Ubuvila ngumgangatho omhle kakhulu womntu. Ngaphandle kobuvila, kwakungeke kubekho ukufunyanwa kubalulekile, inkqubela phambili. Umntu onomdaka oya kuhlala efumana amanzi emthonjeni okanye waya emfuleni iikhilomitha ezimbalwa ukusuka ekhaya. Ngoko nokuba uzinyanzela ukulwa nobudenge, okanye ushiye njengoko kunjalo - yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu.
"Injini yenkqubela", nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo kusinika ubunzima obukhulu. Ibhinqa elingagqithwanga lilahlekelwa ngumkhwenkwe emehlweni kwindoda yakhe kuphela, kodwa kunye nalabo abakujikelezile. Kwaye ubuvila, obusenza sinoyiko ukwenza into, ngokukhawuleza kufuna ukungenelela ngokuthe ngqo - kodwa ukuba siziphoqe ukuba silwe, senze into?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu omele uyikhumbule ngexesha "imfazwe" nobudenge - ungafaki kulo, nceda, abanye. Kulula kakhulu, ngohlobo lwe "Distances" kunye nokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kunye neenkqubo, ukuvakalisa umntu ngokuthi "umgcini" kunye nokumnika uxanduva lokukhaba ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kulula kakhulu ukucaphukisa lomntu okhusela ukuba uphile ngokuthula.
Kuhlala kunzima ukuqala. Zonke iziqalo zifuna ukunyanzeliswa okukhulu kwamandla kunye nexesha. Kodwa bahlawula njengoko baqhubela phambili kulo mbandela.
Ngaba ufuna ukufunda ukudanisa?
Ayikho ingxaki!
- Shayela iiklabhu eziseduze.
- Khetha ukhetho lomdaniso kunye notitshala.
- Hamba ujwayelane nale meko kwindawo ...
- Ukuthenga ifom, ukwaba ixesha, uyavuma ukuba zeziphi iintsuku eziza kuhlala kunye nomntwana ...
Kwaye kuphela ekugqibeleni usenza isinyathelo sokuqala. Uhambo lokuqala ukuya ehholo. Isifundo sokuqala.
Sekude sitsalwe kuyo, kulula ukuqhubeka ukwenza into kunokushiya. Kufuneka njani ukuchazela umyeni othandekayo, kumqeqeshi, ukuya kwintombazana kunye namabini-abantu abathathu ukuba kutheni ungahambi emidlalweni kwakhona. Ngoko ke, ukuziphoqa ukulwa nobuvila kulula kakhulu - kufuneka nje uvale amehlo akho kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokuqala! Emva kwakhe ngowesibili. Kwaye okwesithathu kuya kuba semvelo njengokwenza i-inhaling and exhaling.
Ubuvila ngumvakalelo obakhayo. Ikhusela kwisityebi esingenasidingo samandla. Ngaba akuyinyaniso, ukuba uye kwivenkile ngosuku olukhunileyo, ngokubanda kakhulu, i-blizzard okanye imvula kunzima kakhulu kunokuba ungene kwindawo yokutya emva komsebenzi. Kungenxa yokuba kwimeko yokuqala kunye yesibini kufuna umlinganiselo othile wenzame.
Sixolelana ne "piramidi yezidingo"
Kwakhona, cinga ngesishukumiso. Ukuphumelela ukuzimisela ukulwa nobudenge kunokuphela komntu onesihlandlo sokubeka imizamo. Isizathu sisekelwe kwiimfuno. Kwaye, ngokweMaslow Pyramid, amanqanaba amaninzi, ukususela kwisiseko (esisisiseko) ekufezekiseni iinjongo zomntu (okugqibela). Ngendlela, impumelelo yentlalo, ukuphakanyiswa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, ukuphuculwa kwezemali (ukuzuza ngaphezu kwezinga lokusinda) liphakathi kwendawo ethile.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ukuthetha ngobuqili - ukuzinyanzela ukulwa neentsikelelo zentsomi (ongaboniyo kwaye ungaziva, ezingabalulekanga kuwe) kunzima kakhulu. Ngako oko, kwezinye iimeko kulula ukunciphisa yonke into ukuze iphile. Ukuba ungumntu onjalo-kakuhle, ukwandisa iimfuno zakho ezisisiseko. Ayikho ibhanti yebhanethi "impahla yeentengo zaseTshayina" - kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ingubo yoboya. Ukungahambi kakuhle kwakungekho ngaphandle kwengubo yokuphuma. Kwaye ke imikhosi yokuyifumana (indlela "yindoda" - ukufumana, okanye "ibhinqa" - ukucela) iya kuba nemeryanno.
Kwaye awukhumbuli ubuvila kulo mzuzwana.
Kuthekani ukuba amabhunga "angasebenzi"?
Ukuba ubuvila bakho buyakwamukela, njengodonga oluphezulu lwekhonkco olusisigxina - cinga malunga nokuba luvila kakhulu. Mhlawumbi, ezi ziimfuno ezibalulekileyo ezifuna ukuphunyezwa kwazo. Mhlawumbi ezi ngxabano ezingapheliyo xa ungaqinisekanga ngomso. Mhlawumbi, ukuba utyalwe iinzame zakho - oku akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlawule ngokukhululeka. Ngubani omele ahlole izakhono zakho zokudansa? Ukuba unethemba lokubonga abanye abangakhathali ngezakhono zakho, ngoko akukho mfuno yokuba wenze iphupha lakho lizaliseke.
Ngoko uzama ukuhambisa iphuzu lokukhuthaza ngaphakathi kwakho. Ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo - ngenxa yakhe, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yomyeni wakhe (oqaphela umahluko kuphela xa egqoke imaski yegesi). Ukuba ufunda iinkqubo zeekhompyutheni - ngokokuba uvuyo lwenxibelelwano, kwaye kungekhona inhlonipho yabantwana bakho. Ukuze ube yinkosikazi, kulungile ukufumana iindwendwe - kwakhona, ngokwakho. Ngenxa yokubala kwenkxaso yabanye, unokufumana okanye awukho kwifom okanye umgangatho ongalunganga. Yaye xa intanda ethandekayo ithi ulahlekelwe isisindo, kodwa "uhlambele emathangeni, uzama nzima" ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukumemeza: "Ngubani na abagwebi?". Kwaye emva koko-iya kwisithulu sokuzithulu.
Ukwahlula ubuvila kunye nezinye iimpawu zokhuthazo lwakho