Imidwebo yabantwana: iingcinga kunye neengcamango

Ngaba umntwana wakho ufuna ukudweba? Namela oko akubonisa kwimifanekiso yakhe. Kuya kuba ngabantu abaluleke kakhulu kunye neziganeko kuye kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo kubo. Emva kwakho konke, imifanekiso emininzi yabantwana - iingcinga kunye neengcamango zinokutshela kakhulu malunga nosana lwakho.

Ipeyinti yokuyalela

Mema umntwana ukuba athathe "malunga nathi sonke," malunga nosapho. Musa nje ukuphazamisa kwinkqubo yokudala. Makhe enze konke ngokukhawuleza, ngokuphefumlelwa. Phakamisa ukhetho lwemibala eyahlukeneyo kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zamapensela, amapende, amakishi. Mamela oko "umculi" wakho athi xa usebenza. Ukuba uthetha ngokucacileyo kwizenzo zakhe, wabelana ngeengcamango zakhe, kuthetha ukuba unengqondo. Ukuba ufuna imvume yakho kwisenzo ngasinye, umntwana akaqinisekanga ngaye. Yithobele, uyikhuthaze kwaye uyixhase.

Ukuba umntwana unqwenela ukudweba, ukukhala-zama ukuzama ukuba ngaba kukho imfuneko ethile yolu hlobo: umntwana unokuthi, umzekelo, ukhathele, mhlawumbi kungumzamo wokuba "ubalekele" ubunzima.


Makube nombala!

Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba imibala epholileyo yemidwebo yabantwana - iingcamango kunye neengcamango (eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka) njengokusebenzisa kwimvelo yabo, ukuthula, abantwana abaphuphayo. I-Orange, i-yellow and raspberries eqaqambileyo iya kukhethwa ngabantu abanqwenelayo kunye nabaxhasi abasebenzayo. Oluhlaza yonke i-shades ikhetha abantwana abanokuzimeleyo nabazimeleyo. Ubomvu - unamandla onamandla kwaye usebenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bakhetha imfusa. Oku kubangelwa ukuvuthwa kwabo ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo kunye nokucinga okucwangcisiweyo. Ukuqhathaniswa (imidwebo emnyama kunye emhlophe) kukhethwa ngabantwana abangenakukwazi ukuhlangabezana naluphi na uhlobo lwengxabano zangaphakathi. Khumbula, yintoni umbala webhokhwe odwebe umfanekiso wakhe. Umntu wakhe othandekayo uya kufaka ipeyinti efanayo.


Wathini umculi ukuba athethe?

Musa ukunyamekela iinkcukacha zemidwebo yabantwana - iingcinga kunye neengcamango, zama ukubona yonke imifanekiso. Ngaphambili kubaluleke kakhulu amalungu omndeni kumntwana. Ukuba omnye wabo usekho ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezinye, ngoko yena uyithandwa kakhulu kwaye unamandla. Okulandelayo, kumfanekiso, kukho abantu abangenakulungele umntwana. Phawula indlela amanani kunye noTata abanjwa ngayo: kunye kunye okanye ngokwahlukileyo? Ngaba onke amalungu entsapho enza umsebenzi omnye okanye ngokwahlukileyo? Abazalwana noodade baboniswa njani? Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akayi kubakho, nachaza ukuba udade omncinci wadlala ngaphandle. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, umntwana uthatha umzalwana omncinci ongekhoyo. Le nyana idinga ixesha elide lokuchitha kunye noontanga. Ukuba umntwana akazenzeli, uziva unesizungu. Kukho imeko xa onke amanani aboniswa njengancinci: inkunzi engakholelwa kuye, iziva ibuthathaka. Mhlawumbi abo basondelene naye baqine kakhulu.

Musa ukukhawuleza ukuthenga yonke into egcinwe kwidolo engumntwana wakho oya kubonisa.


Ziziphi iimfuno abantwana abazifunayo?

Ufanelekile iminyaka. Musa ukuthenga amathoyizi "ngokukhula". Iimvana ezineminyaka emibili ziphuma kwiivili zokuhlala ezivili kunye neekhabhi, kunye nabaqulunqi abaneepuzzle - izicwangciso zeminyaka emihlanu. Kumdlalo onzima kwaye ongaqondakaliyo umntwana uya kuphinda alahlekelwe ngumdla, aze aphule.

Ngokuvisisanayo. Okokuthi, idonki kufuneka ibe neengxenye zomzimba zomzimba kunye nezinto ezintle ezimnandi, imvundla imele ibe mhlophe okanye imvi, kunye neengwenya-eluhlaza, kodwa kungekho enye indlela. Kwaye iilwanyana kufuneka zibukeke njengabo, kwaye zingekho kwiimfucu ezingaphandle.

Musa ukubopha imbali. Ngoko musa ukugxotha imoto elawulwa ngomsakazo kunye needodoli zokuthetha. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-3-5 ubudala ubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo ekuphuhliseni kwakhe, ukuba yena ngokwakhe uchaze umqhubi okanye uthethe idoli.


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Imifanekiso yezingane ezinengqiqo - iingcamango kunye neengcamango. Ewe, ngoku kukho ezininzi idonsa-izilwanyana, ezenziwe ngeenkcukacha ezingekho mfuneko zezobugcisa. Abanye banokuyicima inxalenye yomzimba (kukho nawadonsa abakhulelweyo) kwaye ufumanisa indlela ehlelwe ngayo ngaphakathi. Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuba kunobungozi kwintsana yengqondo. Kwaye kubantwana abakhulu kukho ama-encyclopedias.