Ukuqonda umfazi wamanamhlanje akulona nzima, njengokuba amadoda angathanda ukulila. Ngenxa yoko, akukho konke okufunekayo ukunyuka entloko yakhe, emphefumlweni wakhe okanye kwikheritjhe ukukhangela isisombululo kwiminqweno yakhe yemfihlelo kunye nenkanuko. Kwanele nje ukujonga iforum yababhinqa kwaye upheqa ngezihloko. Izihloko ezixutyushwa ngamandla, ezingcono kunezifundo zentlalo, zibonisa ukuba, ngokwenene, namhlanje ixhalaba ngabasetyhini. Ngoko yintoni le? Umsebenzi, usapho okanye umfanekiso omhle?
Amanqaku eenombolo zeenjini zokukhangela kunye nezihloko ezidumileyo zengxoxo ziyaziqhelanisa ngokwabo. Yileyo ndlela ixabiso elilinganiselweyo lezimpawu zowesifazane wesimanje, ngokusekelwe kwidatha yamaphephancwadi amaninzi athandwayo kunye neifom, zibukeka.
Ukunyuka kwesisindo 40,5%
Kwinkulungwane edlulileyo, igama lokutya lalidibene kunye ne-gastritis, isifo sesibindi, i-cutlets ye-steam ne-Borjomi. Namhlanje, eli limeko yendalo yowesifazane ngamnye ujonge. Ukugxininisa kakhulu kwiingcamango zemigangatho yemidiya yezobugcisa zixhoxisa amabhinqa ukuba angabonakaliyo kwindlela yokujonga ngayo amayeza kunye novavanyo oluqhelekileyo kwimpilo yabo. Iifom "ezifanelekileyo" zifuna amandla okungaxinwa, inkolelo ngokwayo, inzondelelo kunye ... ixesha. Kwaye konke oku kusetshenziselwa ukukhangela i-Intanethi kwisidlo kunye nokuzilolonga, ukuxoxa kwakhona kwi-Intanethi okanye emsebenzini, ukufunda iincwadi kunye neemagazini. Kodwa ixesha lokujongana nale mijelo yemimangaliso, akunjalo, akwanele. Kodwa kukho rhoqo isifundo kwincoko enomdla.
Kungekude kudlulileyo, ukuxhatshazwa ngobuso bakhe, umzobo kunye nomzimba babecingelwa bodwa, besondelene kwaye bengaboniswanga nabani na. Akukho kunye nomhlobo, okanye kunye naye, okanye uThixo akavumelani, nomyeni wakhe. Namhlanje kuyisifundo esithandwa kakhulu kumajelo asemazi. Enyanisweni, ngokugqithisileyo ukugxeka ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo esingalawulwayo kunye nokukhuthaza ukutya okunempilo kunye nendlela yokuphila, kodwa oku kuxoxwa ngayo ngentshiseko efanayo nangomdla wokuba ...
Ubudlelane 22%
Esi sihloko sidala nje ngehlabathi. Uthando, umona, ukunyeliswa, ukulahleka ... Kodwa ukuba ekuqaleni (kusekho, kwindlela, kwintsimi yeshumi elinesibini), iimvakalelo kunye nokuthanda izinto zazibangelwa ngumphefumlo okanye kwiincwadi kunye nobugcisa, kunika uluntu olungapheliyo lwendalo kunye nobuchule, kodwa namhlanje ayisoloko ihlaziywa yoluntu oluthile lugxotha kuthi ngokusisisiseko imithombo yeendaba kunye ne-Intanethi. Abesifazane basoloko befunda ngokuzimisela ubomi bobuqu bobabini abadumileyo kunye "nabantu abaqhelekileyo," kodwa baxubusha ngeentsapho zabo kunye nobomi obusondeleyo, kunye nabanye, abasayi kuba neentloni xa besetyenziselwa uluntu iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo. Mhlawumbi bafuna iimpendulo zemibuzo engapheliyo, bezama ngamava omnye umntu, kodwa ukunyaniseka kwabo kunye nokunyaniseka kwabo bacinga kakhulu abadlulileyo babeza kutshitshiswa. "Ukuba okanye kungekhona" umfazi akanandaba. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuba. Umbuzo, ngubani na uphi na? Ewe, ewe, ngokuqhelekileyo, umbuzo olandelayo uvela: Nkosi, kutheni ndiyidingayo yonke le nto nento yokugqoka?
