Akunakwenzeka ukukhusela ngokupheleleyo umntwana ekuwa. Ukuba umntwana akayi kudla, uya kunyikimaza ngaye? Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuza kusindisa amathambo omntwana, kodwa kuya kutshabalalisa umlingiswa.
Xa umntwana ewa
Xa umntwana engasenayo igumbi lesithuba, kuza ixesha lokufunda eziphakamileyo. Ingaba isitopu okanye izakhiwo zemidlalo, umthi olula okanye intaba kwindawo yokudlala. Njengomphumo wovavanyo olunjalo oluphezulu, abantwana bayawa, bebethe ngeesisu, emhlane, iintloko, ukuphuka imilenze nezandla. Yintoni abazali abafanele bayayazi ukuba abantwana babo balimala? Ngaba ndimele ndiyithathele kwigumbi lezongxamisekileyo, ndibizele i-ambulensi okanye ngaya kudokotela?
Xa umntwana ekhala kunye nobuxoki, unokuphuma okanye ukuphuka okuvulekile, akukho mbuzo. Sidinga ukubiza i-ambulensi. Kodwa ngokusoloko kuhluke.
Umntwana wehla ukusuka ekuphakameni okancinci kwi-flat surface. Ayikho imivimbo ebonakalayo, kodwa umlenze wakhe okanye ingalo ayinakulinganiswa. Umntwana uyavuka ngokwakhe, kodwa kukho ukubumnyama kwamehlo, isisu, intlungu enomlenze okanye ingalo. Ukubonisana nodokotela kuyimfuneko. Ukubiza ngokukhawuleza i-ambulensi.
Unako ukuya kum
Umntwana unokuzimelela, unokuhlanza omnye, ukhononda ngesicaphulelo, intloko. Ingane ikhumbula yonke into eyenzeka kuye. Emzimbeni unokuhlala utyumza, izivunguvungu. Umlenze okanye ingalo inokulimaza. Ukubonisana nodokotela kuyimfuneko. Ugqirha uya kuhlola isimo se-nervous system kwaye ahlole umsebenzi wezitho zangaphakathi. Unokuthatha intombazana yakho okanye unyana wakho esibhedlele okanye kwisikhululo soxinzelelo kwiimoto eziqhelekileyo. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuqhuba izandla okanye ukuthatha ikhaya, ukubeka umntwana embhedeni nokubiza udokotela.
Abantwana ukuya kwiminyaka emibini nesiqingatha
Akukho mntwana omnye oneminyaka engayi kuze awele phantsi, xa efunda ukukhwela, ukuhamba okanye ukuhlala. Umntwana kufuneka athatyathwe nini kugqirha?
Xa ewa ephakamileyo encinci kwaye sele ehamba, akakwazi ukugcina iinyawo zakhe, ngoko ugqirha wayedinga, xa:
- uhlanza umntwana,
- xa engakhange akhale ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba ugqirha wathi akukho nto iyingozi
Kubalulekile ukugcina nokunyamekela. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba iziphumo zentlekele zingabonakali ngoko nangoko, kodwa emva kwexeshana. Ingonakalisa kwizitho zangaphakathi kunye nengqondo. Kwaye nangona kungabikho nxinzelelo embi (ukuhlanza okuncinane, kwawa e esile, kwahlulwa) kufuneka ulale ekhaya iintsuku ezisixhenxe. Yilapho unomgqirha onokubonisana nanini na, imini okanye ubusuku. Ugqirha uya kuhlola umntwana wakho ngeveki emva kokulimala.
Ukuba umntwana wakho eneempawu ezichazwe ngezantsi, umntwana kufuneka athathwe ngokukhawuleza esibhedlele:
- imeko yezempilo ibuhlungu, nangona imeko yaqala ukuphucula, umntwana kunzima ukuvuka, kwakukho ukulala okubukhali ngexesha elingavamile,
- ukwanda okukhulu, kunzima ukulala, uvuka ebusuku ngokukhala. Ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza imibuzo, ngezinye izihlandlo ngokungafanelekanga. Uzenza izinto eziphosakeleyo, udonsa kwiingwele zakhe, adle iphepha. Akayiqondi apho ekhona, akazi ukuba yenzeni,
- ukutyunjwa kweengcambu okanye umzimba wonke, ukukhahlela intloko ngexesha lokulala okanye ukuhlala, ukubeka iliso kwinqanaba okanye phezulu,
- ukungcola, okwadlula emva kokulimala kwabonakala ngomhla wesi-3, umhla wesi-4,
- ubude obubukhali beembumba kunye nekhumba,
- igazi kumchamo.
Umama uya kufuneka athathe iphepha lokubhedlele kwaye alisoloko esamehlo umntwana. Abantwana emva kokulimala kweveki badinga ukuphumla kwebhedi.