Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, iminyaka engamashumi amathathu yintlambo elandelayo ebomini bethu. Ewe, sinalo lonke uhlobo lwemida eyahlukileyo, kwaye sijwayele ukuhlangana nabo ngokuzixhobile ngokupheleleyo, kodwa nangona ... Ngomhla, kufuneka uvele ufikelele ngemithwalo ekhoyo. Kwaye kulo mthwalo kufuneka kungekhona nje kuphela izinto eziyimfuneko ebomini kunye nokuba, kodwa kwakhona ...
Injongo
Ekuboneni kokuqala, kuya kubonakala, kakuhle, yintoni enokuthi ilula ngakumbi kunokufuna nje? Hayi! Umzekelo, umntu uqhuba nje imoto ephupheni, bathi, akukho magunya okuhamba ngezothutho zikawonkewonke. Isizathu - isimo sengqondo esithembekileyo okanye into enjalo. Ewe, bambalwa kakhulu abantu (kunye nenkosikazi yephupha elinikeziweyo) bakholelwa ukuba lo mnqweno ungasifumana ngokukhawuleza kungekudala. Ngenxa yokuba umbuzo olula woluhlobo lwemoto ozibonayo kumaphupha akho, uvakale kakhulu "umdaka" kunye nempendulo engaqondakaliyo: "Ewe, le ... enhle ... Unobomvu!". Yimangalisa njengoko ivakalayo, kodwa iinjongo zethu kunye neengcamango zizinto ezimbini ezihluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ukuba impazamo yakho ichazwe ngokucacileyo ngokubanzi, indlela oya kucinga ngayo ngokubonakala kwayo, ukuphosa ngengqondo, kwaye ingcono kunazo zonke, isicwangciso soshishino esibhaliweyo, amanqaku apho ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukunceda ukuletha imfesane yecala lokusondeza, ngoko ke into enokuthi i-metamorphosis eyinkimbinkimbi "njengengcamango - injongo - ukunqoba" ezinzima.
Bahlobo
Kungekudala nje uluhlu lwabahlobo luphela nje. Abahlobo abakhulu abasuka kwidesksi yesikolo, ezimbini ezivela kwinqanaba, omnye ovela kwirejista, enye evela egcekeni kunye nomnye abaye baqhelana naye ngethungelwano loluntu ... kwaye oku akusiyo yonke uluhlu lwabantombazana abanokudinga ukuthunyelwa uluhlu "Abahlobo bam abakhulu". Kodwa le minyaka yahamba kwaye kwavela ukuba enye ayikho "umoya wobubele", umntu usebenzise nje ukuba ufumane "i-clock" yezinyembezi, umntu osemva emva kwakhe uhleba ngetyala ngomfanekiso wakho wobomi, echukunyiswa ngumsindo emva kwakhe, kwaye umntu uthanda ukubuyisa iindaba zakho "ezibhakabhaka" ngakwesobunxele nakwesokunene, kunye nakwabo abangafumaniyo, njalo njalo. "Uvavanyo lwexesha," njengommiselo, alugcinwa ngulo, ke omnye umhlobo. Ngaphezu kwanamanye into, nge minyaka engamashumi amathathu asizange sihlakaniphe kuphela, kodwa, ngelishwa, ungazibekezekanga kwaye unzima ngakumbi. Ubulumko bethu behlabathi, ngelixa likude, lisoloko lukhuni kwinkqubo yokulinda, ukubukela ingoma yengwenya yobuncinane bobuncinci. Ngoko ke, kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu abahlobo bokwenene basadingeka ukuba babe kunye kwaye, ngendlela, kufuneka baqinisekiswe kakade "ngeengxube"!
Uthando
Akuyimfuneko ukuba uthando lukhoyo. Kule nxaxheba, yangaphambili iyakwazi ukuya. Inqaku lonke kukuba ukuba awunakuthandanga nabani na ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, ngoko ukuba amathuba okuba kungekudala oku kuza kwenzeka, kuhlahloka ngokukhawuleza. Ngako oko, ukuba ufikelelekile ukuphakamisa izakhono okanye ukuzifunela okwangoku (ngasinye sinesizathu salo) -ixesha lokuyeka zonke iimeko kwibhokisi elikude kwaye uwele emthandweni. Unako ngisho nangaphandle kokulandelana.
Kwaye inqaku lonke kukuba ukuvakalelwa ngothando olungenakuvuyisa! Umntu akanakuvuyisa kuphela, kwaye ngoko, ukuba unqwenela. Yaye uthando aluyinto engaphezulu nje kwintliziyo enhle engenawo amalungelo.
