Ileta enobungqingili enobumba kumntu

Ngethuba lethu, akwanele ukuba ngubani oza kuphuma nale ngcamango ukubhala ileta ngesandla sakhe. Ukubhalwa kweencwadi zeNdalo yinto edlulileyo. Ngoku kutshanje, imiyalezo ye-SMS ephumayo kunye ne-imeyile sele isazi kakuhle kwaye ilula ngakumbi kunokuba ipeni, iphepha kunye nezivulophu. Mhlawumbi udibana nendoda, kwaye ufuna ukunyusa ukuphuhliswa kobudlelwane. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokubhala incwadi enobungqingili kumntu. Nangona ummeli ongenakunqununu kunye nolondolozo lwezesondo eziqinileyo, efumene umyalezo onjalo, akanakukuhluleka ukuthobela ingqalelo kuye. Ileta kufuneka ibe yinto ebalulekileyo yokuguquka kobudlelwane bakho kwinqanaba elitsha. Ungesabi ukuba uya kuthathwa njengokuxoshwa kunye nehlathini. Njengoko uyazi, umfazi okwenene ungumpheki ekhitshini, inkosikazi egumbini lokuhlala kunye ... wonke umntu uyazi ngaphezulu.

Ukuba uqhelanise nje kutshanje ...

Zama ukufaka yonke ingcamango yakho, zonke iingcamango zakho ezifihlakeleyo, kwaye ube njengongcolileyo njengoko uqobo lwakho luvumela. Bhala kubakhethiweyo bakho ukuba ziphi iingcamango entloko yakho kwingcamango yakhe, yiziphi iimvakalelo oza kuba nazo ngokusondelana naye, njani kwaye uza kwenza njani xa usodwa. Bhala ileta kumntu ongekukuvuyela kuphela, kodwa yena.

Ukuba ungazi indlela yokwenza ngcono iingcamango zakho, jonga ifilimu enobuchopho, funda iifom zamabhinqa. Khumbula ukuba ileta akufanele ibe yothando, kodwa isondelene. Amadoda kunye nabasetyhini, ngexesha lesondo bathanda uthando kunye novelwano, kodwa ileta ekhukhulayo kufuneka ibe yinto ephosakeleyo. Shayela okhethiweyo wakho ngamagama anjalo aza kugxininisa isakhono sakhe nesithunzi, atshintshe "uthando" lomthandane kunye nokuthi "Ndiyifunayo".

Ukuba unesikhathi eside kunye ndawonye ...

Ukuba wena kunye nabakhethiweyo bakho bahlala ndawonye ixesha elide, kwaye ubudlelwane basekhaya buqala ngokukhawuleza ukuphakamisa intando yothando, kwaye le yithuba elifanelekileyo lokubhala ii-letters zobuncwane.

Ukugubungela ngokwemvakalelo kunika ithuba lokuqhubela phambili ubudlelwane. Nangona uye wazizana ixesha elide, kwaye wonke umntu uye wafunda imilinganiselo yesondo yomlingane wakho, unokuhlala ufumana into entsha kunye engavamile. Ingaba yinto entsha, indawo, ukusetyenziswa kwanoma yiyiphi "iprops". Zama ukuchaza konke oku kumyalezo njengemibala njengokuba unako.

Kodwa ungakulibali ukuba amafantasi akho akufanele abe yinto engafanelekanga, kuba, xa ufumene ileta enjalo ethembisayo, umntu wakho akayi kuhlala emsebenzini aze aphume ekhayeni. Zama ukuba indlu yakhe idibene ne-entourage efanelekileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubudlelwane bobubele buhlala ixesha elingakanani, kuhlala kukho into engatshatanga kwizesondo. Chaza oku kungafunyanwa kwileta, ungahlaziyi ngamazwi, kwaye indoda yakho ethandekayo iya kuphinda ifunde le ncwadi ngokuphindaphindiweyo.

Kungcono njani ukuthumela le leta?

Ungayithumela nge-imeyile. Umyalezo onjalo, owamkelwe ngethuba lomsebenzi, uya "kuvuyisa" indoda yakho ethandekayo kwaye ungeze amandla kuye. Ukuba ufuna ukuba umyalezo ufunde ngokukhawuleza, sebenzisa iisms. Yaye ukuba ufuna ukongeza kwintsebenziswano yakho ye-romance endala, bhala incwadi enobungane kakhulu ephepheni uze uyibeke esikhwameni okanye epokothini. Okanye ulifihle kwindawo ethile kwipartment, udwebe imephu uze ubuze umntu okhethiweyo ukuba afumane umyalezo ongaqondakaliyo.

Khumbula into ephambili, kwileta ongafanele uxoxe ngayo ngothando kunye neemvakalelo zethando, kufuneka uzibonakalise njengendlovukazi enekhono kunye nentsimbi. Yiba nesibindi kwaye ungabi namahloni malunga neengcinga zakho. Okhethiweyo wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uyakuxabisa ukunyaniseka kwakho kunye nobuchule. Oku kuya kukunceda uqinise kwaye udibanise ubudlelwane bakho.