Amawele ahlukileyo ukusuka esikolweni esiprayimari?

Ukuba omnye umntwana kwintsapho ngumxhelo ongaxeliweyo, kwaye ukuba ezimbini zivuyiswa kabini! Kodwa iingxaki ziphindwe kabini. Kodwa ngoku lixesha lokunika abantwana esikolweni. Abazali bahlala bexhalabele ukuba abazi ukuba basombulule ingxaki: ngaba amawele kufuneka afunde kunye okanye angabi? Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuhlukanisa abantwana ngexesha leminyaka yesikolo?
Kuze kube kutshanje, izazinzulu zazikholelwa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukwahlula amawele. Kuya kubangela ubuhlungu bentliziyo yabantwana. Kodwa ngeli xesha, inzululwazi iye yahamba ngokude, kwaye ngoku uhlobo lwengqondo lwamaqhosha lubekwe kwindawo yokuqala. Kwaye emva kokuba inkcazo ye-psychotype inokusombulula umba wokuhlukana kwabantwana.

Iingqondo, izazi zengqondo zihlula amawele kunye namawele ngamaqela amathathu:

"Unxibelelene ngokusondeleyo." Kuya kuba nzima kuba bantwana ukuba bafunde bodwa. Bazama ukukopisha ngokwenene yonke into. Njalo ukusuka kwimbini, enye inkokeli, enye enye ikhoboka.

"Sula abantu ngabanye." La bantwana bahlala bejamelana nomnye nomnye. Nangona kufana ngokucacileyo kwemibono kunye neminqweno, bahlala bekhangela isizathu sokuxabana. Wonke umntu kulo mbini ufuna ukuba yinkokeli.

"Abaxhomekeke kumlinganiselo." Olu hlobo lubhekiselele kwigolide. Abantwana banxibelelana ngokugqibeleleyo. Umntu ngamnye udlala indima enkulu apha.

Jonga ngokukhawuleza abantwana bakho kwaye uzama ukujonga ingqondo yabo yengqondo. Nenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo, ukwahlula abantwana bakho esikolweni okanye cha. Kodwa khumbula ukuba kukho iingcebiso kulunye uhlobo.

Iingcali zengqondo zincoma:
"Amafa ahlobene" ngamaxesha okuhlukana esikolweni esiprayimari aya kuba neentlungu ezinzima, ngoko akunconywa ukuba uwahlule. Ukuhlukana kuya kubachaphazela ngokuqinisekileyo ukufunda kwabo ngendlela embi. Abayi kukwazi ukungena kwisigqi sokuqeqesha ixesha elide. Bakufumana kunzima ukufumana abahlobo, baya kunqaba ukuthetha notitshala kunye nabafunda nabo. Kodwa utitshala nabazali mabaqinisekise ukuba abantwana bayaqhagamshelana nabanye abantwana besikolo, kwaye bengabikho kwindawo yabo.

Kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukuba umntwana ngamnye uthathwa kwisangqa. Ama-Mugs kufuneka ukuba ahluke. Kodwa kwizikolo zasesekondari, amawele angafunda kwiiklasi ezifanayo. Abantu abanokuhlukana banokuphila ngokuzinzileyo.

"Ukucacisa abantu ngabanye" kwisikolo kufuneka kuhlulwe iiklasi. Bona kunye nendlu kakhulu banokudinwa ngoqhagamshelwano. Eklasini wonke umntu uzama ngandlela-thile ukuma. Ukuba umntu uya kuqhuba inkqubela esikolweni, ngoko okwesibini kuya kuphelisa izifundo! Kodwa abantwana baya kukhula, ngokukhawuleza lo khuphiswano luya kudlula.

"Amadama axhomekeke ngokukhawuleza" akayi kuhlupheka ngenxa yokuhlukana kubantakwabo. Kubaluleke kakhulu kubo ukuba esikolweni bahlolwe ngabanye, bajika ngalinye ngegama. Abayi kuthutha iimpawu zabo okanye ukuhluleka komnye.

Senza isigqibo
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokugqibela, bathetha nabantwana, babuze umbono wabo. Kwaye, ke, qhagamshelana neengcali zengqondo. Uninzi lwengcali alucebisi ukubahlule abantwana ekuqaleni koqeqesho. Abafundi abaninzi abavela kumabini amabini, befunda kunye, babonisa ngokucacileyo amandla abo kunye nokucinga kwabo.

Kwenzeka ukuba abantwana baxabana kuphela esikolweni, kwaye izindlu azizange ziphikisana. Abazali mabahlale befumana intetho evela kumfundisi, bathethe naye. Kungenzeka ukuba abafundi beklasini badlala indima engafani apha, bebenze ngokumelene nomnye. Kwaye ukudluliselwa kwesinye isigaba kwenye iklasi ngeke kusombulule nantoni na.

Kubalulekile ukucela uthisha kunye nengcali yeengqondo ukuba asebenze kunye neqela, umphumo, njengomgaqo, ulungile. Ulwalamano phakathi kwamawele kunye neklasini luya kutshintsha ukuze lube ngcono. Kodwa kwimeko enzima kunqwenela ukudlulisela abantwana kwelinye iziko lemfundo.

Ngamanye amaxesha ngexesha lokuhlukana, abantwana baqala ukuba bengenangqondo, bagula, baneempophiso ezimbi, bayaba neentloni. Kunzima kubo ukunyamezela ukuhlukana kummelwane wabo. Aba bafundi mabafunde ndawonye ngaphambi kokugqiba.

Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ukuba abantwana kufuneka bahlukane esikolweni, ngoko kwiklasi yokuqala, thumele ndawonye. Ukwahlukana nabo bangaba kwisikolo esiphakathi nesiphakamileyo. Icandelo liya esikolweni, sisebenzisana nootitshala kunye neengqondo zeengqondo. Kuya kubazuzisa kuphela abantwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuba banelisekile kwaye bazimeleyo ebomini, baya kufumana umsebenzi wabo.