Ubuqhetseba, xa sisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo, kuthathwa njengenye yezenzo zamandla ezinamandla. Ngoncedo lwayo, kukho ithuba lokuphilisa izifo ezithile, ukuphelisa ubunzima beengqondo, unokubuyisela into komnye umntu njalo njalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaye bazama ukufunda nayiphi na icebo lokufezekisa iminqweno yabo kwaye abazange bafumane umphumo oyifunayo, balahlekelwa ukholo kubo nemilingo. Kodwa bayakulibala ukuba akwanele nje ukuba afunde amagama athile eqhinga lokulifeza. Into ebalulekileyo yindlela abaza kuyifunda ngayo, yiziphi iingcamango abaya kuzo ngexesha elifanayo nangaphezulu. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka ukwazi ukufunda kakuhle iqhinga.
Amandla onke oqhinga lufana nelizwi elifihliweyo lelizwi elithethiweyo, kunye nokudibanisa ethile kwezandi eziya kwimeko ekhethekileyo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ama-chateaux abizwayo namagama abalulekileyo. Kucingelwa ukuba ukuhlanganiswa ezithile kwezandi kunokwenza ngandlela-thile ebuchosheni, kwaye kubo kunye nasemzimbeni wonke, uyasiphilisa. Ukholo, njengompilisi, lubaluleke kakhulu ekupheni kwakhe, kunye nesigulane esinako ukunceda ugqirha. Ngaphandle koko, ekuqheleni izenzeliso, akukho nto ayisebenzisiyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde isicwangciso esiyinhloko, kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu" kathathu, ngoko ubhekisele kubangcwele (umzekelo, umfel 'ukholo oyingcwele uTrofon, abafel' ukholo bakaSamoy, uGuria noAvav, uMartyr ongcwele u-Varvara, ophilisa ongcwele uPelimimon, njl. ) kwaye uthandazele ukuxolelwa kwezono, malunga nabo nabathandekayo, malunga nokuphilisa, njl. Nangona kunjalo, ungabi nantoni na ukuba wenze njalo.
Ukuze icebo lisebenze ngokufanelekileyo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba le miqathango ilandelayo ifumaneke:
- Ixesha elona lihle lokuba iqhinga lilokuhlwa okanye kusasa kusasa.
- Ukuze uthethe icebo, kufuneka uhlale nomva wakho entshonalanga. Ngaphambi kokuba iqhinga liqalise, kuphefumlelwa umoya othulileyo, emva koko ulwabilo olubizwayo, ukuze igama lokugqibela lizwakala ekupheleni kokuphuma, emva koko kufuneka ubambe umoya wakho ngexesha elifutshane. Ukuba iqhinga lide kakhulu, ke ubale inani lokuphefumula ngendlela efunekayo ukuba igama elidlulileyo liphume.
- Enye yezona zibalulekileyo iimfuno zeqhinga - kufuneka usebenzise ngokucacileyo kwaye ufanekise ukuba ufuna ukuthini.
- Iingcamango mazihlambuluke, ukuba akukho njongo yokunceda entliziyweni, isakhelo asiyi kuba namandla.
- Ukuba amanzi eqala ukuthetha, ngoko kufuneka uphuze kancinci, uphazamise emva kweminye imizuzu emihlanu. Zonke ezine ziphuza amanzi zitshulwe ngakwesokunene kwaye isikhumba sentamo kunye nobuso siyacinywa.
- Ukubhenxa xa wenza icebo lifana nalokhu - ukuma ngokuthe tye, nangona kunjalo, intloko kufuneka ihlise.
- Emva kokuba iqhinga lithethiwe ngokupheleleyo, kufuneka uqhube umncinci kwinqanaba elibi.
- Ukuba kuyimfuneko, unokuphinda uyenze ukuyomeleza iqhinga. Inombolo yokuphindaphinda imele ibe yinto engafanelekiyo, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba intetho efunekayo kufuneka ixake ixesha elifutshane.
Kukho imigaqo engundoqo yesi-2 nayiphi na icebo. Eyokuqala kubo kukuba nangona ungakholelwa ukuba iqhinga lingasebenzela, usamazama ukuphatha amagama achazwe kuyo ngenhlonipho. Bhengeze ngokucacileyo ngokusemandleni, ngaphandle kokugwinya iileta kunye neelwimi. Isalathiso ngokwaso sichazwa kakuhle, ngaphandle kokushiya okanye ukukhawuleza.
Umgaqo wesibini kukuba ukuba ufunda inceba eyenzelwe ukuphilisa, kufuneka ubonise ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo umphumo oyifunayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukunceda umntu onamaxhoba aphantsi, kufuneka ucinge ukuba amanxeba akhe agxotha njani aze aphele. Ukuba kunzima ukuba ukhangelele isifo esithile, ke ucinga ukuba lo mntu uphilile kwaye uneliseko jikelele.
Indlela yokubiza isalathisi
Unokwazi ukuvakalisa ngokubhalileyo kunye nokuhlekisayo, ukuba ngokucacileyo. Ukuba ufunda icebo lokulwa nomntu ongaphandle, ngoko xa ufunda, kufuneka uve icebo. Xa ufunda isalathisi, akufanele ujike kuye, kodwa kwiMandla aPhakamileyo, oya kusebenza ngaye, njengomqhubi. Ngolu qhinga, kulo mzekelo, kufuneka likhankanywe igama lakhe. Ekupheliseni koqhinga, qiniseka ukubulela loo Mandla aphezulu apho ufake isicelo sakho uncedo.