Ubuhle 11%
Namhlanje esi sihloko, okokuqala, malunga nobuhle bangekho, kwaye kungekhona ngomphefumlo, nangona abafazi bawubeka, ngokuqinisekileyo, phezulu. Siyakuthanda ukuthetha ngento engenamsebenzi yokutshintsha kangcono ukuba kungekhona ihlabathi, ubuncinane ubuncinane obungaphandle, kodwa ukunika le nto yinto encinci yexesha kunye neendlela zethu. Sifuna ukuthanda. Sifuna kuphela. Ngaphezu koko, iindaba ezixhamlileyo, iintengiso kunye neenkampani zonyango zizinikezela ngokunyanisekileyo zize zenze izinto zilula. Yintoni, unesizungu? Konke malunga nekhwele! Thenga i-shampoo entsha-kunye nolonwabo luya kuwela ezandleni zakho. Musa nje ukulibala i-manicure. Kwaye kunye nekhilimu ephikisayo, kwaye ngoko-sharieja kuyafana! Hayi, asikholelwa kwiintengiso. Kodwa ... kwaye ngokukhawuleza? Kwaye abafazi bayabheka ngokugqithiseleyo le sixhobo esichaphazelayo esiya kubakhombisa, kwaye ngoko ke, ndonwabile.
Ukukhulelwa 10%
Oku kuyinto emangalisayo, kodwa ixesha elonwabileyo, ukulinda okuluvuyo kunye nokulungiselela ukubonakala kwentsana kuyamjabulisa abafazi ngaphezu kwesiphumo ngokwayo. Iimvumba zexesha elizayo zizicingela ngokucacileyo ukuba "yintonga yomhlaba", kwaye inamba iyanda ngokukhawuleza, ifikelele kwi-trimester enkulu ekupheleni kwekota. Ngelo xesha, abafazi banenkxalabo kuphela ngesimo sabo sengqondo, impilo, "ubomi obungaphakathi" kunye nokuzalwa kwangaphambili. Ukuphazamisa kwaye ukhohlwe ukuba ukhulelwe akunakwenzeka. Kwaye amaxesha amaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo abavumelanga ukulibala malunga nalowo nawuphi na.
Izilwanyana 5%
Ewe, iimagazini eziphathekayo, iiwebhusayithi kunye neeforamu zokunyamekela nokugcinwa kwezilwanyana ezifuywayo zininzi kunezibonelelo ezizinikele ekukhulisweni kwabantwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, izifuyo zifanelwe isisa, isimo sengqondo nesinyameko kunye nothando. Kodwa kukho ingcamango encinci. Ukuba kukho ingqwalasela enkulu kunye nokuthanda izilwanyana, omnye umntu uyazilahleka ngokucacileyo. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, lo "mntu" usondele kakhulu.
Isalathisi 5%
Kuyamangalisa kweli qakala lokuba omnye umntu usebenza ngemisebe. Uninzi kunje, lo msebenzi wawubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ubulungisa bezoqoqosho. Namhlanje kubaluleke kakhulu kwinto yokuzonwabisa kunye nobuchule. Ukuzibona nokwenza izicathulo akusekho imfashini kwaye kaninzi kubangela ukugculelwa kweqela elincinci labasetyhini, kodwa akukho nantoni na eYurophu engazange athathe intetho. Yaye nangona uqoqosho kunye nokuhlaliswa kwekhaya akumi eluhlu lwezinto ezintle ezibalulekileyo zabasetyhini banamhlanje, abafazi baya kuhlala bekhangele into ethile yokusebenzisa izandla zabo ezinezakhono.
Ukupheka 3%
Oku kunokuba ngumsebenzi onomdla kakhulu, kodwa umfazi wesimanje akalungele ukumnika amandla akhe nexesha elininzi. Ukuba kuphela oku akuyiyo inyanzelekileyo kwingxaki yenkxalabo ebalulekileyo kuninzi "Ukulahleka kwesisindo". Abasetyhini bacinga ngaphantsi koko, oko kuya kuba mnandi kwaye kuncedo ukunyusa umyeni nabantwana. Kwaye ngakumbi nangakumbi malunga nekhalori yokutya, umxholo wamafutha kunye ne-carbohydrate kunye neempembelelo zabo ezimbi, ezingabonakaliyo.
