Iibangela kunye nemiphumo yokuhlukunyezwa kwabasetyhini


Izimbangela kunye nemiphumo yobudlobongela besifazane inokuhluka. Emva koko, wonke umntu uyacaphuka-amadoda namabhinqa. Abasetyhini bakhetha ukulwa kwakhona. Izixhobo zabo zihlambalaza, izibilini, iingcazo kunye neentlebo. Kwamadoda, ulwalamano lubonakaliswe kwifom evulekileyo. Ukukhusela uluvo lwakho, ukulwa nokulwa. Ubundlobongela besilisa kuthathwa njengesiqhelo. Kodwa abafazi kufuneka bazinqande, ukuze bangalahlekelwa bubuso babo. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha umsindo oqokelelweyo uphuma. Kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo abafazi, ngokukhawuleza ukuvimbela iimvakalelo, baba nobudlova kunamadoda.

Izizathu zobundlobongela besifazane.

Ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela kunye nemiphumo yobundlobongela besifazane luyindonga engenakuthenjwa ngokungaqondi. Abasetyhini baziva bebanjwe. Abanayo indawo eyaneleyo yezenzo ezisebenzayo, kwaye amandla aqokelelweyo aphuma. Kumele kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho luyinxalenye yomsebenzi wendalo esinikezwe ngokwemvelo. Ukuba nomsindo ngaphakathi kwimida efanelekileyo kunokuba luncedo. Intukuthelo ikhulula amandla, iyakhuthaza ukutshintsha imeko ethile yezinto. Kwakhona, ulwaphulo lunceda ekukhuseleni ngokusongela okukhuselekileyo nokukhusela iimfuno zabo, ukunqoba izithintelo ezinkulu. Umzekelo, umfazi uba nomsindo xa ekhusela umntwana wakhe.

Ukuxhatshazwa ngenye yezimbangela zeemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Isantya sobomi kwisixeko esikhulu sinokukhawuleza kangangokuthi umzimba kufuneka ube rhoqo "kwifom yokulwa". Thina sizibeka esichengeni sokuxhalabisa. Ukuqokelela kwiimeko ezibucayi kwaye uphume kwiimeko ezibuhlungu kunye nelahleko ezincinci. Ngendlela, ke abantu abantu bamagqabantshintshi banamandla kwaye banomsindo.

Nangona kubonakala ukuba ubundlobongela bubonakala bendalo, abantu abangendawo abayithandi mntu. Asazi indlela yokukhupha iimvakalelo ezingekho kakuhle. Intukuthelo iya kuba yingozi xa ibhekiswa kumntu othile. Xa umntu ejoliswe kuwe. Yaye uya kuba neengxaki zakho eziphambene nawe kuqala. Ukuba ufuna ukubonakalisa ukunganeliseki ngolu hlobo oluye lwavela, musa ukutshintsha uxanduva kumntu odibeneyo. Akufanele umangalele umntu ngento ethile, kuba wonke umntu unenyaniso yakhe. Akusiyo iphoso lakho ukuba unesimo esibi. Ufuna ukukhwaza - khwaza! Ufuna ukuzithetha ngokuthi "ligama elinamandla" - ilungelo lakho. Kodwa khala ngaphandle kwamehlo.

Indlela yokugwema imiphumo engathandekiyo yobudlova.

Ukuphepha iziphumo ezingathandekiyo zobundlobongela akulula. Ukuba umntu ephaka, akufanele uphendule umoni lowo ngendlela efanayo. Okokuqala, wabonisa iimvakalelo zakhe, ezingenanto nantoni na. Ukuba uyayiphendula, unjengeengxaki zakhe kuye. Ngaba uyayifuna le nto? Okwesibini, zama ukuvavanya ukuba ukusabela kwakho ngokukhawuleza ukunyaniseka kunokukhokelela. Umntu unokutshutshiswa ngotywala, iziyobisi okanye ugula ngengqondo. Kule meko, umoni lowo usemgangathweni kwaye unako ukwenza okubi kakhulu.

Kuthekani ukuba uthe wabizwa ngokuthe ngqo okanye ushukunywe, uchithe iimoya? Ewe, ukuba kukho ithuba lokubonisa umhlobo okanye othandekayo. Phuma, ngoko kuthetha, umphefumlo. Uncedo kunye neendlela ezaziwa kwabesifazane abaninzi - ukulila emlanjeni. Okanye ngokuphambene nendawo - ukukhawula ibhola lebhokisi. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukuhlala kungekho nto ibhola okanye i-pillow. Kukho iindlela zomzimba nezengqondo ezibuyisela ukulinganisela kokomoya.

Omnye wabo: nyathela, qinisa iibhokhwe zakho ngokuqinileyo kwaye unqande umzimba wakho ngemizuzwana embalwa (ngaphandle kwemisipha yentamo kunye nobuso). Emva koko kufuneka uphumelele kwaye uphumule. Ngalo msebenzi olula, awuyi kukhawulela ingqalelo - akukho mntu uya kukhangela ethempelini lakhe. Kodwa ngalo msebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukucinga ngokuchanekileyo. Awukwazi ukucinga ngomntu othile. Ingqumbo yakho kunye nokucasula oku akuyi kutshabalala. Kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nendlela, kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwemisipha, umsindo kunye nobudlova basinda kuwe. Khawucinge ngendlela ovutha ngayo umsindo wakho, uphuphuke. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungaziqhawulise amacenge akho, iya kutshabalala.

