Ubusuku abuzange abubaleke, wayemnene kwaye enobubele kwi-caresses, ephethe yonke into enqwenela ngayo, enxanxathele kuwe uthando lomntu kwaye wayeyindoda ethandekayo. Ngamnye wenu wazama ukunikela ngokuzithanda kwakho ngokuzeleyo kwaye, ngokuzongena kuyo ngentloko yakho, yenza konke okusemandleni ukuba ungadumelani. Kwaye kwafika kusasa esilindelwe ixesha elide, apho zonke izibini zihlangana ngendlela yazo. Ngoko ke, yintoni abantu abangenzi kusasa emva kwesondo okanye ukuziphatha kwabantu emva kobusuku obushushu.
Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho buhlala ngaphezu kosuku olunye, usetyenziselwa kakhulu omnye nomnye, ngoko nawuphi na ukuziphatha komntu emva kwesondo awuyi kubangela nayiphi na intloni okanye intonwabo. Indoda ingakwazi ukulala ngokulala, iyakwamukela, nokuba ingakhathazeki ngokupheleleyo, kodwa nangona kunjalo, yazama wena, othandekayo kunye nentanda. Enye into xa ulala kwigumbi lokulala kunye nomfana omtsha oza kuqala kukutshatyalaliswa ngokwesini. Kwaye, emva kwe-orgasm, wabuyela ngokukhawuleza kwicala waza walala. Yilapha echaphazela ngokwenene ubomi. Yintoni enokuthi ibe nentsasa ngeemeko ezintle. Kwaye nangona uvusa iqabane lakho kwaye uthabathe kuye malunga nemithetho yokuziphatha ebhokisini lakho, asiyikucinga ukuba kusasa into iya kutshintsha kwaye uya kuvuswa ebusweni obushushu.
Ngelinye igama, indoda ekhwela ngaphandle komfazi okanye ukukhutshwa kwesibhambathiso sothando, oku akuzona zonke iintlobo zendlela yokuziphatha ebonisa ukuba lo okanye loo ndoda ibonakalisa emva kwesondo. Ingakumbi ixhalabisa ngokusa kusasa. Omnye ngokukhawuleza emva kokuntwela kokuntwela kokusa, uzama ukushiya "empini" phantsi kwayo nayiphi na into engqiqweni. Kwaye akukwanakho ukujonga oko ukulindele kumlindi wakho ngokuthe tye uthetha ukuthanda okuhle. Okokuqala, ungaligculi ngokuba wena wenze into engalunganga kwaye ngoko umntu uzama ukusinda kuwe. Khawukhumbule ukuba, mhlawumbi, igcwele nayiphi na imvakalelo, kwaye akafuni ukuba uzibone ngendlela yakhe yokuziphatha, okanye ucinga ukuba wenza iphutha kwinto (ininzi idityaniswe ngesondo). Emva kwakho konke, cinga ukuba wonke umntu, imihla ngemihla, kufuneka adlale indima yeHercules eqinile, enamandla kwaye enamandla kwaye, ngokudibeneyo, inkosi yokuphila. Ngoko ke, akakwazi ukukwazi ukuzimela ngokwakhe kwaye azibonakalise enothando kwaye enothando ekuseni. Ngoko ke, ukuze ulondoloze indima yakhe engaphendulwanga, uvele ebalekela kwindlu yakho ukuze abuyele. Yaye kungekhona into yokuba kusasa kusasa, emva kobusuku bakho obushushu obushushu, uya kwenza okufanayo. Kuphela kufuneka ubeke umonde kwaye ulinde ade umntu avulwe phambi kwakho aze ahlale esidlweni sakusasa, mhlawumbi uya kuzipheka ngokwakhe, ekukulethe ukuba ulale.
