Indlela yokwenza indoda igqoke kakuhle?

Njengoko ingoma ithi: "iifashini zitshintsha imihla ngemihla," kwaye, ke, kunjalo. Kwaye utshintsho oluqhubekayo luzisa thina, abafazi, amanandi amaninzi kunye nokukhathalela ezininzi. Emva kwakho konke, uyaqonda, akukho nto inokuthelekiswa nokulungiswa kwecarder.

Kodwa, maye, asinabo bonke abantu ababelana ngesithando sethu, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba ayenjalo, ngamanye amaxesha abathandekayo bethu, basibetha ngokusweleka kwabo kunye nokungahloneli ngokubonakalayo! Kwaye singabesifazana, izidalwa ezifihlakeleyo, kwaye asikwazi ukunyamezela ukuxhaphaza okunjalo okwenkcenkceshelwano oluhle kunye noluhle! Ngoko ke, nawuphi na kuthi ojongene nale ngxaki, kwaphakama umbuzo, indlela yokufumana umntu ukuba agqoke kakuhle?

Ngenxa yobulungisa, kufuneka kuphawulwe apha ukuba kungekudala intlaba yamadoda yonke iyaphucula. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho abantu abahlukeneyo, phakathi kwabantu abesilisa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, kunye nohlobo lwesimo, yonke into ikulungele ukuba, kwaye ukuba le ndoda ifike kuwe, ngoko uya kuvuya kuphela. Abanye abafazi banokucebisa iingcingo ezimbalwa ukuze umntu wakho agqoke kakuhle!

Ukufumana inombolo 1. Bond ... uJames Bond.
Iifilimu kunye neenkwenkwezi zee-movie manje zinempembelelo enkulu ekubunzeni imfashini kunye nesimo sengqondo kubaphulaphuli. Yaye yile ndlela uqonda ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyisebenzisa, kwisihloko sesihloko, njengomzekelo wabantu, i-agent 007, uJacob Bond (umzekelo, indoda efanelwe nayiphi na iqhawe le-movie, enexabiso elifanelekileyo). Into ephambili apha kukuba le hero ye-movie yindoda yinyani, ngokuyinhloko emehlweni omlingane wakho. Ukuba le ndoda ayinakuyijonga nayiphi na into yokuba uzama ukumnciphisa umnqophiso wesilisa (nokuba nje kuphela kwiingubo), ngoko ke kulula ukukubonisa kumaqhawe angamaqhinga neenkalipho, ngokuzimela ngokufanelekileyo kunye nezicathulo ezihlambulukileyo. Into ephambili ngokuqhelekileyo ekubukeni uchungechunge lwakhe oluthandayo lweBondiana (abahlobo baka-Ocean, amaxesha angama-17 entwasahlobo) kunye naye ukhuluma ngendlela ephakamileyo kunye nesicatshulwa Sean Konery (uGeorge Clooney, Tikhonov) ugqoke. Yaye indoda leyo. Uthobekile ufuna ukufana nabo, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo banxibe njengabo.

Ukufumana inombolo 2. Izipho, zihlala zihle.
Amadoda, banjengabantwana abakhulu, bahlala besondela kwisifuba baze bathande izipho. Ngoko ke, unganqikazi ukunika loo ndoda ingubo! Buza ukuba xa uphuma kunye kwindawo ethile, ugqoke izinto owamnike zona, kungekhona ijee zakhe ezithandwayo kunye ne-sweatshi ekhandiweyo yokuzilibazisa. Chaza ukuba uya kuvuya ukubona ukuba uthwala izipho zakho. Yaye ukuba uthe wadibana ixesha elide, unokuqokelela umhlobo wakho, umgcini we-wardrobe enhle kunye nesitayela. Ngelo xesha, kuyamkeleka ukuba ahambe ukubukela ibhola kunye nabahlobo, kungekhona kwizicathulo ozinike zona, kodwa kwiingcingo zakhe ezindala.

Ukufumana inombolo 3. Uhambo oluhlangeneyo kwiingubo.

Ukuba umntu unesimo sengqondo, kodwa uthengela iimpahla, uThixo akavumelekanga, kwimakethe yembatho okanye esitokisini esiseduze ukuya endlwini, akuyi kusindisa. Kuba bangaphi abangafungiyo ngumbombo, kwaye akukho namadayimane apho. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna into ethile kwiingubo, mcele ukuba ahambe nawe kwiivenkile zakho ezizithandayo, kuba kukho iimveliso ezininzi ezinokungathengi kunye nezambatho ezintle ezivelisa amabini kunye nabafazi. Xa usebenzisa le ndlela, iimikhankaso ezihlangeneyo zeengubo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzilawula ekuqaleni kwesi sihlandlo esinzima. Sinomsebenzi wokufundisa umntu kwizinto ezilungileyo, ezintle kunye nokuhlakulela umqondo wesitayela, kwaye ungamsongeli kwiivenkile, into oyithengayo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ii-1,5 iiyure ziya kuzama ukukhwaza. Ngoko ke, ukuthengwa kwezinto ezifunekayo akufanele kuthathe imizuzu engaphezulu kwama-20-30. Uninzi olungaphezulu nolungalungiswanga luya kuphila.

Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezivumela ukuba uqondise indoda ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye iya kwenza ukuba agqoke kakuhle. Ngokuqinisekileyo akuyiyo yonke into, kwaye unokuzihlanganisa ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye ungeze ngokwakho. Into ephambili ayizami ukubeka ingcinezelo enkulu kumntu, kufuneka afune, aze afunde indlela yokugqoka kakuhle.