ukuba ndipheke ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndichithe ixesha elininzi kunye nawe?" - "Ewe, kunjalo." - "Ngaba ndingayithengela umhlanganisi wokuvuna?" Kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuphendula umbuzo wokugqibela "cha." Ingqiqo yeempendulo zangaphambili iphendula impendulo.
Ukwamkelwa okunjalo kuya kusebenza kunye neengxabano eziphikisana nabazali. Bahlala bechanekile kwaye bazi kakuhle indlela yokuphila.
Ewe, ukuxazulula ingxabano ngaphandle kokuxabana nabahlobo kulula kwaye kulula. Uneminyaka efanayo, uyaqonda kakuhle. Kodwa ukuba ingxoxo yakho ufuna ukuyiqhuma: "Yintoni oyiqondayo kwiincwadi (iifashthi, i-cinema)" -think: Ngaba kuya kuba mnandi ukuba uve ingxelo enjalo kwaye uyakufumanisa oku njengobungqina obunene bokufaneleka?
Izibongozo "Ufezekisa izinto ezingenangqondo! Uphosa!" Akunakulungeleki ukuphikisana nabantu abasijikelezile, ezi binzana aziyi kukunika ukuthembeka, kodwa i-atmospheric izakufudumala kwaye ukungathobeli kwakho umxhasi uya kugxininiswa.
Ukuhlala kweengxabano ngabantwana
Khumbula indlela okubuhlungu ngayo xa abazali bakho bengayiphulaphuli imbono yakho, kwaye yonke into yenziwe isigqibo kuwe. Ngelo xesha, babhekisela kwi nyaniso yokuba ukhethekileyo, awuyiqondi into. Kodwa abantwana bavame ukuqonda okungaphezu koko benzayo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo banelungelo lokumva.
Akunandaba, unyana wayenentombi kunye nomntwana omdala kangakanani, ukuba ufuna ukunyamekela, uya kumhlangabeza. Mamela iingcebiso kunye neengxabano, kodwa ngaphandle kokumomotheka, ungaphazamisi phakathi kwesivakalisi uze unike izimvo zakho de kube sekupheleni. Emva koko unokubuza kwakhona ukuba unakho ukungathandabuzeki, kwaye emva koko uvakalise uluvo lwakho kwimiba engxoxwa ngayo.
Ngomntwana kufuneka uxoxe ngeenyawo ezilinganayo. Akukho zihloko "ezincinci." Kungenzeka ukuba xa ugqiba ukuba umntwana wakho usemdala kakhulu kwimicimbi engxoxwa ngayo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba umva kakhulu. Xoxa ngemibuzo kunye nomntwana ngokubaluleka okukhulu.Cacisa intsingiselo yebakala, phikisa uluvo lwakho kwaye uhloniphe umbono wakhe.
Ngokomzekelo, unobtrusively kunye ngobumnene, ufundisa umntwana ukuba aqhube ingxabano ngokufanelekileyo nangokuzithobayo - ungabagwebi, ungaphazamisi uze uphulaphule ngokucophelela abantu abasisondezayo.
Ukuba unempikiswano malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe okungakhathali, ke ungayikhohlwa imigaqo yokugxeka. Unokuxoxa kuphela ngezenzo zekhonkrithi kwaye ungakhumbuli izono zangaphambili. Thetha ngabalinganiswa, kungekhona iimpawu zomntu zomntu, ngathi: "Uyisitya sokutya, isitya sokutya." Yithi bhetele: "Awuzange ufunde inkondlo kwaye ufumene i-deuce efanelekile."
Soloko ufumana into yokudumisa umntwana. Ncedise ukuba asombulule kwaye alungise imeko ebunzima. Zama ukulawula amandla angaphezulu kwindlela elungileyo, ekukholeni.
Ngoko, zonke iingxaki zee-ofisi, iingxabano zasekhaya, njengoko sibonayo, zinokulungiswa ngaphandle kokuphikisana nabantu abasisondezayo.