Uthando lomntu

Abanye besetyhini bacinga ukuba amadoda kunye nothando zizinto ezimbini ezingahambelaniyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Inyaniso kukuba ukuthandana kwamadoda kunentsingiselo eyahlukileyo kunabesifazane. Ngoko abantu bathanda ukuthandana? Abasetyhini kufuneka benze ntoni ukuze umntu abe nesithandane?

Umgaqo 1. Musa ukulindela okanye ufune into ethile ngokubuyisela

Ngokomzekelo, ulungiselele isidlo esimnandi somntu othandekayo, ulungiselele etafileni , udale ukukhanyisa okuthandanayo, ubeke ingubo yokukhohlisa. Nangu ukhethiweyo wakho, ulethe i-ts'oletele kunye neentyantyambo zeentyatyambo. Uhlala phantsi kwisidlo sakusihlwa, ujabulele ukutya, unikane, ubambe. Konke kulungile, ngokuhlwa kukuthandana, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ibhinqa lisondela kwaye lisithi: "Mthandi, ndincede ndihlambe izitya."

Yonke into ekuthandweni yindoda iphelile. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukunika ubusuku bakho obuthandayo obunothando, ulondoloze kule ndawo evamile imihla ngemihla.

Umthetho 2. Thatha intlangano yomcimbi

Umbutho weehambo, iipikniksi kunye nokuhamba ngokuqhelekileyo kuqhutyelwa ngabantu. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uthabathe yonke imisebenzi yentlangano kwaye wenze ummangali wakho amangaliswe njengomcimbi wokuzalwa, uhambo oluya kwi-ski, njl., Luya kuthanda kakhulu. Wayemnyamekela, wathatha zonke iingxaki kuwe, kwaye unokunxibelelana nawe ngokuvuya kwesi siganeko. Lo ngumoya wangempela.

Umthetho 3. Yongeza ubuhle

Amadoda awavuyiswa yimbonakalo yothando, kodwa xa ubongeza i-humor encane kubo, kuya kuba yinto enye. Indlela ingaba nantoni na, ukusuka kwipekese ngamanqaku ahlekisayo, kwizipho ezifihliweyo kwindawo ethile, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uthathe, kufuneka uphendule le puzzle.

Umthetho 4. Ubundlobongela kunye noluthando luhlala lujikeleze

Unjalo uhlobo lomntu ukuba isondo kunye nothando eentloko zabo zihlobene. Ngaloo ndlela, nawaphi na amanyathelo akho embhedeni ngokuzenzekelayo abe yintando. Akunjalo nje ukuzizonwabisa, kodwa uhambo oluthandanayo. Ngenxa yoko, usondela ngakumbi komnye nomnye. Ukuba awukwazi ukuba wenze ntoni kulolu hlobo, ngoko ke into elula kakhulu ongayenza yifake kwiingubo zangaphantsi (ngokomzekelo, iimpahla zangaphantsi ezimnyama nezibomvu zibhekwa njengeklasikhi). Unokucinga ukuba isinyathelo sokuqala sele sithathwe.

Umthetho 5. Fumana indawo yakhe ebuthathaka

Oku kuthetha ukufumana into ayithandayo, into ayilwe ngayo, kwaye uyinike yona. Amadoda ahlukeneyo: umntu uthanda ibhola, omnye akakwazi ukunyamezela kwaye ukhetha ukufunda incwadi enhle, wesithathu uthanda umdlalo ogqithiseleyo, njenge-skiing ski, ukuxuma kweparachute. Into efunekayo umfazi ibonisa ukuba uyayiqonda indoda kwaye uyayixabisa, ngoko oku kuza kuhamba ngokupheleleyo.