Umakhaya 0.8%
Hayi, ewe, siyamthanda kwaye sinakekele abantwana bethu kwaye sibanika imizuzu eyi-17 yexesha labo ngosuku! Leyo yimalini, yabalwa izazi zeengqondo, isebenzisa loo mfazi kwimfundo yomntwana. Ukunxibelelana naye kunye nemfundo, kungekhona yokutya, ukugqoka, ukuhlamba nokuhamba nomntwana kwiivenkile. Siyavuya kwaye siziqhenyce ngokuthetha ngabantwana bethu, sibonisa iifoto zabo kunye nempumelelo kwaye abanomdla kakhulu kwiinkqubo zemfundo nophuhliso kubo, bathembela ngakumbi kwimvelo nakumava abo. Kwaye omdala umntwana uba, singaphantsi sikhathazeke ngaye kwaye sincokola kakhulu. Hayi, kodwa ukuzinikezela ubomi bakho kwiintsapho kunye nabantwana ... akuyiyo imfashini.
Midlalo 0.6%
Ezemidlalo zikhuthaza abafazi abathandekayo, kwakhona, njengaye, ngelishwa, inxalenye ebalulekileyo yomhlathi wokuqala wale uluhlu lwexabiso. I-gymnastics yobugcisa, i-basketball kunye ne-hockey abanomdla omncinci, ebudeni bexesha elidluleyo ekusebenziseni umzimba kunye ne-isotonic umzimba.
Umakhaya 0.8%
Esi sihloko xa ukhathazekile ngabasetyhini, ngoko kuphela malunga nomyeni wakhe, oko kukuthi, njengengxabano echithwa kuyo, ukulima, ixesha kunye nomyeni wakhe. Ukususela kwinqanaba lokuqala labafazi bambuza umbuzo othi, ngaba kutheni ndimele ndenze yonke into, esi sihloko siye sanyuka ukusuka kwinqanaba lekhaya ukuya kwinqanaba lezentlalo kwaye lixubusha ngokutsha kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo imihla ngemihla. Futhi kungekhona ekhaya kuphela ekhitshini, kodwa nakwiimidiya. Kodwa ekubeni lo mbuzo, njengoko sele ukhankanywe ngasentla, uyingcamango, akukho mpendulo kuyo kwaye ayikwazi. Ngako oko, isihloko sobomi ekupheleni kwoluhlu lwezinto eziphambili kwiimfuno zabesifazane kwaye, ndicinga ukuba, ziya kupheleka kwi-ajenda kwixesha elizayo.
Inkcubeko 0.3%
Le ngongoma kuloluhlu lwezihloko kunye neminqweno yabasetyhini inqunywe yizinto ezizithandayo, iifilimu, iincwadi zorhwebo, umculo omculo kunye nomlinganiselo omncinci kubo bonke abanye abadibanisa leli gama. Hayi, oku akuthethi ukuba abafazi banamhlanje abanomdla kwenkcubeko, ubugcisa kunye nangokwenzululwazi. Kuphela nje emva kokutya okunzima, ukufumana ubudlelwane nomntu othandekayo, ukuya ezithengisini, ukutyelela i-cosmetologist, ukukhulisa abantwana kunye nezinja, ukwenza iingubo, iimpawu zokudweba kunye noThixo, abanaso ixesha lokucoca nokupheka kwakhona.
Mhlawumbi umntu uya kuqaphela ukuba kuloluhlu lwezihloko zeengqungquthela akukho msebenzi kunye nemfundo eninzi namhlanje namhlanje. Kodwa oku kulungile. Abasetyhini, abanomdla kwishishini kunye nomsebenzi, njengomthetho, akukho nto ingentla apha ayinomdla. Ngoko ke, ixabiso lexabiso eliye lahluke ngokupheleleyo.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kukho abafazi abanezinto ezibalulekileyo: intsapho, ukomoya, inkcubeko. Abanomdla kwizinto ezintle, i-melodrama kunye nokulahleka kwesisindo. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, abaxeleli bani na ngale nto?
Umbhali: uAlexra Shatalina
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