Indoda yam intanda ifuna ukuyenza imnandi. Oku kusebenza ebomini, kunye nokutya kwaye, ngokwenene, intima. Yingakho, oomama badla ngokucinga malunga nendlela yokuthabatha umfana ebusweni. Emva kwakho konke, kuhle kakhulu, xa umfana efumana ngokoqobo kwisiqingatha sokujika, xa uyichukumisa ngomlomo wakho. Kodwa ukuba kwenzeke oku, kufuneka ube neendlela ezithile zokubanga.
Ungamnceda njani umfana ngokubanga? Okokuqala, ukubanga akusiyo nje umgca womlomo emlonyeni. Amadoda nje amlejut ngelixa elinye ibhinqa lincinci kwaye litshana ngothando, iheadhead, cheekbones, ihla kancane entanyeni. Ungakwazi ukunyibilika ngobumnene uze unamle i-lobe indlebe. Ukuba umntu uvale indlebe yakhe endlebeni, ungayidlala ngoncedo lolwimi. Amadoda athanda kakhulu ukumanga nokutshiza iminwe yabo. Eli nyathelo liyabakhuthaza ngemizuzwana embalwa nje.
Amanye amadoda afana nawo kakhulu xa, ngelixesha lokumanga, umfazi ugijima isandla kwizinwele zakhe aze athathe umncinci. Kodwa kufuneka udibanise iinwele zakho kungekho kwiingcebiso, kodwa kwisiseko seenwele, kufuphi nentloko ngokwawo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuvuyisa umfana - sebenzisa ukuqhaqhazela okungafaniyo. Ubumba obunzulu kunye nobusiso obunomdla obumnandi kunye nobumnene. Unokunika unomtsalane wakho omnene, omanzi, onqabileyo, ongathinti umlomo wakho.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba abantu abayithandi kakhulu i-caresses yokuqala Amadoda nje umlejut kunye ne-baldeeyut xa ibhinqa elithetha ngomlomo wayo lichaphazela imimandla eyahlukeneyo yomzimba. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantu bayayithanda xa babanga ngaphakathi entendeni. Ukongezelela, akufanele uyilibale malunga nebele kunye neengono. Amadoda afana ne-caresses kule ndawo ngaphezu kwabesetyhini.
Ukuphumelela, ukubetha ukukhanya, ukukhwaza - kuquka ukucinga kwakho kwaye usebenzise i-arsenal yonke. Kwakhona, indawo engafanelekanga yamadoda yindawo yangaphakathi yamathanga. Nangona ngokunyamezela ngezandla, amadoda ayavuya. Yaye ukuba usebenzisa imilomo yakho, umfana wakho akayi kukwazi ukumbamba kwaye akunike ubusuku obushushu bothando.
Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubanga. Ngokomzekelo, kukholelwa ukuba indawo enokugqithiseleyo emlonyeni yintlungu. Yingakho ngexesha lokumanga, kufuneka uvuselele intlungu yesibini ngoncedo lolwimi. Chukumisa ukuya kwintlungu, ubambe ulwimi, thintela ngokulula. Ngokumanga, unokuyibamba ngobumnene umlomo ophantsi weqabane, udibanise phakathi kwemilomo yakho. Ngexesha lokumanga kunye ne-caresses, awukwazi ukukhawuleza naphi na. Gcwalisa zonke izinto zokubamba kunye nayo yonke into yokuthandana.
Enye indawo engafanelekanga kumadoda yintsipho. Ngexesha lokumanga, unokwazi ukuphawula isandla sakho, uqhubeke ne-vertebrae, njengokungathi wenza ukucola okulula. Ewe, ukumanga umva wakho, kuyinto enomdla kakhulu, kungekhona kuphela kubayeni, kodwa kubafazi. Vumelana, kusele mnandi kakhulu, ukuchukumisa imilomo yakho kwinqanaba eliqinileyo, eliyindoda. Khangela kancane umthandi wakho kwindawo yomgudu ngokwawo, kunye nakwindawo ekhohlo nasekunene. Kubalulekile ukuba uhla phantsi ngokuthe ngcembe okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uvuke emva kwekhanda. Ukubamba kunye nokuthintela kungenziwa kokubili ngoncedo lweelwimi ezixinzekileyo kunye ezikhululekile. Kubalulekile ukutshintshela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ukwenzela ukuba loo ndoda ayivalelwa yedwa.
