Inqaku lefayile liyingxenye ebalulekileyo yobuntwana. Abazali, ngoncedo lweenganekwane, banokunceda umntwana alele, ngaphezu koko, iindaba zomntwana zinganika imibono yokuqala malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kusemntwaneni ukuba imodeli ekhethekileyo yendalo iphela, eyona isebenza kulo lonke ubomi. Iingxelo zenkcazo zinokukunceda ukujamelana neemeko ezinzima ebomini bomntwana okanye uchaze into engaqondakaliyo. Ingane inokubona ubukho bemithetho yentlalo enjalo njengobulungile nobubi. Imvakalelo enengqondo yebalikwane ibaluleke kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka iphephe kakuhle.
Kuzo zonke ezinye izinto, iindaba zeenkcazo zibeka ngokucacileyo uqhagamshelwano phakathi komntwana nabazali bakhe. Yintoni enokuba yinto enhle kwaye ibe mnandi kunomntwana kunokuba adle ngokuhlwa kunye nonina, ofunda kuye intsomi? Kwaye ukuba umama uya kuchaza izinto ezenziwa ngamaqhawe, wabelane ngombono wakhe okanye afunde umbono womntwana, ngoko ke ngaphandle kwexesha elihle lokuzonwabisa, oku kuya kunceda kakhulu.
Ngomxholo walo, iindaba zomntwana zilula kwaye ziqondakala, ngakumbi abantu, ekubeni zenziwe ngaphezu kwekhulu leminyaka, zidlula emlonyeni ukuya emlonyeni. Kwintliziyo yazo zonke iindaba zobuxoki kukuchasana kokulungileyo nokubi, ubuwula kunye nobuchule, ubuhle kunye nobubi, ngoko ke iindaba zamabhongo ziyimzekelo emihle kumanyathelo okuqala ebomini bethu. Iingxelo zefeyari zizalisekile kunye nokuphindaphinda, ziyintleko-le ngenye yezizathu zokuba kutheni abantwana bathandana neenganekwane. Ngokomzekelo, ibhali elithi "Kotygoroshko" malunga nenkwenkwe eyalisa iNyoka uGorynych. Kodwa kukho ininzi yeendlovu zeendlovu kwiincwadi zehlabathi. IsiRashiya, isiUukraine, isiFrentshi - zonke zixhomekeke kwiingcali, ezingaphi iminyaka emininzi. Njengomntwana, umntwana ufikelela kwinto ethile yendalo kunye nokuqondakalayo - le yindlela yabo yokuzinyamekela, ngenxa yokuba basengozini kule minyaka.
Iingoma ze-Fairy zihle kakhulu kwaye kukho umlingo kubo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ziyaqondakala kwaye zilula, kwaye ngakwelinye icala zisoloko zinommangaliso. Njengokuba kungekho ntlungu kunye nobubi, kwaye ukuba kukho na, ithathaka kwaye iyanqotshwa. Ukuqala ukuphulaphula iindaba zamantombazana, abantwana bavulela umnyango kumhlaba womlingo apho ubomi bomlingo buhlala khona, kwaye izilwanyana zikwazi ukuthetha. Ngaloo ndlela kulula ukukholelwa, unokukwazi ukuphumeza umdlalo, kulula ukuhlala naye.
Ekhanda lakhe umntwana unikela izinto, amathoyizi, izilwanyana, izityalo kunye nabalingiswa babantu abaphilayo, kuba kubalulekile kuye ukuba konke ukwesaba nokuvuya kwakhe kubonakaliswe kwaye kube ngumntu. Ingozi kunye neengxaki umntwana odla ngokuzibandakanya kunye needronons okanye iindlovu, ezinokuzomeleza amaqhawe e-fairy kufuneka aphumelele. Ngaloo ndlela, intetho yabantwana, emva kokufundwa ngumntwana okanye ngabazali bakhe, inomphumela wentsingiselo yengqondo - ikhupha iimvakalelo ezimbi kunye namava ahlukahlukeneyo.
Ukufunda ngamnye kuneseshoni ye-psychotherapy kwintsana, kuba ihlabathi "elidala" lijongene neengozi ezininzi kwaye inkwenkwe idla ngokubakho. Nangona abazali bekhathalela umntwana, inyane lijongene nento entsha kwaye engaqondakaliyo imihla ngemihla, kwaye oku akusoloko kubangela ukuvuya kunye nokuzonwabisa. Ngamanye amaxesha ukwesaba noxinzelelo olubuhlungu lufuna indlela yokuphuma, kwaye inkcazelo yamagama, ngale ndlela, idlala enye yeendima eziphambili. Inkcazelo yamanqaku ingayifundisa umntwana ukuba anqobe ubunzima, anqobe iintshaba, angabi ukoyika ingozi kunye nethemba elifanelekileyo.
Nangona isicatshulwa sobhali silula, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi sichazwa kakhulu, ngokubhekiselele kwimifanekiso echaphazelekayo. Umntwana unokuhlakulela amandla okuphupha, kwaye ukucinga kuya kuba lucebile. Ngokumalunga neminyaka emncinci, umntwana unemiqobo enokukunqanda ukuba ufumane iimvakalelo ezithile, nangona kunjalo kwizinto zobuxoki zento yonke into ingaba lula, iphupha kunye neyengqondo. Abantwana bathanda amafa, ngenxa yokuba ingane yamantombazana iyinyaniso engayizivekanga njengomntwana ongenakukhuseleka, kukho umntu okhulayo kunye nophuhliso.
Iingxelo zefeythi zithetha ngehlabathi labantu abadala kwaye zenziwa kwifomu elula kwaye ifumaneka, kuba intsana ayikwazi ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza zonke iintlondi zobuqhetseba kwihlabathi "elikhulu", kunye neengxelo zefayile ziboniswe kwisakhelo semilingo. Nangona kwimibuzo engumngeni obunzima njengokubulala, ukuqamba amanga, imali, ukukhwabanisa kuphakama, kulula ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukunyamezela uhlobo oluthile lokungabikho kokungabi nabulungisa okanye ukunyaniseka, kuba bayazi ukuba ngenxa yoko, okulungileyo kuya kuphumelela.