Indoda ilinda ibhola kwiTV. Umfazi uyacaphuka: "Ukhangeleleni yonke ibhola lakho? Thetha kum ngento ephakamileyo. " Umyeni: "Ngokuqinisekileyo! Yiza, makhe sithethe nge-basketball! "Kakade, oku kuyingcambu nje. Kodwa onke amaninzi amabali amnandi abe yinto yethu yansuku zonke. Kuthekani ukuba itekethi yezemidlalo ilungu elipheleleyo lentsapho yakho?
Ayikho imfihlo yokuba abantu bathanda ibhola. Yaye kunye ne-tennis, i-hockey, iintlobo zeentlanga, i-basketball, ukugubha, i-kayaking, i-polo yamanzi, ukubhukuda kunye nokuxhuma kwi-springboard, okanye nokuba bhetele kwi-pole ... Yonke into iya kulungile, umdla
ihlabathi lonke, ngenxa yesizathu esithile ixesha elininzi ixesha amadoda angayidlulisi ibhola okanye ipake kwintsimi ngokwazo, kodwa, ehleli ngokukhululekile kwi-TV, bayagula ngentshiseko kwiqela labo abathandayo okanye umdlali. Xa umfazi okanye intombi izama ukwenza amabango akhe, udla ngokuva: "Awuqondi nto." Enyanisweni, ngamnye wakhe. Ekugqibeleni, abafazi banezinto ezininzi zokuzilibazisa okungafunekiyo ukuba amadoda abelane ngazo. Kwaye kuphela yintombi evela kwingoma yabantwana apho "... u-Spartacus oomama bayagula" ingaba yinto enhle kunoma yimuphi umntu. Kwaye akunjalo ngawe. Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuba uhlale ujonga i-Champions League esikhundleni sefilimu ethandekayo okanye ukhansele ukutyelela? Kuthekani ukuba umtshingo we-sofa-TV womyeni wakhe utshintsha yonke into?
Yintoni abanye abayenzayo.
ESpeyin, kungekudala nje, ihlazo likawonke-wonke laphuka. AmaSpeyin athi i-European footballball iqela imfazwe enzima kwaye yaququzelela umbutho "Abasetyhini baseSpeyin ngaphandle kwebhola." "Akunjalo kuphela ukuba amadoda athathe ithelevishini kwaye akavunyelwe ukubukela uchungechunge lwazo lweTV, abaye baxhala, banqwenela ukuthatha udoti baze bafezekise umsebenzi wabo womtshato!" Omnye wabalandeli beli phephandaba utshilo iphephandaba laseFrance elithi Le Figaro. Njengengcebiso "yasekhaya," abafazi bacelwa ukuba bafihle iipaneli zokulawula ezikude ukusuka kwiisethi zeTV kunye nokwenza izihlazo eziqhelekileyo malunga nokunyuka kwamadoda kwimidlalo yezemidlalo.
Abantu abaninzi baseRussia babekulungele ukulwa nesisombululo esihle: U- Katya oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala wamkhwelisa umyeni wakhe embhedeni womtshato kwi-Olimpiki zeHlabathi, kodwa kuye oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Okumangalisayo kukuba, umlinganiselo ogqithisileyo uye waba neziqhamo: ngoku urekhoda ukusasazwa kwividiyo kwaye ubukele ukhuphiswano ngelixa umfazi elele.
U-Irina wayenomdla kakhulu ukuba uza kutshata nomntu owayeya kubonakala njengoyise. Xa wayehlala nabazali bakhe kwaye kwakukho umdlalo kwiTV (ibhola lebhola okanye iHockey), kwakukho ukuthula okuphelele endlwini, kuba uTata wayelungele ukuwujonga ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni. U-Ирин umyeni wexesha elizayo ubonakale engathandekiyo kubini bebhola, nakwi-hockey. Unesinye isithandwa - zonke iintlobo zokulwa (ibhoksi, judo, ukulwa). Kodwa yena ngokwakhe ungumdlali. Ira ukwazi ukuthetha naye. Unako ukumnika xa efuna ukubona into. Ukongeza, banamaTV amaningana endlwini.
Umyeni ka-Sonin wayengumdlali webhola, ngokukodwa, "u-Spartacus." U-Alya Sophia, oku kwakubuhlanya ngokwenene! Xa umntwana wabo umntwana ekhala kwisibhedlele, umyeni wamemeza umkakhe ukuba "enze" umntwana onqabile. Kodwa ngolunye usuku ugogo wayehamba kunye nomntwana, kwaye endlwini kwakukho uxolo, ubunyulu, isondo kunye ... iNdebe yeHlabathi! USonya wahlala ecaleni komyeni wakhe embhedeni, ekhangelelwa kwiTV, apho amadoda angama-20 aphilileyo ayexoshe ibhola enye kwintsimi, kwaye ... yawela ngothando! Ndiyamthanda ibhola!
Ikhowudi yomntu.