Esinye isisu singathatyathwa njengendawo yendawo. Oku akumangalisiyo, kuba indawo leyo ihlala ecaleni kwendawo enobungqina bomzimba wesilisa. Omnye ummandla onobubele unokuthiwa indawo ekhoyo phakathi kwenqanawa kunye nesitho somzimba. Kufuneka uhlawule ngokukhethekileyo kule ndawo yomzimba wesilisa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukulala ngesondo. Udinga ukunika indoda ithenda kunye nokukrakra okukrakra okuya kwenza umthandayo wakho ngokoqobo ngemizuzwana embalwa. Akufuneki ukuba uphuphe ngokukhawuleza, kubalulekile ukunyanzelisa le ndawo imizuzu emibini. Vumelana, kuba unonwabo kakhulu kukuqonda ukuba ungayifumana into ebaluleke kakhulu kungekudala, kodwa awuyi kunika. Olu hlobo lokulangazelela luvuyisa uvuyo kwizinga eliphezulu.
Ngendlela, abanye abantu bayavuya xa bebanga ngamehlo abo evulekile. Bathanda ukujonga indlela abavakalelwa ngayo intombazana yabo. Enyanisweni, amantombazana amaninzi ayithandi. Kodwa ukuba awuyiqondi, jonga umfana wakho kwiso ngexesha lokumanga. Ukuqhagamshelana kweembono kuya kumnceda ngakumbi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, awukwazi ukuchaza indlela eyodwa yokubanga ngokukodwa kubantu bonke. Wonke umntu uthanda into eyakhe. Ngako oko, simele silandele ukuphendula kwendoda leyo, qaphela ukuba kuyamkholisa ngakumbi, kwaye oko kuncinci. Ngokomzekelo, nangona kukholwa ukuba iindlebe ziyindawo ephosakeleyo, abanye abantu bayayithiya xa bechaphazeleka. Kuyafana okufanayo malunga nesigqeba esinjengomphunga. Ngoko ke indlela yokuhlala iyimfuneko. Ngokukodwa xa uqala ulwalamano lwakho. Musa ukukholelwa ukuba yonke into oyithandayo umntu wakho wangaphambili, naye uya kuthatha ngokuzonwabisa. Umntu ngamnye unomdla kunye nemikhwa yakhe, kwaye umzimba ngamnye uphendukela kwizenzo ezifanayo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Ngoko ke, soloko uqaphela kwaye ungesabi ukuzama. Ukuba awuzami oku okanye loo ndlela, awukwazi ukuba umntu wakho uyayithanda okanye ayithandi. Ungakhathazeki ukuba le nkwenkwe iya kukumangalela ngokungakwazi nokungazi. Indoda eqhelekileyo iyayiqonda kakuhle ukuba uyasetyenziselwa kwaye isetyenzisane, ngoko ufuna ixesha lokuba ufumane zonke izitshixo zokuthabisa.
Ukumanga kuyisenzo esihle kakhulu, esiphi na isizathu sihlala sivuya ngabantu. Ukongezelela, ukuba uyathanda umfana, uya kuziva ukuxhatshazwa ngesondo rhoqo malunga nokuthintela, rhoqo xa uchukumisa umlomo wakho. Ngoko musa ukukhathazeka kwaye ungene kwiimeko zokuzonwabisa zakho. Emva kwexesha uvele uvele wazi indlela yokufumana indoda yakho ethandekayo kwimiba emibini.