Ukutshintsha iifani zabo emva komtshato, ngamnye umfazi kufuneka azi ukuba utshintsho obomi bakhe lunokubangela ukuba kubekho ixesha elibi kunye neziphumo ezintle. Kwaye kungcono ukwazi malunga nalo mtshakazi ngaphambi komtshato wakhe.
Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukudibanisa kule nguqu kunokuba igama elinye kubini libadibanisa kwaye lidale uluntu lwabantu abatshatileyo. Kuyinto enhle ukuziva ngathi inxalenye yentsapho kumntu othandekayo, kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa nakwimiboniso ebonakalayo, kwaye lo mdwebo omtsha.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwakhona ekuzalweni komntwana wakho wesikhathi esizayo, uya kuba nako ukubonisa amalungelo akho olwafa kwipropati yakho, kodwa kwakhona, oku kungekudala kungekudala, kodwa kungekudala kungekudala. Kwaye izihlobo ezininzi, abahlobo bakho, abaqhelana nabo abaqhelekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukukubuza ngale nto, kuba kucace kubo bonke abantu ukuba utshatile ngokusemthethweni.
Ngoku masicinge malunga nokunciphisa, oko kunokukhokelela kutshintsho kwigama lakho. Ezi zintluko zingenakubonakala kuzo zonke, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ngoko ebomini kangangokuba umfazi ongazange akrokre okanye angazi malunga nale mingcipheko unokubangela ukuba abe neentloni kwaye unokuzikhupha.
Umzuzu wokuqala ebomini kweso sibini esandula kutshata, onokujamelana nayo, ngaphambi kokuba bathathe isigqibo sokuya kwi-honeymoon emva kokubhalisa umtshato wabo. Ingxaki yokuqala ingavela ngqo kumda, kuba umthetho wethu waseRashiya awuyikulawula ixesha lokutshintshwa kweepassports zangaphandle kunye noshintsho lwamagama. Kodwa ukuba igama lakho epasipoti alihambelani nefowuni kwipasipoti yakho yaseRussia, ngoko, xa uhamba kwelinye ilizwe, kuya kufuneka unikezele ipasipoti yobummi bakho ukuze kukhuphe i-visa, kodwa oku akunakwenzeka. Emva koko kuza utshintsho lwepasipoti yakho yaseRashiya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, le nkqubo inokuba yinto ende, kodwa ingathandeki, njengoko uphinde ulindele, kodwa kukho iingxaki ngeefasipoti zaseRashiya, zingafumaneki. Kwaye kwezinye iimeko, le nto ingaba ngumzuzu othakazelisayo kunye ophazamisayo, umzekelo, xa umntwana ezalwa ngokukhawuleza, xa kukho iingxaki ezinokubangela ukungabikho kwepasipoti yomama esizayo.
Utshintsho lwepasipoti lusekuqaleni kwazo zonke iingxaki zobungqina ezilindeleyo iqabane elincinane. Emva kokuba iqabane elincinci lifumana incwadi yakhe ebomvu ngegama elitsha, uya kuqala nje ukuhamba ngeentlungu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ungumfundi eyunivesithi, kufuneka adlulise ifani yakhe kumaphepha emva komtshato wakhe. Kwakhona nakwezinye iimeko ezininzi, umzekelo, kwiinkonzo zombane, ekuhlolweni kwentela, nakwiindawo ezininzi kakhulu, kwaye oku kuya kufuneka, kungekhona ixesha elincinci kunye nokuphazamiseka. Kwaye ukuba intombazana inomsebenzi wayo, iya kukhokelela ekutshintsheni kwimiqulu esemthethweni nakwamanye amaxwebhu. Kwaye phezu kwayo yonke le mihlali, kukho ukuphazamiseka nabathengi xa bethetha nombutho apho umfazi usebenza khona. Emva koko, wonk 'ubani uya kufuneka achaze ukuba igama elidlulileyo kwiilawulisi kunye namaxwebhu akuthethi ukuba umqeshwa uphunyezwe, kodwa nje ukutshintshwa kwefayili entsha.
Ukuba usebenza, umsebenzi wobugcisa kwaye kufuneka ungene phantsi kwamaphepha okanye phantsi kwezinye iincwadi, ngoko uya kuba neengxaki ezintsha. Yaye loo mizuzu ingakhokelela ukuba ufuna ukuthabatha igama elitsha okanye uqale ungene ngemvume ngegama lakho lentombi.
Yaye ukuba iqabane livele linabantwana ukusuka kumtshato wokuqala kwaye ufuna ukutshintsha igama lakhe, ngoko kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu. Ndiza kufuneka ndiphumeze yonke imbono yam emtshatweni, ukuze wonke umntu angabonakalisa ubuhlobo babo nabantwana. Yaye ukuba ithe ibhinqa litshatile, ingeyesibili okanye yesithathu, kuya kuba nzima kunene ebomini bakhe xa iguqula igama lakhe.
Yingakho ucinga malunga nento yonke, ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye uhloniphe zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki, kufuneka uzinqume ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha igama lakho lentombi kumnxeba wendoda yakhe. Emva kokwenza olu khetho, ukuba unabantwana, kufuneka ucinge ngabo. Kwaye unako ukutshintsha igama lakho kumyeni wakho kwaye akusayi kuba lixesha elide. Emva kwakho konke, kungcono emva kwexesha.
Ngoku siyazi ukuba kufuneka sitshintshe igama lomfana emva komtshato. Siyathemba ukuba inqaku lethu liyakunceda wenze ukhetho lwakho olufanelekileyo.