Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani ovakalisa intetho, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho elula:
- I-Toast ayifanele ibe yinde kakhulu, mhlawumbi akukho mntu uya kuwuphulaphula kude kube sekupheleni;
- ekubhekiselele kubasandul 'ukutshata, kungcono ukuphepha ukungazibi izihloko (umzekelo, ubudlelwane obudala), ungabandakanyi ubulili, imali, ukukhwabanisa, njl.
- Eyona nto elula ukuyiqonda i-toast-jokes okanye i-anecdotes, iyanciphisa umoya;
- kulunge ukupheka nokuhlaziya ekhaya: abazali, izalamane kunye namangqina zihlala zixhalabile, ngoko kuya kudideka.
Ewe, ngoku sibonelela umtshato womtshato kubazali, amangqina, abahlobo kunye nezihlobo.
Ukuhlalela umtshato kubazali
Umama womtshakazi emtshatweni udla ngokukhathazeka kakhulu. Ngethuba lokugubha, unako ukubonisa konke uthando lwakhe nentando yakhe, unqwenela intombi yolonwabo lwabesetyhini uze unike amagama akhe ahlukanayo. Imigca efanelekileyo:
Unomhla okhethekileyo namhlanje.
Ngoko ujabule ngonaphakade.
Makubekho indlela eqaqambileyo,
Makube yintsapho enobubele.
Gcina uvelwano, ububele, uthando,
Uloyiko lothotho lweintlanganiso zokuqala.
Amasongo awawathabathayo ezandleni zawo,
Qinisekisa ukugcina kuze kube sekupheleni.
Vumela ebomini bakho
Ezi ntsuku aziyi kuphinda ziphindwe,
Uthando luhlala luyimfuneko,
Kwaye kanye kuphela ukutshata!
Unina womyeni uyamkela umalokazana wakhe kwintsapho yakhe. Ngethuba lokudla, kufuneka abonise isimo sakhe kwintombi yakhe entsha.
Izwi lithuthumela kuncinci kum,
Yaye intliziyo yomama iphelile.
Ukuhlala nawe ngoku umfazi wakho,
Kwaye ndihleli kancinci ngakwesobunxele.
Ngulo ndlela uThixo akuvuza ngayo:
Ukufudumala kwentsapho kunye nolonwabo kuwe.
Ndimthumelela i sylable,
Ncinane kumfazi wakho onomona.
Ungabandakanyi ukubaluleka kuloo nto,
Ngoku into ebaluleke kakhulu iyahluke ngokupheleleyo.
Wenza ntoni, unyana wakho, intsapho yakho,
Yintoni eya kukusindisa entlungu.
Kwangathi uvuyo lwakho lube lukhulu,
Vumela uthando lungapheli.
Kwaye kuya kuba lula kuwe kunye nomnye nomnye,
Ukusuka kwimpikiswano, makungakheli isiphepho.
Ndiyathanda ukuba induduzo yekhaya lakho,
Kwaye amazwi omntwana ayezwakala kuye.
Ukuhamba endleleni ukusuka kuma-alamu kunye nezilingo
Ufikile kwizinto oziphuphayo.
Yaye ukuba ufuna isandla sam
Ukungenisa kwakhe, ukufudumala kuya kumfudumala.
Okubaluleke ngakumbi namhlanje usapho lwakho kum,
Ndigula ngaye nomphefumlo wam.
Ngoku andinayo nje unyana,
Ngoku intombi yam inikwe ilungelo.
UThixo unika wena, bantwana, luhle,
Ukwenza ubomi bubukeke bumnandi.
Khumbula lo mzuzu ngonaphakade,
Makube ngcwele.
Ngoku awuyena nje umtshakazi nomyeni,
Ukususela ngoku, uyingumyeni nomfazi.
Yaye makunidlule nantoni na,
Vumela ilangabi lingacima kwigazi.