Ukuba iqabane lakho lilala ngokukhawuleza emva kwesondo, kufuneka ulinde ekuseni kwaye uzame ukumbonisa indlela oziphatha ngayo. Ndikholelwe, oku kuya kubakhokelela kwimiphumo emihle kwaye indoda, eqonda zonke "amandla akhe omzimba", iya kuphinda itshintshe. Into ephambili, qaphela kakhulu, ukhethe amagama afanelekileyo. Ukudumisa kwakho akufanele kubonakale njengokuhlalutya kobusuku obuthathwe nendoda, kufuneka kube yinyanzelo kwaye uzuze umlingane. Mxelele ngendlela ebenomtshatsheli kwaye engakhathali kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kusebenza. Ngendlela, ukubonakalisa ngokugqithiseleyo zonke ezi ngasentla, unokwenza ulungelelanisa iqabane "ukuphindaphinda kokulala ngesondo." Yazi ukuba amadoda ayakuthanda ukulala ngesondo ngokulula ekuseni. Kwaye ngokubanzi, emva kwesondo sasekuseni, zikhethe ukutya kwakho kwasekuseni ngokwakhe elala. Yilapho evele nje e-zasyplet uyamncoma kunye nothando lwakhe.
Ngohlobo lwakhe, indoda emva kwesondo iyahlula kwiintlobo ezininzi kunye neendlela zokuziphatha ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, indoda eneentloni kusasa, emva kobusuku obushushu, ihlala idolo. Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba uzama ukuthetha njani, uya kukhetha iimpendulo eziphambili kuyo yonke imibuzo yakho. Kwakhona, ungazami ukuthatha konke kwi-akhawunti yakho. Khumbula ukuba okhethiweyo wakho ulindela kuwe yokuqala yokuqala nawaphi na amazwi kunye nezenzo ezinqabileyo. Zama ukuzivula ngokubanzi ngangokunokwenzeka phambi kwakhe.
Uhlobo lwesibini lokuziphatha komntu ngokusa kusasa kukubonisa. La madoda, njengomthetho, qalisa ingxoxo ngokwabo kwaye angakuvusela le nto. Uyakwazi ukuxoxa ngazo zonke ii-pluses kunye neendlwana zobusuku obuchithwe kunye nawe kwaye zibuze iinkcukacha ezithandekayo ezikufutshane naye. Ngoko ulungele ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe. Ngendlela, unako ukunikela ngesondo ngokwasemva.
Udidi oluyinkimbinkimbi yindoda alukhathaleli. Ngentsasa, amadoda anjalo aziphathe kakuhle kwaye angabonakali. Ukuziphatha kwabo akuxhomekeke kwindlela enhle okanye embi ngayo. Into ephambili, ungazami ukulungelelanisa kuyo, ukuphinda ukuziphatha kwayo.
Kodwa umntu othembekileyo uya kuhlangabeza ekuseni kungekuphela kwakho, kodwa kunye neengcinga ezihle kakhulu kunye namahlaya. Kungenakwenzeka ukuba iqabane elinjalo lichithe nantoni na, ihlala iloned, isebenze kwaye ilungele ukuphakama kwamanqanaba akho. Ngendlela, elindele ukusa ukusazisa akuyiyo ikusasa lakhe. Uya kukwenza emva kokulala ngesondo, kwaye ngokumomotheka okunelisayo kuza kulinda ekuseni.
Indoda ezingcazo iya kuhlala iyanamathela kwiminqweno yakhe. Akayi kubuza ekuseni, njengawe, nokuba uthanda ubusuku obuchitha naye. Kodwa ukuthetha ngaye ngokwakhe unako ukususela ekuseni kuze kuhlwe. Kule meko, zama ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe, ukumbetha nge-ego yakhe kunye neemvakalelo.
Kwaye okokugqibela, uhlobo oluthathekayo lomntu-isithandwa sothando. Indoda enjalo kufuneka ixabiswe kwaye ayiyiyo inyathelo elide naye. Uya kuhlala evuka ngokubamba okanye ukuthinteka kwesandla sakhe. Yaye malunga nobusuku obuchitha kunye nawe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphendula, njengento ye-fairytale kunye nemilingo. Ngomntu onjalo, akufanele uhlalutye yonke into ebesebusuku, nje wabelane naye ngobunono bakhe novakalelo.
Ngoko sihlolisise iindidi eziphambili zokuziphatha kwabazalwana bethu abathandekayo ekuseni. Ngoku sicinga ukuba uya kuqonda ngokuchanekileyo umntu ovukile ecaleni kwakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba le ndoda ayikukhathaleli, uya kufumana indlela kuye ukuba akayi kuhlala kunye nawe isidlo sakusasa, kodwa kunye nexesha elide ebomini bakho. Inhlanhla kuwe!