Ikhwele ngenye yeemvakalelo ezinamandla kakhulu. Inokuthelekiswa nje nothando kunye nenzondo. Kwaye, njengeminye imizwelo, iyingqayizivele kuphela kumntu. Izilwanyana azikhwele kwaye azikwazi. Emva koko, zizimeleyo kwaye azikho zabanye. Loo mvakalelo awunayo yonke into, iquka ngokuthe ngcembe. Ngokomlinganiselo omkhulu, abantu bayakrokraza, benomntu ongenakunqamka kwaye osolisayo. Ziziphi izinto ezikhuselekanga, zinokwenza uhlobo oluthile lweengxaki zengqondo. Ukuba nomona kunokuvela nangomntwana ukususela kumntwana onomona ngabazali kwabanye abantwana, omnye komnye, xa eziva engenangqondo, engafuni ukunakwa.
Ibhinqa ayinyamezeli umona ongalithandayo, kodwa uyacaphuka xa engabi nomona ngoyithandayo. Zininzi izizathu zokubonakala komona. Makhe sibone ezinye zazo. Isizathu sokuqala nesisisiseko-umnqweno wokugcina othandekayo kufuphi. Okwesibini yindlela yokudala "uthando lomona." Kwabaninzi abantu, abonisa iimpawu zeshwele ngumqondiso wothando, nothando. Kodwa enyanisweni, ukubonakaliswa komona kukubonakalisa ukungathembeki. Kwaye njengokuba umona ungumqondiso womnini-propati, obhekisela kumntu othandekayo njengento engekho umntu ongayichukumisa, okufuneka ukuba njalo. Isizathu sesithathu ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki. Ngokuphathelele abantu abathembekileyo ngokwabo bathi banomxholo ophakathi. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu onjalo uya kulungelelanisa i-disassembly, nangona kukho ngaphandle. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntu ongaqinisekanga kuye, akaqinisekanga kunye lakhe iqabane. Nangona umntu othandekayo ehleli ekhaya kwaye engathethi nantoni na, oku akuyi kutshintsha imeko, kukho ithuba elitsha lomona. Isizathu sesine kukuba ukwesaba ukuba yedwa, ingakumbi ukuba kwakukho amava ngaphambili. Ufuna ukwazi oko kubalulekile kuwe, uyamdinga, nguye iqhawe lakho.
Wonke umntu unesizathu sakhe sokuba nomona kwaye ngamnye ngenxa yezizathu zakhe ufuna ukukhupha lo mkhwele. Kungaba ngumnqweno wokubamba umdla wokuzibamba, uzibonakalise kumlingane ovela kwinqanaba elitsha. Okanye mhlawumbi kuya kugubungela kwaye kuhlaziywe ubudlelwane obuye beqhubekile kwaye bengenamsola omtsha, iimvakalelo ezintsha, uhlobo oluthile lokuthuthumela ...
Xa iqabane lihlala lilapho okanye unethuba lokumbona rhoqo, akunzima ukwenza umona. Unokwenza oko ukuze akubone kwinkampani yomnye umntu, ngoko uya kucinga nje ukuba umlingani wakhe emsebenzini uzimisele nje ukubamba indlu. Ukuba udla ngokuthetha kwifowuni uze uye kwelinye igumbi le nto, liya kumnceda. Unokuvumelana nomhlobo ukuba ukubize ngexesha elithile, kwaye utshintshe igama lakhe kwifowuni kwindoda. Shiya ifowuni kwindawo evelele ukuze xa kukho umnxeba, ubone ngubani obiza wena. Ukufumana umdala omdala kunye neentyatyambo zeentyatyambo. Ukwenza oku, uya kufuna iimbali zeentyantyambo, ukumomotheka okungaqondakaliyo kunye nempendulo ye-laconic, njengathi-kungabikho namnye kwaye njengaye.
Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa into yokudumisa ide kakhulu? Indlela yokwenza indoda ibe nomona kwaye iyayixabisa, kodwa ingayiphumeleli? Apha isangqa "sezixhobo" sincinci kwiindlela zonxibelelwano - umnxeba kunye ne-imeyile (okanye i-ICQ). Ngethuba le ncoko, xelela ukuba ngethuba ngomsebenzi omtsha emsebenzini okanye unyana wommelwane owayeza kumtyelela. Cinga ngembali yoqhelana naye, into elula kwaye ingacacanga. Kunjengokuncedisa ukusetha ikhompyutha yakho, uncedise ukuqalisa imoto okanye uxoxe nawe kwivenkile. Nantoni na, iphefumlelwe kuphela, igxininisa indlela enomdla, emangalisayo kwaye ngokumangalisa ngayo, kutheni engatshatanga. Ndikholelwe, oku kuya kumenza akhathazeke.
Ngamanye amaxesha, vumela ukuba ungaphenduli ikhwelo lakhe, uchaze ngokuqeshwa. Ngokukodwa xa umxelele ukuba uya kutyelela okanye uphume kunye nabahlobo. Sitshele indlela ebudeni benkampani okanye ngosuku lokuzalwa owadlala ngayo nomntu kwimidlalo ephindwe kabini, ukuba kwakumnandi kangakanani. Ukuba ngethuba lofowuni usithi unomnxeba kumgca wesibini okanye i-SMS ifikile, akayi kushiya ngaphandle kokuqwalasela.
Kukho indlela eyinkqinkqu ephezulu kwaye idinga ukulungiswa. Yenza umfanekiso omhle apho ukhohlisa kwaye unobungqingili. Isithombe esithakazelisayo ngakumbi, ngcono. Thumela njengobungqina bendlela ulahlekelwa ngayo. Qiniseka, kuya kumenza acinge, kwaye ngubani owakubonayo. Ukuba ukongeza kule nto ibali leendlela othumele ngayo ngephutha ikhophi yomyalezo kumntu owaziwayo xa uyithumelele, lindele ukuphendula kwangaphambili.
Sebenzisa amanqaku abuthathaka. Ukuba akayithandi, xa ugqoke umncinci xa engazange azungeze, mthumelele isithombe esiphila kuso kwisigqabi esiphantsi kweeholide okanye ukuhamba. Ukuba akayithandi, xa uya endaweni ethile ngaphandle kwakhe, xelele ukuba, ngethuba, malunga nentlanganiso enomdla kunye nabahlobo.
Faka phakathi ukucinga kwakho, nceda uncede uncedo lokuzihlaziya kwaye isiphumo asiyi kuthatha ixesha elide. Mhlawumbi nguwe oza kuza neendlela ezingenazo ingxaki eqinisekisa ukuphumelela kweepesenti ezilikhulu, amenze akhathazeke kwaye uya kukwazi ukuphendula umbuzo wendlela yokwenza umona ube nomona kwaye uyayixabisa.
Kodwa, ngokungakhathaliseki nantoni na, kubangela umona, into ephambili ayiyikuyidlula. Emva kwakho konke, umsebenzi wakho ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho, ukuba umdla kakhulu, kwaye ungayonakalisi yonke into ekupheleni.
Xa uthatha isenzo esisebenzayo, cinga kwakhona malunga nokusebenza kweemigudu yakho. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba umthandi wakho uphambukile kuwe, awukwazi ukulandelela indlela asabela ngayo. Unokuyithatha entliziyweni, kwaye unokuyiphatha njengemvume yokuziphindezela, nto leyo inokubangela ukuba indoda ibe yinto ethile. Into ephambili, nantoni na oyenzayo, zama ukulimaza ulwalamano lwakho.