Akuyimfuneko ukugxeka amadoda ngokudlala ngokweqile. Iingcali zengqondo ziyamemeza ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukunqwenela izibuko ezinjalo kuboniswe ngaphambili kubameli be-half half strong humanity genetically. Into yokuba amadoda anamhlanje akanalo i-adrenaline eyaneleyo, kwaye esikhundleni sokuba afune ukuzingela ama-mammoth, aya kwibala lezemidlalo (ekugqwesileyo) okanye ebhedeni - ngokubamba iqela kwiqela lethu kwi- ... Ukongeza, njengoko iingcali zithi, ukubukela imincintiswano yezemidlalo kwiTV kunceda ukujamelana nokuxinzezeleka kwengcinezelo kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Umzekelo, ebomini, umyeni wakho akakwazi ukumelana nomphathi okanye akakwazi ukuqhubela phambili iphrojekthi yakhe, kodwa apha, ukunyamezela iqela lakhe eliyintandokazi, uvumela i-steam, ukukrokra, ukugxeka kunye nokufumana isinxephezelo sokuziphatha kunye nokuphumla kwengqondo. Kwaye ke, ukuba sithatha umyeni wezopolitikoe ukuzizonwabisa, imeko ingatshintsha ngakumbi. Uya kuqala ukuphulaphula intsapho yakhe. Ukuba uzama ngokwenene ukutshintsha into ethile kunye neminye imibala yemidlalo kunye nemincintiswano eyahlukeneyo, ngoko kufuneka wenze oku ngokuthe ngcembe. Emva koko umntu ngokwakhe, ngokusemthethweni angenza ngaphandle kokutshatyalaliswa komabonwakude. Okanye ungene kwimidlalo, okanye ncinane uye kwindawo yokudlala. Ngoko, njani ukuba wenze ntoni kule meko?
"Utshintsho lwendalo."
Kulula ukubekezela umdlalo wendoda kwaye ucinge ngomnye umsebenzi. Nangona nje elandela inkqubela phambili yabadlali bethu, uya kubakho kwiidanga zokudanisa, i-yoga, kwisangqa sokudweba okanye ukufotowa. Njengekhetho, iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo, ukuya kuma-movie, ekuthengeni okanye kwimiboniso efanelekile. Gcwalisa amaphupha akho ekugqibeleni! Ekugqibeleni, ukhululekile (kunye nomyeni) ixesha, onokuzidela ngokupheleleyo. Ngeyure umdlalo oqaqambileyo uqala? Ukubhalisa ngokukhawuleza ukulungiselela umququzeleli okanye umzobo. Nina bobabini uya kumonwaba kwaye niqhubeke ngokuhlwa ngokumnandi. Iingeniso zale ndlela kukuba awuyi kutyhukela kwaye ukhangela umsebenzi onomdla kwixesha lomdlalo okanye ukhuphiswano. Amanani aphakamileyo (amathikithi eklabhu yempilo, kwakunye netikiti zemicimbi yezobugcisa kunye nezokuzonwabisa zifaneleke kakhulu ngemali).
"Iqela leNkxaso".
Enye indlela yokuphuma kwimeko ingafakwa into efana nale: "Kwenzeka ntoni na?" Kufuneka uhlale phantsi nomthandi wakho kwi-sofa uze uzame ukufumanisa oko bonke aba bantu benzayo kwintsimi. Enyanisweni, ufanele ubonise umdla onyanisekileyo kwinto eyenzekayo. Ngaphandle koko umlingane wakho unokucinga ukuba uzama ukuphazamisa ukuthanda kwakhe. Ingcipheko yendlela kukuba kuthatha ixesha elide kwaye iya kufuna ukuba ube nomonde omkhulu, ubuqili, ubuchule kunye nokuqonda. Nangona kunjalo, mhlawumbi, ngokuthe ngcembe ungakwazi ukuwa thandana nebhola, i-volleyball kunye neminye imidlalo. Zama ukuzikhethela iqela lakho eliyintandokazi okanye omnye umdlali (inzuzo phakathi kwabo ubukhulu bamadoda amnandi). Jonga ukhuphiswano njengokungathi usemidlalo. Kungekudala uza kuqonda ubuninzi bobuqili, unokwakhokelela nayiphi na incoko "yindoda" kwaye ngexesha elifanayo unikezele ngokukhululeka kwiimvakalelo eziqokelelwayo. Ukuxabana nomntu akuyi kuba nesizathu ... Kukho nawuphi na, iqabane lakho liya kuqonda ukuqonda kwakho.
"Kwimeko enzulu."
Enyanisweni, i-etymology yegama elithi "cheerleader" ayinasizathu esichukumisayo kwisenzi "sokugula." Ngamanye amaxesha umdlalo wezemidlalo luba nesifo esiyinyani, esifanele siphathwe. Ukuba umyeni wakho akaphosoli ukhuphiswano olulodwa, uchitha yonke imali yakhe ekuhambeni ukuya kumanye amazwe nakwamanye amazwe kwaye akakwazi ukuthetha nantoni na ngaphandle kwezemidlalo, ixesha lokusebenzisa amanyathelo okwelapha. Inokwenzeka ukuba, intetho ayiyi kunceda. Intanda yakho iya kwenza izithembiso zitshintshe, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba zizalisekise. Yiya ngobuqhetseba. Ungamthinteli ngexesha lemidlalo ebalulekileyo okanye ukhuphiswano (emva koko, unelungelo lokuzonwabisa), kunye nexesha lezemidlalo ezingabalulekanga, khetha iqumrhu elibambiseneyo. Into eyona nto iyisishukumisi esifanelekileyo. "Mthandi, andinakukhetha inyama ngaphandle kwakho!", "Darling, abazali bam baya kukhubeka xa ndiza ndedwa!" ... Ukuqonda ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe konke kuya kumisa ngokwenene, umyeni wakho uya kukwazi ukuphosakela iindibano ezibhengezo.