Into eyithandayo
Ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile! Ukuba awunayo intandokazi, ke apha umbuzo uvela: "Ungeke ube nomsebenzi oyithandayo nonke, uye wakwazi ukuhlala kwi-tridtsatnik?". I-immunodeficiency eyoyikekayo, kwindawo yokuqala, iyabangela ukunganeliseki kunye nokunyameka.
Ngendlela, ayinandaba nantoni na ukuba into endiyithandayo iyavumelana nomsebenzi wakho okanye umsebenzi wakho. Uyaziwa ngobusuku bobusuku nastarenkih, isistim segogo, unako kwaye ungasikhululi, kuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kukufumana injabulo kuyo, kwaye ukuba ungowomdla wokuthanda kwakho, kwaye unika imali, kubandakanywa neeholide, ngokuqinisekileyo uyavuya kakhulu!
Iinjongo eziphilileyo
Kwiminyaka emashumi amathathu, simele sakwazi ukuzinikela ngokuvavanya. Yazi onke amandla akho kunye nobuthakathaka kwaye uqonde ngokucacileyo into ebomini esinokuyifeza ngayo, kwaye kungenjani. Ngoko musa ukutshintshanisa izihlwele, kufuneka uhambe uze ufikelele kummandla ophezulu. Kodwa isisityebi esisisityebi kunye nokuzithemba, okuye kule minyaka iqokelele, baya kuba bancedo abanxamnye nawo wonke umqobo.
Amava ezesondo
Kusenokuba yinto enqabileyo, kodwa kunjalo. Ukungabi namacala kunye nokucoceka - oku kuyamangalisa, kodwa ngoku kude kukude kwithuba apho yonke impumelelo esetyenziswayo. Ukulinda isikhulu kuba yinto ebalulekileyo, kodwa ngelixa ulindile, kutheni ungazami abantu abalula. Ubuncinane ukuze bahlangabezane nephupha labo elixhobile ngokupheleleyo. Ewe, kwaye kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukufumana ubudala obunjalo buncinci ubuncinane be-orgasm. Yaye kungekhona ekuziqheleni, kodwa kunye nendoda. Ewe, ukuba uqonde ukuba kutheni kukho ingxolo eninzi malunga nale.
Isihlandlo sokuzikhukhumeza
Kodwa ungadideki nekratshi - kuvela ngentlonipho. Emva kwakho konke, ngamnye wethu wayenobunqobi bakhe. Kwabanye umntu unokumangala, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu kuthi. Kwaye asifanele sikhohlwe ngabo, ngakumbi xa behlambalaza ngento ethile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ufune ukugxeka, kodwa ke, uya kuvuma, ukufudumala komphefumlo wecinga ukuba kuwe, nakubakho, kodwa kukho into enokuziqhayisa ngayo: Ndilondolozile le nto endikukhuphayo ekhaya!
Imikhwa emibi
Ewe, kulunge ngakumbi apha ukuba kuyinto enye kwaye ayiyi kubangela ingozi enkulu kwimpilo. Kodwa konke okufanayo, makube njalo! Hlaziya ngenxa yemikhwa emibi ekwazi ukugxininisa kakhulu umntu wethu.
Musa nje ngokukhawuleza, ngokubhekiselele kula mazwi, ukutshaya ipakethi ye-cigarettes okanye ukufaka i-piece enkulu yekhekhe ngaphakathi kwakho-akuyi kuba kuhle kuwe!
Umsebenzi olungileyo
Bathi izenzo ezintle azikwazi ukuba zidume. Umgaqo, kodwa kutheni? Ukuqatshelwa koluntu kunye nodumo akudlala indima apha. Kubalulekile (kwaye kungekhona ubungakanani besikhathi esisodwa) ukwenza into enhle kumntu. Indlela yokuthetha: Kanye nje! ".
Efanelekileyo
Le yona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kunye nenqaku eliphambili, kuba akukho ithemba, njengoko bathi, "kwaye ubomi abuhle". Akunakwenzeka ukuba kweli hlabathi kukho umfazi oye wahlala emantwini amathathu, engazange abe nosizi, intukuthelo, ukuhlambalaza, ukulahleka, ukuphelelwa lithemba ebomini ... Olu luhlu, ngelanga, lunokuqhubeka ixesha elide. Into engathandekiyo, lo bomi. Kodwa yena kunye ne-netakaya nabo bayakunqwenela, ukuba isidalwa sexesha elizayo lokulwa nezixhobo zakhe. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu isixhobo sengozi yinto yokuhlaziya! Ngoko ngoku ufumane izigqibo.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unayo ihlaziyilo kunye nethemba nge minyaka engamashumi amathathu, uzimisele njani ukuhlala uphinde udibane nenkolo yobudala? Kodwa ukuba awuzange ukwazi oku, kwiminyaka emashumi mane ubomi, njengomthetho, kuqale nje!