Mhlawumbi, elowo umfazi eengqondweni zakhe umele ukuba, ngelixa ephethe lona, indoda ayishiyi emlonyeni, esile, ebele, okanye nasiphi na inxalenye yomzimba ngaphandle kwengqalelo ... ngokuqala ngomnwe ngexesha lokungena ngokuqhelekileyo nokuphelisa ngesondo ngokugcwele.
Kubonakala ukuba, abaninzi baya kuba neentloni xa ubabuza xa bahlala be ... yebo, isondo esasilumkileyo. Kwabanye, oku kungenakucingeka, abanye bayesaba ukuzama, abanye baya kuvuma. Nangona kunjalo, yonke intlebo yesini esithintekayo iyancitshiswa ukuba ithole into entsha, engavamile, eyinyani.
Umtsalane wesondo lomntu
Musa ukuzithemba ngokubandlulula ngesondo sangasese, ngaphandle kokuba u ... uzame wena ngokwakho. Kodwa ngoku kanye ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuzinikela kumntu ongazizithembi ngokupheleleyo umzimba wakho. Kumele uthande kwaye ufuna iqabane lakho ligqibe isigqibo.
Yiyiphi into enokuyifumana kule sifundo?
Okokuqala, kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba isondo sangasese asiqhathanisi nakwii-ochwepheshe abazenzayo. Ngenxa yoko, akayi kubuhlungu. Olu luhlobo lobuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kobambiswano. Yikholelwa kwaye mhlawumbi ... hlola-unokuyonwabela, kwaye uyayifuna ngakumbi ... ngokukodwa kwiingcamango! Ubuncinane, ukuba konke kwenziwa ngokuchanekileyo nangokuchanekileyo, kuya kuba nemvakalelo eninzi kunye neentlungu ezingalibalekiyo.
Okwesibini, ukulala ngesondo ngumlingana ofuna ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kumlingane. Ukuba ngaba ngesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, nokuba uthi akuyi kuhlazisa umntu-phezulu kunye nokuchaza iinkcukacha ezithandwayo kwipende, ngoko unokuthetha kuphela ngesondo sangasese kumntu omthandayo omthandayo, kwaye uyakuthanda. Qiniseka ukuba xa uthetha ngale ndlela yobuhlobo kubuhlobo bakho, ngoko ungobini elihle kakhulu kuzo zonke iinjongo. Kwakhona, ukulala ngesondo kuyingqumbo yokubambisana.
Okwesithathu, ukonwaba kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ngethuba lezo zesini, i-receptors kunye nokuphela kwezidanga, ezikulo mgca, zibandakanyeka. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba unokufumana unonwabo ngakumbi ekukhuthazeni kwabo. Ukongezelela, iindawo ezinobungozi zomntu ziyakwazi ukwahlula ngokukhawuleza umonakalo phakathi kwesini kunye ne-anus, ephindwe kabini inani leengqungquthela. I-orgasm efunyenwe ngexesha lololuleko luhluke kakhulu kwizinto eziqhelekileyo zokubangela ukuba kube ngcono, kubangele ukuba nomdla ongenakwenzeka. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngabafazi (kunye nabesilisa, kodwa le yinye isihloko), abaneengxaki zokufumana i-orgasm ngexesha lobulili besini, bazisombulula ngempumelelo ngexesha elinye mpe mbelelo kwiindawo ezinjalo.
Yesine. Ulwabelana ngesondo luya kulungeleka. Apha siza kuthetha ngeendlela ezimbini:
- Thu thuzela. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba imbongolo isondele kakhulu kumfazi. Ngoko ke, akukho bunzima obukhethekileyo ekukhethweni kwithuba lokuzimela: kwezinye iimeko, iingxaki ziphezulu.
- Ukuzimela kwexesha kunye nomjikelezo wesini, kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Ngokungafani nesondo ngokuqhelekileyo, uhlala usenza oko, ukuba iingxaki ezinzulu ezifuna ukunyangwa ngu-proctologist aziphazamisi oku.
Okwesibini. Ulwabelana ngesondo ngumntu omhle wokukhulelwa. Kwiibini ezithandanayo, umba wokukhusela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo uhlala uvulekile kwaye umngcipheko wokugxininisa kukunciphisa ukuvakalelwa kwaye kuncitshiswe amandla okunandipha inkqubo yokuvakalelwa. Xa uthabatha olu hlobo lonwabo, akufanele ukhathazeke malunga ne-oarness. Imibuzo efana "kwaye ngokukhawuleza kugeleza?" Kufanele ukhathaze ubuncinci, kuba:
- Ucoceko uthi kufuneka ube nesondo esilumkileyo kwiikhondom (ukukhusela intsholongwane kunye nokusuleleka).
- Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, uthatha isigqibo sokulala ngesondo ngaphandle kokukhuselwa kwaye ujongele ekubeni iqabane lakho "ligqibile", ngoko iibhaktheriya ezinokungena enkingeni, apho zifanele zihambe khona, zisoyika. Ukuhluthwa kwi-rectum ayikwazi ukukhulelwa. Umsebenzi wakho ukukhipha ipenisi ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba "ukuqhuma".