Sinqwenela wena impilo. Sinqwenela wena uvuyo.
Sinqwenela uthando oluqinileyo!
Oomata ngabantu abathandekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngexesha lokuguguza, banikela amagama abo ahlukanayo kubantwana. Musa ukufihla imvakalelo, bonisa ukuba unjani ukhathazeka ngabo, indlela ofuna ngayo, ukuba ubomi bentsapho buyimpumelelo.
Sifuna ukunqwenela umkhwekazi:
Ukuze uhlale uhle,
Ukuze sihlale sivuya,
Ukuze abaninzi abantwana babele,
Ukuzala abanye oonyana.
Ukuthi lo mfanekiso wawusikiweyo
Ngoko isundu sam senziwe.
Kumalokazana wakhe ukwenza konke,
Kwaye ngaphandle komsebenzi ukuze ungahlali,
Ukungabi kubi ngaphezu komso, ukukhanya okufutshane,
Umyeni wam ubonakala ekhulile.
Ukuzaliseka nokuchaneka
Zonke izinto ezifunwa namhlanje ukusuka entliziyweni.
Umyeni ulungile-ukuba abe ngumtshakazi omhle!
Iqabane elihle kweli hlabathi alifumaneki!
Ndikho kumalungelo kabawo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, umkhwe wam
Ndifuna ukukuthanda, bantwana abathandekayo, ukuba ndinqwenele!
Ndiyanqwenela ukuba omnye nomnye uyakuthanda,
Njengoko akukho mntu wamthanda!
Ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho ngonaphakade,
Ukuhlala ethembekile komnye nomnye!
Umtshato uguqa kubahlobo
Ubungqina kunye nobungqina zihlobo ezilungileyo kakhulu zabaselula. Umsebenzi wabo ukuwukhupha umoya, ukuzondla iindwendwe, ngoko siyancoma ukuba sitsho amantombazane ahlekisayo kwaye ahlekisayo. Kungaba ngamahlaya.
Kukho abahlobo ababini abadala ngexesha lomtshato womnye wabo.
- Ewe, ubomi bomtshato njani?
- Ewe, awukwazi ukusela, awukwazi ukutshaya ...
- Mhlawumbi, uxolo?
- Awukwazi ukuzisola nokuba ...
Ndithi akukho tshutshiso kwintsapho! Uze uyithathe igalazi!
Njengomhlobo womtshakazi, ndingathanda ukukuxelela, mntombazana othandekayo. Gcina kwaye uyayixabisa lesi sidalwa esibucayi nesidanga. Musa ukusiyeka! Ngokuqinisekileyo, asinakukunika ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ngelixa esenawe-yenza konke okusemandleni ukuze angafuni ukuza kuthi. U lonwabo nothando! Kubuhlungu!
Ubungqina kufuneka banikele isilumkiso kubazali:
Namhlanje wena, uncinci, unentsapho ezininzi, zombini ngapha nangapha.
Kodwa kule mzuzwana onqwenelekayo ndifuna ukujika kubomama bethu abaselula. Akusiyo imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuba kuthetha ntoni kumama wethu ngamnye. Siphendukela kuyo ngokuvuya kunye nentlungu. Intlungu yethu yintlungu, uvuyo lwabo luvuyo. Kwaye bebaninzi ubunwele bezinwele, ngelixa bekhulela abantwana abancinci. Bathi abantwana abancinci banenkxalabo encinci, abantwana abadala banenkxalabo enkulu. Umama othandekayo nomhle! Kwaye ngoku, xa abantwana bakho bangena ebomini obuzimeleyo, iintliziyo zenu zisabetha ngokuxhalabisa. Othandekayo, omuhle, omhle umama! Ndiphakamisa iglasi ngenxa yezenzo zakho ezilungileyo, ngenxa yeentliziyo zakho zentliziyo, ngenxa yokuba ukhulise abantwana abalungileyo. Umnsalo ophantsi kuwe!
