Ngaba abameli be-sexrefused eqinileyo baxhomekeke njani kwi-cunnilingus?
Omnye umshicileli wesilisa ogunyazisiweyo wenza uphando, injongo yalo yayikufumanisa umlinganiselo wamadoda ukuya kwi-cunnilingus. Ngokweziphumo ezifunyenwe, amadoda angama-93% aqhelekanga ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo avelise uvuyo kumaqabane abo. Kubalulekile ukuba kuqaphele ukuba i-61% yamadoda ithanda ukwenza oku, kwaye i-32% iyavuma ukulala ngesondo kuphela ngomlomo kunye neqabane layo, kwaye kuphela ukuba indawo esondeleyo isweleke ngokupheleleyo iinwele okanye ubuncinane inwele. Kubonakala ukuba kuphela i-7% yabameli bezesondo eziqinileyo ngokubhekiselele kwi-cunnilingus, ekubhekiselele ukuba oku kuhlaziyekanga kwaye akufanelekanga kumadoda okwenene.
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba abantu abaninzi babona i-blowjob kunye ne-cunnilingus eyahlukileyo. I-Blowjob yeninzi ye-muzhchin iyimfuneko ebalulekileyo kunye neyona nxalenye yobudlelwane bezesondo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, amadoda afuna ukuphoqa abesetyhini ukuba benze i-minet.Malo, ukuba iqabane lilahla i-blowjob, lenza ukuba indoda ibe yinto ehlambalazayo, ekhokelela ekudleni.
ICunnilingus yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu. Ibhinqa elingenalo amava amaninzi kwisini somlomo, ngokufanayo, inokwenza indoda ibe yinto enhle, kuba inyaniso yile nto inokuzonwabisa. Ukuba umntu akafumaneki ngokwaneleyo kulo mbandela, isondo esisheshayo, ngomlomo siya kuphumelela. Ewe, kunye nabasetyhini abavumi ukuvumela amadoda angaqhelekanga ukuba enze i-cunnilingus. Oku kunokwenzeka kuphela xa kunengqondo yokuthembela kumlingane. Ngokumalunga namadoda, bafuna ukuchukumisa abesifazana ukuba baqhube i-blowjob kungekudala.
Kutheni abanye amadoda bathanda i-cunnilingus nabanye? Masizame ukuqonda le ngxaki ebalulekileyo.
Kutheni amadoda enza i-cunnilingus:
- Amadoda afana nalolu. Mhlawumbi, kunzima ukukholelwa kwabanye abantu, kodwa abanye abantu bafumana i-cunnilingus ecocekileyo njengolonwabo lokwenene. Ngokuqhelekileyo loo nto ayiyonto into ayifunayo ukwenza loo nto kumntu okhethiweyo. Okokuqala, indoda ithanda umfazi ukuba amthembe. Oku kuyomeleza umqondo wokuzithemba. Okwesibini, amanye amadoda ayavuya kakhulu ngephunga lomfazi ukuba banako ukwaneliseka ngakumbi kwi-cunnilingus kuneye iqabane.
- Umnqweno wokufikelela emzimbeni. Abasetyhini abaninzi abachasene ne-cunnilingus, kwaye amadoda anamava ayazi le nto. Isizathu sokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzingca ngokwaneleyo, kodwa abanye abameli be-intsimi eqinileyo yokubamba iqela likulungele ukuthabatha ezintle.
- Umnqweno wokukhulula umfazi umxhelo. Kulungile ukuba phakathi kwesondo esomeleleyo kukho i-altruistic altruists ekulungele ukwenza iqabane layo livule ngokulula, ngaphandle kokufuna into ebuyayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umfazi onenhlanhla ukudibana nomntu onjalo kufuneka aqonde le ndlela kuye, kuba emva kwexesha, umntu angatshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo ngaphandle kokubona impendulo.
- Umntu ufumana uhlobo lomfazi ovuyokileyo kunye nokuqonda ngokugcwele ukuba lo mpu melelo yakhe. Ama-73% amadoda ahloliswe acinga njalo.
- Ngoko yamkelwe. Amanye amadoda enza i-cunnilingus kwindlela yokuzenzekelayo. Bakholelwa ukuba bekufanele ukuba njalo, ngaphandle kokucinga nokuba umfazi uthanda kangakanani.
- Umnqweno wokwenza ulwalamano lwezesondo ezahlukeneyo. Enyanisweni, isondo ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nexesha elibuhlungu, ndifuna ukuzama into eyahlukileyo. Kule meko, umsebenzi wesini somlomo uya kuba yindlela ehle kakhulu yokubangela ubomi bentlobano yesibini.
Kutheni amadoda enqaba ukwenza i-cunnilingus?
Ngelishwa, amanye amadoda enqaba ukwenza i-cunnilingus kubakhethiweyo bawo, ekholelwa ukuba yinto eyoyikisayo, yokuziphatha okubi kunye neyizothe. Abameli abanjalo besondo esinamandla kunzima kakhulu, balala ngesimo esifanelekileyo kwaye xa ukukhanya kuphelile.
Kodwa kukho abo bantu abathanda i-blowjob, abahlala besinikwa ngesondo ngomlomo, kodwa i-cunnilingus iphika ngokubanzi. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba amadoda abone oku kuhlaziswa kwesidima sabo. Ezi ngxabano ziphela nje. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kubakho ukufaka ubungqina bongamoya obuthathakayo obonakalisa inhlonipho yabesifazane.
Abanye abameli beendawo eziqinileyo abazi nje indlela yokwenza i-cunnilingus. Le ndoda ayifuni ukufunda, kuba ufuna ukubukeka ekwazi ukuzithemba nokuzithemba, enqabileyo ukungaziqondi.
Ubuninzi, into enokuthenjwa ngayo, ngumlomo we-caresses, ubude bawo abugqithanga imizuzu emibini.
Kukho namadoda angenzi i-cunnilingus, kuba acinga ukuba abafazi abasenelisekile ngesondo. Ngelo xesha, amadoda amaninzi ayenqwenela ukuvuma ukuba imbangela yokunganeliseki nokungahloniphi kwabasetyhini ngokwawo, ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuzama okanye abakwaziyo ukukhupha abafazi ngokuzonwabisa okwenene.
Masibhale iziphumo
Ukuba uzama ukwenza isigqibo, ungatsho ukuba amadoda aqhuba ubomi bobulili obuqhelekileyo kwaye ufuna ukufumana ukuzonwabisa ngokugcwele ngokwesini, angaboni nantoni na enzima kwi-cunnilingus, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, bayakuthanda. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, akukho nto i-squeamishness. Amadoda afanayo aphikisana ngokukodwa kunye ne-cunnilingus, edlala ngokucacileyo, ngaloo ndlela abonisa ukukhuseleka kwabo kunye nokungabi namandla. Yaye khumbula, ngesondo akumele kubekho into enqatshelwe. Into ephambili kukuba iminqweno yamaqabane ahambelana!