Ukukhethwa kwezibingelelo ezilungileyo kunye nesifiso somtshato

Emva kwesigqeba esisemthethweni somtshato, abasandul 'ukutshata kunye neendwendwe zabo baya kwivenkile yokudlela apho unokuzonwabisa kwaye uphumule. Uza kufumana ama-toasts amahle kumanqaku athi " Ukugcoba umtshato " kunye " nemibhobho yomtshato yaseMpuma ". Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu zeholide zivuyiswa ngabazali, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo emtshatweni. Indlela yokwenza ngayo ukuze idilike ingaguquki kwinqanaba elithandekayo leendwangu kunye nezibongo ezizimeleyo? Yeyiphi intlongo nje njengabancinci, nakhu izicwangciso ezithile.

Umtshato uyathokoza kubazali

Ukuvuyiswa kwabazali emtshatweni kuhlale kubangele bonke abantu. Makube ngumculo kunye nokuthintela. Umama noTata banethuba elikhethekileyo lokuxelela abantwana babo ngothando lwabo kunye nokunika amagama ahlukanayo.

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Bantwana abathandekayo, sinqwenela ngoku,
Ingxaki kunye nemimozulu embi ayengazi.
Yiya endleleni - ngokukhawuleza ubaxoshe,
Ewe, ulonwabo nenhlanhla ihlala ihlangana nawe ngokufudumele!

Kwaye xa kunzima ngokukhawuleza, ke uxineke omnye komnye,
Ungabonakali iinyembezi, ungazichukumisi ngokumomotheka,
Kwaye ke, silindele abanye abantwana kuwe,
Ewe, uhlala ngokuzonwabisa kunye kunye.

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Ndithande intombi yethu nendodana. Namhlanje ebusweni bakho sibona uvuyo olungapheliyo kunye noxolo. Ngoko ke makangabikho buso bakho, kwaye uvuyo lwenu luya kuhlala luphela. Konke kuzo zonke izinto ezinomusa kwaye ziqhakazile kwizinto zakho ezintsha, zize zingakhange zibonwe, kodwa sele zisenomdla obumnandi. Iingcebiso ozithandayo!

Ukuvuyisana kungabomvu, kuya kuhobisa iindwendwe kunye nabaselula.

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Ndiyaziqhenya ngonyana wam:
Ndine ntombi!
Ndiyakuthanda njani
Uhle kangaka!

Ukuba ubiza umnina wakho,
Ndiza kutshintsha unina.
Ndaphupha yam intombi,
Ukuze ndiwenze intombi.

Asiyi kubahlula unyana:
Bobabili simthanda.
Enyanisweni, akayilo log,
Ngoko siya kufikelela ngexesha elifanayo.

Ulibale ndingumkhwekazi,
Andiyi kusela igazi lakho;
Ndiyakukhumbula kwakhona ulutsha lwam,
Ndandisoyika njani umamazala.

Ukuba lam iluleko iluncedo,
Ndikulungele ukwabelana.
Kodwa zonke iingxoxo zingenaye!
Ndingumkhwekazi, kungekhona ijaji.

Ukuba uthe cwaka,
Ngubani ongayi kuvuya?
Ufuna ukuhlala nothando,
Ukuze intsapho yakho ikhule.

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Ndine ntombi kuphela,
Kwaye ngoku ndikunye nonyana wam.
Intombi yomyeni wayo
Ndaba sityebi kwonyana wam.

Ukuba ndiyinyoko,
Uya kubiza umama wakho.
Umama-mkhwenkwe use-anecdote,
Kwaye andiyi kulahleka nam.

Andifuni ukukuphazamisa,
Ngoko, ndiza kungena kwiiyo.
Yaye uya kubeletha umntwana
Uza kuphuma ephethe umnsalo.

Phakathi kwakho, phila ngokuthula,
Ndiza kunceda ukuba ndifuna.
Kodwa khumbula ngonaphakade:
Ndiyindoda ekhululekile.

Ndaphupha ukunika intombi yam
Umntwana onyana omuhle kuphela uya kuba mnandi,
Kwaye ndiya kuhamba ndim,
Ukuze ulutsha lubambe.

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Ngokwahlukileyo kuyimfuneko ukusho malunga neenqweno zoodade kumntakwabo kunye nakwezinye izinto. Ubomi obuqhelekileyo, asinqabile ukuxelela abazalwana noodadewethu indlela esiyithandayo, umtshato uyithuba elihle.

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Umntakwabo omncinane nomhlobo omhle,
Yaye u-godfather ngunyana wozuko,
Uluhlu lweendwendwe ezininzi kumbuthano womtshato,
Namhlanje luyinto yakho ebaluleke kakhulu!

Lapha uvuyayo akupheli,
Kodwa, ndifuna ukuthetha ngokukodwa:
Ungalibali umama, uyise,
Yintoni eyanikela ubomi ngendlela!