Abazali bazukisa, udumo kunye nodumo.
Ndicinga ukuba abantu baya kuvuma,
Yiyiphi inhlamba kubazali kufuneka bakhuliswe,
Sinqwenela impilo kunye nolonwabo kuthi!
Zonke izigqoko kunye neendwangu ezithathayo,
Ndifuna ukuba wonke umntu akhuphe ngokunyanisekileyo
Nantsi le ngqungquthela esiyiphakamisayo
Singabantwana - ukuqala kwazo zonke iziqalo,
Ngenxa yokuba kuthi ngaphandle kwabo
Ungaboni umfana,
Asikwazi ukuhlala okanye ukuma ngaphandle kwabo
Kwaye emtshatweni awuhambi!
Umtshato
Iindwendwe nganye zifuna ukusela kwimpilo yomtshakazi nomyeni kunye nokugcoba, ukunikezela ngeendlela ezingavamile:
Ukuba bekuyimfuneko ukubhala ibali elifundisayo lobomi bomntu - eli liza kuba ibali ebomini kwindoda nomfazi.
Ukuba bekuyimfuneko ukuxelela ibali eliyilumko lobubulumko - luya kuba ibali ebomini kwindoda kunye nomfazi.
Ukuze umtshato, umthombo onobulumko wobomi!
Ewe, yintoni enqwenela umfazi nomyeni?
Ukuba behlala behlala kunye nantoni na bahlala kunye.
Balala ndawonye, badla, basela,
Abantwana babeya kwi-kindergarten.
Ukuba kwakungekho na isizathu sokuxabana!
Makhe elo lihlale linika kuqala.
Uthando ulindile ngokuzithemba, uqaphele.
Kwaye kuphela emtshatweni makabe "buhlungu!".
Mthandi wethu umyeni! Sifuna ukuphakamisa le glasi ukuze siqhelo! Ukuhlala ngoku yakho yinkosikazi ebomini, oko kukuthi: ukutya okuqhelekileyo, iinkqubo zamanzi, ukubhiyozela rhoqo kwiibini zentsapho yakho! Ixesha eliqhelekileyo! Ngokubanzi, sinqwenela inhlanhla kuyo yonke intsapho yakho, ulonwabo ebomini bakho. Kubuhlungu!
Kwabaninzi, umzekelo wesigcawu esifanelekileyo ibali ngeentaka ezivela "kwiCaucasus captive". Okunye malunga neCaucasian kwaye kungekhona nje ukugodla ufunde kwi nqaku elithi " Umtshato womda waseMpuma ." Sinika imizekelo:
Umntu osisilumko wabuza:
- Ubulumko bomi?
"Hlalani ngovuyo ngokwabo kwaye nceda bazithande," waphendula.
Ndiyathanda ukuba abatsha abatshatileyo balandele le ngcebiso, kwaye ke ubomi babo buyavuya kwaye buvuyiswe!
Umlobi waseArabhu uKhalil Gibran uthe ubambiswano luphahleni olusekelwe kwiikholam ezimbini. Xa ezi ziqendu zide kakhulu, uphahla lungawela. Ndifuna ukunqwenela abantu abaselula ukuba babe nomonde kunye nokuqonda, ukuhlonelana omnye komnye, kuba ezi zimpawu aziyi kuhombisa ukuhlukana kwamacoloni amabini ukuya kumgama onobungozi kwaye akayi kuvumela uhla lwezindlu ukuba ludibane!
Amadoda amaninzi aphupha ukuba neendwendwe. Bakholelwa ukuba abaninzi abafazi beenxa zonke kubo, ubomi beentlobo ezahlukeneyo kunye nobomi babo bentsapho, bathanda uthando kunye nothando lwabo. Ngoko masifune ukuba umfana wethu akasoze afune ukuba nomfazi, kuba umfazi wakhe wedwa unokumthabatha! Kwabancinci!