Yesithandathu. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyindlela ehle kakhulu yokwenza ulwahlulo lokuphila ngesondo. Amaqabane amaninzi asebudlelwaneni, ngcono ukuba bayazana. Yaye oku kubandakanya ezinye iingxaki ezibangelwa yindwendwe ebhedini. Aba bantu abanalo isenzo sokulala ngesondo. Kwaye xa befika kwisigaba esitsha sobudlelwane obusondelene nabo, bathathe isigqibo malunga nolu nyathelo, ukwaneliseka kunye neemvakalelo ezintsha ziphambili. Ubuninzi bokusetyenziswa kwalo buvumela kwakhona ixesha lokuqala ukuba uzive leli lizwe lilibalekile kwaye livuselele imemori kunye nomzimba wokuvakalelwa kunye nengcamango.
Ngesixhenxe, ukuzimela kweemvakalelo ukusuka kubukhulu bezitho zangasese. Akusiyo imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuba ubungakanani bebhinqa labesifazana kunye nepensi yindoda kaninzi luhluke kakhulu kwizinga elifanelekileyo. Siyabulela kwisixhobo esikhethekileyo se-rectum, i-esile ilula ngokulula ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nelungu elikhulu okanye elincinci, kwaye indoda ayinanto yokwenza kodwa iyanandipha ukunyaniseka kunye nokuqiniswa kakuhle kwesikhumba somntu. Inyaniso kukuba iindawo eziphambili zendawo zifumaneka ngqo "ekungeneni" kwi-buttress, ukwenzela ukuba ibinzana elithi "imicimbi yobukhulu" ilahlekelwe intsingiselo yalo: zombini iza kuneliseka.
Okwesibhozo, i-orgasm entsha. Apha siza kuthetha ngabantu. Mhlawumbi, akukho mntu ongayiva malunga neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuxhaphaza kwi-anus kumntu onokumzisela kwi-orgasm. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba yindoda leyo. Ukuba umntu wakho akachasani ngokukhethekileyo, unokuyisebenzisa ngokuphepha! Ukukhuthazwa kwe-anus ngethuba lokutshatyalaliswa ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kumhlonela! Kwaye xa kuthengwa ngamathoyizi eentlobano zakhe, apho udlala indima enkulu, umda wesini kunye nokukhululwa kwakho awukwazi ukubona imida!
Ukunyaniseka kwesondo somntu wesini okanye isondo singabangela ingozi?
Ndicinga ukuba wonk 'ubani uya kuvuma ukuba ukulimala kungabelana ngesondo ngokugqithiseleyo, kunye nokungabi nako. Kuyafana nokulala ngesondo, kodwa kulo mzekelo, ukusilela kukuphelelanga ngokungaziveleli, kungekhona ukuzama entsha, ukuzinqanda ukuzonwabisa.
Kwaye ukuphazamiseka kwalolu hlobo lwesini kunokwahlukana ngamaqela amabini: okwenene nokucinga. Ukucinga okanye ukuxhomekeka kungabonakaliswa ngengozi yokuziphatha kunye nesifo sengqondo (nanko ibhizinisi lomntu wonke ukuphatha le nto), i-physiology (njenge "anus ayikho le nto," khumbula ubulili bomlomo ...) Iingcamango ezinjenge-"sex sex anal" zingcolile okanye "zifanisa umntu nesilwanyana "Ngaba kuya kuba ngumntu onokucinga onomlinganiselo obanzi okanye ngaphantsi kombono wemeko.
Ingozi eyinyani ibuye yimizimba, kunye nokuziphatha, umahluko ku-andobsinovaniyu kuphela. Ngokubhekiselele kumzimba we-physiology, ngoko kuyaqondakala: kukho ithuba lokuqalisa i-ksebe emzimbeni wezilwanyana-zifo (ikakhulukazi amadoda), mhlawumbi ufumana umoya kwi-urinary system (eyona nto imbi kakhulu), ngaphandle koko, umngcipheko wokulimala unyuke kakhulu. Ingozi engqondweni ingabonwa ngokuba ngumdla omkhulu okanye ogqithiseleyo kwizesondo zesini, ukuphazamiseka kwezesondo zesintu, ithuba lokubangela ukungquzulana kwintsebenziswano, okunokuba nefuthe elibi kwimbonakalo yehlabathi ephilileyo.
Iyonke
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ngokupheleleyo, akunakwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, zonke iintlobo zesondo azikwazi ukuba njalo. Ubundlobongela obufanelekileyo obubandakanya ubuqhetseba obuninzi bobunzima, ngaphandle kokuthi ukufumana ukuzonwabisa kunokuba yintoni ingxaki, ukuphikisana nokuphilisa amanxeba. Ngendlela efanelekileyo kwimeko, isondo sangasese singenza isabelo esikhulu sokuzonwabisa kwaye sinike ukwaneliseka (kunye nezinye iintlobo) ebomini obusondeleyo.
Ngoko ke, bafundi abathandekayo, zikhethele zona, zinike ukubandlulula okanye umntu oyintanda.