Ukunganeliseki ngesondo kunokuba yingxaki enkulu ebomini. Kwixesha elide, umfazi uyaba neentlungu okanye enobundlobongela, obunzima kwaye engonwabi. Isimo sengqondo sale ntombi siqondakala. Umzimba wakhe ubuza malunga noko angayifumani kwi-detente ngokupheleleyo. Unelisekile ngumfazi wesini, ngokuchaseneyo, uhlala ujabule kwaye ujabule. Uninzi lweentsapho ezonwabileyo ngokutshatyalaliswa ngenxa yecala kuphela, umgangatho owufanisa bobabini.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba "umlilo" wakhe embhedeni uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwi "ubugcisa" bomlingane. Ngelishwa, oku kuhlambulukisayo, kwaye akulungele ukutshintsha yonke into kumagxa omntu. Kodwa yintoni umfazi angayenza ngoko? Ukuzonwabisa lwakho kunye nenjabulo - yonke into!
Makhe sibone ukuba kutheni ukukhutshwa okulindelekileyo akufiki. Kukho izizathu ezininzi. Okokuqala, umzimba. Ukukhathala, ukuphazamiseka kwemiba, isigaba somjikelezo wesini, isantya sokuxhalaba ngaphambi kokulala ngokwesondo, njl njl - konke oku kunokuchaphazela ubukho be-orgasm okanye ukungabikho kwayo. Ndimele ndithi intlungu yokuqala yowesifazane ithatha malunga nemizuzu engama-40, umzimba wesetyhini awukwazi ukufumana i-orgasm ngaphambi kwesi sikhathi. Ngelo xesha, amanye amadoda akwazi ukukhulula uxinzelelo lwabo ngemizuzu eyi-15, kwaye oko kunele. Abasetyhini abaninzi, nangemva kokuphila iminyaka emininzi, musa ukuzithetha ukuxelela othandekayo ukuba abanakufumana ubuhle be-extravaganza yesini. Njengoko sifundiswa ukuthetha ebuntwaneni, akulungile ukukhohlisa, ngoko, kufuneka sikuxelele ngezinto ezikukhathazayo wena, iqabane lakho. Iqondo lokuthembela, ukunyaniseka kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo kubaluleke kakhulu kulwalamano. Ukuba uyakuthanda ngokwenene, unomdla kule ngxaki, ngokufanelekileyo, njengoko ufuna ukuyixazulula. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungenokuba kungumnandi kuye, ukuba usithule ixesha elide okanye ulandelelwano lwe-orgasm (abaninzi abasetyhini benza isono, kunye nokulimaza kwabo). Kodwa ukunyaniseka kwakho kuya kukusondeza kuphela. Yaye ukuba ngaba akanelisekanga ngento yentetho, kufuneka ucinge ukuba kutheni ufuna umntu onjalo?
Okwesibini, ingxaki inokulala kwindawo yeengqondo kunye nesimo sengqondo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa neqabane, ukunika okokuqala kuyo yonke into yokuzonwabisa, kwaye ukuba angabambeleli kwi-ribbon yakhe yokugqiba. Mhlawumbi, ingxoxo ephosakeleyo iyimfuneko, ngexesha apho izakhiwo ezifihlakeleyo okanye ukwesaba kuya kuvula. Kungenzeka ukuba ibhinqa lizithobekile kwaye, ngenxa yoko, libophe. Mhlawumbi nje iingcamango ezininzi ngexesha "inxaxheba enoxanduva". Oku kusebenza ngokukodwa kwisigaba sokuqala sobudlelwane. Ibhinqa lifuna ukuthanda, ukucokisa kakuhle, ukulala kunye nokunye njalo, ixhala malunga nendlela yakhe ifana ngayo nemigangatho yobuhle, kuba ichitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo wokuziphucula. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuphumla nokuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo kwiimvakalelo zakho kunye nomdla, okwenze ukuba ulale. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba kuthengela kwisondo, ngoko sele uthanda iqabane lakho. Khumbula i-movie "Idayari yeBridget Jones," umzuzu xa ufumanisa "kwi-panties" yakhe yobukhulu obukhulu. Akazange abaleke, akayikwesaba, ngokuchasene naye wazisa amaqhawe ndawonye, kwaye yena ngokwakhe waba yinto ebalaseleyo kwintombazana ayithandana naye.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, okwesithathu kweziganeko ezibalulekileyo zokwaneliseka ngokwesini, bobabini abasetyhini kunye namadoda, nayo ingqina lokuba ubukhulu besini buxhomekeke kwi-teknoloji. Inkolelo yokuba ulwazi lomzimba womzimba wesintu kunye nolwasemzimbeni, ulwazi lwemimandla engaqhelekanga kunye neengongoma, lunikela ngokukodwa umphumo oyifunayo. Le ngongoma enamandla kakhulu, kuba isondo kwindawo yokuqala kukuthandana, isenzo sokuzimela, ukuzithemba, ukwamukelwa kweqabane kunye nomzimba wakhe. Ukuba ukhangelelana ngesondo ngokusuka kwimbono yobugcisa, unokutshabalalisa ukusondelana kokomoya, utshabalalise umoya wokunyamekela nothando.
Ukunganeliseki yowesifazane wesini, wenzeni? Ngezibini apho kungekho ukuvumelana ngesondo, ngokukhawuleza kamva iingxabano zenzeka. Ukuhlanganiswa kobugwenxa, intukuthelo, umsindo uqokelela. Izizathu zenziwe ukuba zilungele ukuziphatha okunjalo, ukusuka kule nkquzulwano ngakumbi kwaye ngenxa yoko kubangelwa ibango elikhulu lamabango athile. Omnye uhlangabezana naloo nto, umntu uphendukela kwingcali - isazi sezengqondo, i-sexologist, njl njl. Ukuba ngaba emva kweengxoxo ezingenangqondo, ukuphumla kunye nokukhululwa kwentloko kwiingcamango ezingadingekile, umphumo onqwenelekayo awusebenzi ixesha elide, mhlawumbi akuyiyo ikusasa lakho? Awudingi ukulungiswa kumntu ongenakulala nawe embhedeni, umntu onokwenza kuphela iimfuno zakhe neemfuno zakhe. Indoda enjalo, ubuncinane awufanelekanga. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo wayengenakulungelelwa kuwe.