Enye indlela yokungamemeza ngomntu kukumxelela ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba uphukisiwe nguye. Umntu kufuneka alungele ukukuva. Le ndlela isebenza ngcono kwiintsapho nezihlobo. Ukuba ukhutshwe ngumthandayo, yitsho oku: "Mzalwana, ndifuna ukuba sikwenze. Kodwa indibandezela ukuba ndikucaphukise kakhulu. Ndifuna ixesha lokuzola. Ezi nje iimvakalelo zam. Kwaye kufuneka ndijongane nabo. Ndinike, nceda, mzuzu emihlanu. Ndiza kuzincama, kwaye siza kuxubusha imeko ngoxolo. " Kule meko, ungathethi ngeqabane lakho, kodwa malunga neemeko zangoku. Musa ukuzibandakanya kwiimeko. Kungcono ukuqaphela ukungabi namandla kwaye uthi ngokuthe ngqo: "Ndifuna ukumemeza!". Isikhundla esivulekile sisona siphumelele kakhulu sokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.

Ubundlobongela besifazane luhlala lubonakala kwintsapho. Emva kokufumana ezininzi iimvakalelo eziphazamisekile emsebenzini, zihlawuliswa, siya kumngenisa endlwini. Ukusuka kwakhe kubandezeleka ngenxa nangaphandle, kungekhona kuphela ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Uninzi lwamaxesha amaninzi amalungu entsapho abasengozini kakhulu ngabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuphosa iimvakalelo ezimbi, siyazisola ngokukwenzekileyo. Kodwa igama alilona intlunkulu. Ukuthetha kanye - awuyi kubuya.

Uninzi lwezinto ezikucaphukisayo ezenzekayo kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomnqweno okanye umgudu wakho. Kufuneka ukuba samkele le nyaniso njenge-axiom. Umzekelo, unesizungu, kwaye umyeni wakho uhlala evalelwe emsebenzini. Akunakukunika ingqwalasela efanele. Ngaphambi kokuba umthukuthelele, hlalutya - yintoni isizathu salo mkhuba. Mhlawumbi unomsebenzi ophuthumayo. Okanye mhlawumbi akafuni ukuya ekhaya kumfazi oqhayisayo? Yintoni enokuyenza xa ulwalamano lwentsapho luyintanda kuwe? Okokuqala - ukuqonda ukuba i-scandals yandisa nje imeko. Qiniseka ukuba umcele ngokusemthethweni ukuba abuye ekhaya ekuqaleni. Yaye ukuvuselela iimvakalelo zakhe, zenzele kwiindlela ezincinci. Indlela emfutshane kakhulu entliziyweni yomntu ihamba ngeplate yeesobho ezinqabileyo. Ngethuba elithile, pheka imihla ngemihla, makungabi "kubiza", kodwa isidlo sakusihlwa. Kwaye yonke ixesha-into entsha. Zibeke ngokwakho. Thenga itekethi entsha yeselerie. Mangaliswe ngegama elinobubele. Kwaye ngeveki awuyi kuba nomsindo ngaye. Akuncede kuphela umyeni nabantwana kuphela. Okokuqala, uya kuzinceda. Impilo yakho ixhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo sakho.

Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo eziya kukunceda ukuba ungacasuli ngaphezu kwezinto ezintle kwaye ukhuthaze ugonyamelo lwakho:

- Kwimeko enzima, wabelane ngamava akho kunye nentombi yakho. Kodwa ukuhlushwa kungekho ngaphezu kwesigama seyure. Ngaphandle koko, kunokudinwa okanye kukugqithise iingxaki zakho.

- Awufanele ulwa nama windmills. Phendukela kwinto eyenzekayo okwangoku. Ukuba i-half-day day scrolling in head it is five-second insult yindlela echanekileyo yokunyanzeliswa kokungalawulwa.

- Musa ukunika okwenziweyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uphawule, cinga: Ingaba umntu osebenza naye ubiza ngokuba ungekho nto, okanye unqume ukuba uthetha?

- Ukuba ucaphukile, ke ubale ezilishumi. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Ukufunda ukunciphisa ukuphendulwa komsindo, ngokukhawuleza uza kukwazi ukukuphepha konke.

- Funda amanyathelo athile aphucula izihlunu. Umntu akakwazi ukuba nomsindo xa umzimba wakhe ukhululekile.

"Impendulo engcono kakhulu kukubonisa umntu onomsindo njengentaba engenazo. Pozhuzhzhit, pozhuzhzhit kwaye iphelile. Inambuzane encinci, yintoni ekufuneka uyithathe kuyo? Ekupheleni - musa ukuluma okufanayo.

- Cinga, ingxaki iya kuba nenjongo kuwe ngemizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu? Kwaye iiyure ezimbini? Ngaba ndifanele ndigubungele iimbilini zam ukuba ndilibale ngokuhlwa?

Ngokuya kwimithetho engekho kuphela ye-physics, kodwa kunye neengqondo, njengale nto iphakamisa oko. Okanye amandla okuthatha amanyathelo alinganayo namandla ochasayo. Ukuba awukho uqonde, ngoko ungatsho ngenye indlela: Xa 'ukwanele' uphendule ulwaphulo-mthetho, ulwaphulo luya kuqinisa. Kwaye ukuba ubonisa ukuzithiba okuncane, umntu onobudlova, ngaphandle kokufumana impendulo, uya kulahlwa ngumdla kuwe. Kuphela unquma ukuba ngaba uhlala ngokuvisisana nawe, okanye usasaze eli hlabathi libe yizicucu ezincinci. Kwaye, ukuvisisana kungcono!