Imithetho emihlanu elula yokufumana ubomi obonwabileyo

Ukulinganisela komphefumlo womntu onokuqinisekiswa okupheleleyo kunokubizwa ngokuba ngumthombo wolonwabo. Abantu abanovuyo abanomnqweno omkhulu baya emsebenzini, kuba bawulungele kwaye benokuvuya kakhulu ngokuhlwa babuyela ekhaya. Ukuvumelanisa okunjalo okumangalisayo kungafezwa ngumntu wonke. Kukho nemigaqo yokufikelela ngokuvumelana. Yintoni lonwabo? Injongo? Hayi, yindlela ende. Icandelo ngalinye kufuneka lifunde ukuqonda kwaye liqaphele kuphela izinto ezintle. Ukuba kukho into ehambileyo, kufuneka ucinge ngezinto ezithetha ngayo ubomi, kutheni uthumela isifundo esinjalo? Kwaye emva kokuqonda, ndikholelwa ukuba yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle. Ubomi buhamba ngokukhawuleza phambili, kwaye emva kwemvula enezantlambo ihlala ilanga. Ufuna nje ukuzama ukufumana ubomi obonwabileyo. Ziziphi le mithetho?

WeMpilo yeMpilo
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba awukwazi ukuthenga impilo ngemali. Kodwa abantu baqala ukuqonda oku kuphela xa isifo sifika endlwini kwaye ukuphucula impilo kuba nzima kakhulu. Kulula kakhulu ukukhusela nokukhusela eso sifo.

Njani? Ngena kwi-gym, yenza ukusetyenziswa kwemini, thabatha isitya esahlukileyo ekuseni, qaphela ukuqina. Yaye ke ma nyathelo alula abe yinxalenye yobomi bemihla ngemihla. Thetha kunye nengcali yeengqondo, uya kunceda ukukhusela izifo ezingeni leengqondo nezingaxhasi. Emva kokuthetha kunye neengcali, iingxaki zengqondo zixazululwa kalula. Akukho mfuneko yokutyelela oogqirha kwi-polyclinics, isidingo sokuthatha amayeza siphela, umngcipheko wokubhedlelelwa esibhedlele uyancipha.

Unokuzama i-yoga kwi-ingcali efanelekileyo. Iiklasi azomeleza kuphela umzimba, kodwa nomoya wakho. Umgaqo wesibini uthetha ngempilo yokomoya.

Impilo yokomoya
Umphefumlo womntu. Unokuthetha ngawo ixesha elide. Emva koko, ngenxa yokungabi nxamnye phakathi, ukuthula, iziganeko ezingenakwenzekayo ebomini bomntu. Awukwazi ukudibanisa isizathu nesiphumo. Kuphela kubantwana ukuba kuvunyelwe ukuba bacinge ukuba umoya uvela, kuba imithi iyaxhuma kakhulu.

Abantu abaninzi abadala abaqapheli ukuba abanalo ubudlelwane emsebenzini wabo kunye nabalingane okanye abesini esahlukileyo, kungekhona ngenxa yabantu "ababi".

Ukusuka nantoni na into ephilayo, izibilini ezifundwayo, ezifundwa kalula kwizinga le-intuition enye into. Umntu ukhangele ebomini bakhe abantu abalungileyo okanye ababi. Ububele bukaLuchiki, obuvela kumntu oyedwa, uya kukwazi ukufumana impendulo efanayo ngomphefumlo womnye umntu. Kwaye umphefumlo womntu ongendawo uya kufuna ukuba loo mvakalelo ibonakale kumntu osondele kuye.

Ngamanye amaxesha amabhinqa athi athande kuphela umyeni wabo, kodwa ayenjalo. Kuthetha kuphela ukuba akukho thando kulwalamano. Kukho iimvakalelo zokwesaba isizungu, ukuxhomekeke kwimali, ukuxhomekeka. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, ukunyamekela impilo yomphefumlo uzifundisa ngokwazo iimvakalelo ezithandekayo, uthando kunye nokugxila kwizinto ezintle ezenzekayo ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla.

Siyabonga
Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akayikuxabisa into anayo. Konke okulungileyo, okuvela kubantu abakujikelezile, kuthathwa ngokungenanto. Musa ukuthetha amazwi ombulelo, izenzo ezintle, ngokombono wabo, akufuneki ukuba zibonwe nonke.

Ukuqonda kobugovu "wonke umntu ondikweleta" kubonisa ukuphela kwexesha elifutshane lokuzonwabisa. Kodwa ngaphandle kokubulela, ulonwabo alunakwakhiwa.

Sifanele sivule "ukulungele" kwihlabathi elisijikelezayo. Kodwa asimele sikhohlwe ngomntu othile. Emva koko isiphumo se-mirror siya kuqala ukusebenza. Ukubulela kwakho ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubonakaliswa kubantu abakujikelezile kwaye kuza kubuya nezipho ezahlukahlukeneyo zeempiliso kubini nasemsebenzini wakho wobomi.

Iphupha
Iingcamango zinceda abantu ukuba baphuhlise. Ukufezekiswa kwephupha elifihliweyo yindlela eya kulonwabo olulindele ixesha elide. Bhala kwiphepha elikufunayo, ukuzaliseka okuya kuvuya ngayo ngokwenene. Kodwa ezi nqwenela zifanele zibe zakho kuphela, kungekhona iindawo ezikuyo. Emva koko, kuyinto yesiko ukunika iingcebiso omnye komnye. Kodwa amaphupha ayenzeka kuphela kwimeko yeenjongo ezichazwe ngokucacileyo, eqiniswe ngenjongo.

Ukubeka iinjongo
Ukuqondisa ingcamango ngendlela efanelekileyo, kufuneka senze iinjongo zethu ngokufanelekileyo. Simele sicacise ngokucacileyo umendo apho iphupha lakho liya kuhamba khona. Kwaye ukuba uthe wachaza ngokucacileyo oko ufunayo, ngoko iphupha liya kuzaliseka.

Nceda ucinge ngale mithetho yegolide yobomi obonwabileyo kwaye uqale ukuphumeza ngokukhawuleza!