Amadoda amaninzi anokuzithemba, anokuzithemba ngokuzithemba. Baziqhayisa ngohlobo lwabo nabahlobo abatsha kunye nezihlunu zabo (ezingabalulekanga ngokubalulekayo), kunye nemoto (nangona kungenjalo entsha kwaye kuthengwa ngetyala), kunye nehostela (kakuhle, eyayizuze kwi-grandmother kwaye iphume ngaphaya kweMoscow Ring Road). Funda kubo ukuzingca! Hayi, akukufanelekanga ukuxhatshazela impumlo yakho, ufanele uzuze iimpumelelo zakho kwiphina indawo. Mhlawumbi kumntu kulula, kodwa wenza umzamo, uzama ukufumana enye okanye enye. Vumela wonke umntu ukuba uya kuhlangabezana naluphi na umqobo. Yiloo nto onokuyifunda kumntu wanamhlanje.
Amadoda asoloko ebonisa uluvo lwakhe ngesibindi (phantse yonke into), kwaye ukuba ayithandi into, bayakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kumdlali. Hayi, akufanelekile ukulwa. Kodwa ukukhusela uluvo lwakho, velisa iingcinga zakho zingcwele. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene, unokumisela iingcamango zakho kwi-interlocutor yakho, kodwa kufuneka uyenze ngokucophelela nangokucokisekileyo.
Amadoda anesakhiwo esisodwa esibalulekileyo, ubuchule: banokuphosa yonke into baze baphumule. Yaye kungekhona kwiqela, kodwa kwibhola okanye nje ukutyelela umhlobo. Ngaba ubi kakhulu? Hlela ngokwakho usuku! Buza emsebenzini, uye kwivenkile okanye kumboniso, kumyuziyam, nakweyiphi na indawo, ukuba wuthanda kuphela kwaye ujabulele umhla ochithekele wona. Unelungelo lokucinga ngemisebenzi yasemakhaya, ukubala uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, unomntu, kwaye unelungelo lokuphumla. Ngokuhlwa, endaweni yokupheka nokucoca ngokuqhelekileyo, zinyamekele, zinyamezele ukufunda incwadi okanye uthathe ibhokhwe ecocekileyo. I shishini ngeke liphele. Kwaye oku kungafunyanwa kumntu wanamhlanje.
Amadoda aziqhenyce ngokwawo, kunye nemizimba yazo. Abanqikazi ukuvuthela impumlo, ukukhawulela kunye nokutshitshisa apho kuhlutha khona. Musa ukuthatha yonke into ngokoqobo, ungaqali ngokukhawuleza ukukhahlela. Uyintombazana! Ngokuthanda ngokwakho ngendlela oyiyo. Ukuba uhlobo oluthile lomntu onobuhlungu kunye nentlondi ecinga ngathi ngu-Apollo, ngoko kutheni ungazibheki njenge-Belle? Emva koko, kunjalo!
Bonke abantu bayazi yonke into. Nangona bengazi into, basenza nje ukuba wonke umntu ehlabathini uyazi, uyazi, uyaziqonda. Kukho nawuphi na, umbuzo onzima kakhulu, abameleli besini esomeleleyo banokuphendula. Ngoko ungaba neentloni ukuthetha ngesibindi nangokuvulekileyo malunga nale mibuzo kunye nezinto ongazi ngayo. Yazi ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kulo mzekelo kukuba uthethe ngokuzithemba nangetoni yeqela. Funda ukudala ingcamango, kwaye uya kubona ukuba abaninzi abantu abasesigodini sakho baya kuqala ukukuhlonipha, bakubheka ngokuhlukileyo, baqale ukucela iingcebiso. Yintoni enye ongayifunda indoda yanamhlanje?
Amadoda ngamanye amaxesha akhethe indlela elula. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza, uhlala kwaye abukele iTV, ebonisa intetho engumntu oyisiphukuphuku, kwaye akukho mlawuli odeleyo, ngoko ke loo mntu akanakuqala ukumkhangela, unokukhetha ukuhlala esiqheqweni, ukusela ubhiya nokubukela iTV. Abasetyhini, ngokungafani namadoda, banokukwazi ukunyamezela ukuxazulula iingxaki kunye nemisebenzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kufumana ukude, siya kwenza into ethile. Ngoko ke kunokufanelekile ukuyeka okwesibili, uze uphumle kwaye ungenzi nto? Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda kwaye kuyonwaba. Funda ukuphumla kwaye ungenzi ukunyakaza okungadingekile.
Ngokuphathelele ukucocwa, phantse bonke abantu bayaqiniseka ukuba ukucocwa ngumsebenzi ongenalutho kunye nolomfazi. Kwaye abafazi, ngokuchaseneyo, bakholelwa ukuba kubalulekile, ukugcina indlu ukuze, ukuphuma. Kwaye uzama ukutshintsha i-stereotype kwaye ungaphumi. Nangona uthuli luya kubuthela kwiitrhefti kwindlu yakho, unokwenza ezinye izinto ezincedo: funda, phumula, udibana neentombi zakho. Kutheni ugijime malunga nomzi kunye ne-rag kunye ne-vacuum cleaner, ukuba kusekho iiveki kamva kuya kuba nenkunkuma? Emva koko uya kususwa. Okwangoku, vuyela ubomi!
Kubomi bomntu ngamnye indima ebalulekileyo idlalwe ngabahlobo. Unamantombazana ambalwa? Akukho namnye oya kwiifilimu? Ngoko zifumane ezinye iintombi zeentombi kwaye uhambe nabo! Xoxa, uye kwivenkile kunye, vele uhambe. Nangona kukho indoda ecaleni kwakho, ngowokuqala, indoda, kungekhona intombi. Kuye ungeke uxoxe ngezinto onokuzixelela kalula umhlobo wakho. Akakwazi ukuma umzila weeyure ezine zohambo lokuthenga. Nguye kuphela umhlobo ongcono onokukwenza oku. Ngoko, fumana amantombazana akho. Nabo bavuya kakhulu!
Amadoda athanda imidlalo, eyahlukileyo. Ibhola, iHockey, i-volleyball, ukugembula. Ngaba ubi kakhulu? Nangona kungabi sekwephuzile kakhulu, kwaye isibalo sakho sisesimweni esifanelekileyo, sithatha uhlobo oluthile lwemidlalo oyithandayo, ngoko ngaphandle kwefomu elihle lomzimba, uya kuba nomoya omhle kunye nekratshi.
Uninzi lwethu unezithixo. Abadlali, ababukeli, abaculi okanye abapolitiki. Ngoko kutheni ungaqale ulingise umdlali wakho ozithandayo? Yiba lusizi kwaye ungacacanga njengoye. Funda kubo ukuhlangabezana nobunzima bokuphila. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukulawula i-destiny yakho nobomi. Khumbula ukuba konke kusezandleni zakho. Akukaze kufike emva kokufunda. Kwa madoda.