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Umhlaba uvuka ekhephu,
Intliziyo ibetha njenge-spring drop.
Wena, mzalwana, uye waba ngumyeni namhlanje,
Ewe, ndazibiza ngokuba ngumkhwenkethi ngoku.

Inwaba yintaka yomlingo yeparadesi
Ukuphila kwimanyano yakho kuya kuba yiminyaka emininzi,
Uthando emphefumlweni luhlala lukhazimulayo,
Ukugcina isifungo somtshato!

Emva koko, vumela le ntaka ijikeleze
I-storgi emhlophe ibhakela ezulwini,
Yaye, xa ebuyela emhlabeni,
Inkosi iya kunikela ithole!

Inqabileyo yolonwabo, le stork egciniweyo iya,
Kwaye unesizalo esithembekileyo,
Uxolo lwakho lwengqondo, akayi kudinwa,
Kwiminyaka emininzi ukususela kulo mzuzwana ungadluli!

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Eyona nto iminqweno yomtshato

Ububungqina kunye nobungqina bancedisi abaphambili kwi-mastermaster. Iimfuno zabo mazibe zikhanyise kunye newashi. Akuyimfuneko ukufunda izibongo, iprose iyakulungele. UMilo ubheka ibali elihlekisayo ebomini lomyeni okanye umtshakazi, unokuxhaswa kunye neqhotyoshela kwiifoto.

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Mhlobo! Iminyaka emininzi sasihlangene ngayo:
Ngaba uyayikhumbula iqela lethu kwi-kindergarten?
Namhlanje ungumfazi omhle!
Ndingowenu, kholwani mna, ndivuya kakhulu!

Yeka indlela enhle ngayo namhlanje, indlela amehlo akho agcoba ngayo!
Umoya uyagqitha, kwaye ukuvuyisa ukulila kungabikho ngokungazenzisiyo!
Ngoko, vuyanani, ninyamekelane,
Vumela abantwana babe yindlu epheleleyo!

Ndiyathemba, siya kudibana (ukuba usimema ukuba sivakatye)
Emva kwentlambo yakho efudumele kwaye epholile!
Umzekelo wenkulumo yentetho:
Uyakhumbula, mhlobo, indlela owadlala ngayo egcekeni?

Kodwa ukusihlwaya kwakungekho mthwalo.
Ndilahlekelwa ngumlingane wam kwimidlalo!
Noko ke, eli lahleko, kum uvuyo!
Ukujonga ubuso obonwabileyo,

Ndiphinda kabini ndivuyayo!
Kwaye kuhloniphekile ndikulungele ukuzonwabisa,
Ndiza kuphakamisa iglasi kangangoko namhlanje!
Hlalani kunye kunye, ninyamekele iimvakalelo,

Hlala ngokukhawuleza ukuba kwenzeka ntoni na.
Ukugcina intsapho akuyona yobugcisa obulula,
Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka utshatile!

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Ndifana nomfundisi kunye nobuhle becawa,
Inendima yam, inqina,

Vumela umthwalo onzima ulayishwe emahlombe akhe,
Kodwa kubonakala ngathi ndiyongcamango.

Imincintiswano, iiglasi - ndijamelana nayo,
Ukunyeliswa emtshatweni awunamahloni,

Mtshakazi, Ndiyathanda ukuba umtshakazi,
Ngoko intsapho yakho iya kutshabalalisa ngokukhawuleza.

Lo mtshato, ngowokuqala kuphela, ukuqhuma okuncane,
Kuyakushukumisela wena kwintsapho, ubomi obuhle.

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Imibulelo yangempela kubantu abasanda kutshata emtshatweni

Incoma yoqobo inikezela indawo yendiza yendiza. Ingaba ngumnqweno omfutshane kwisitayela saseJapane okanye i-rap enkulu, ukubuyiswa kwengoma okanye iingoma. Abahlobo bamtsha esandula kutshata banokwenza umdaniso baze bacule ingoma yovuko.

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Sifuna ukunqwenela:
Musa ukuguga, ungakhathazeki,
Ukutya ngokumodareyitha, ukulala kakuhle
Uze ungalibali abahlobo bakho!

Kwaye kusekho umnqweno:
Ngoko ukuba kwitheyibhi yokuzonwabisa
Ukuhleka, ukuzonwabisa, amahlaya, iingoma
Awushiyanga ikhaya lakho !!

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Ukudala intsapho isigqibo sakho.
Hayi ke! Ukhulile!
Ukuhamba ngokupheleleyo
Ngoku ulahlekile ngonaphakade.

Singaziphosa,
Musa ukubeka amaqabunga eti e teyi,
Ungaboni ubuhlungu bakho
Okanye ukhutshwe ngengozi.

Wena ungumzalwana onokwethenjelwa wethu!
Kwaye sithemba ngoku,
Oko, nokuba usatshatile,
Musa ukuthetha ngamazwi amhlophe ngathi.

Kwaye, enqwenela ubomi obude,
Uyolo, ukhanyisa njengentwasahlobo,
Yonke imemeza kunye "ngokukrakra!"
Ukucoca iglasi kwizantsi!