Ukuzisola kakhulu, akubona bonke abakwaziyo ukuzamkela izipho ngesithunzi nangelungileyo, luhlobo lobugcisa obukhethekileyo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, umntu ngamnye ufundiswe ukuba ukucela izipho kuyingozi, kuba kufuneka balinde ngokuthozama nangokuthula. Kodwa nangona ubudala, kungekhona wonke umntu owaziyo imithetho yokufumana izipho. Ngoko ke, sinqwenele ukukuxelela indlela yokufunda ukwamukela izipho, ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda le nto, kwaye abantu bakuvuyela ukukholisa ngemimangalo.
Indlela yokufunda ukwamukela izipho: iimpawu kunye neengcebiso
Ukuba ufuna ukufunda lobu bugcisa, kufuneka uhambelane nemithetho ethile kunye nemigangatho yokwamkela nasiphi isipho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uyayazi oko uhanjiswa kusengaphambili, usadinga ukubonakalisa ukumangalisa kunye novuyo. Oko kungekuphela nje ukuba kungadluli. Ukuvula isipho kuyimfuneko ngokuzithandela, ngenxa yokuba ukunganakwa kwakho kuya kumcaphukisa umnikeli. Ngendlela, ezinye izipho zingafumana ukusetyenziswa ngexesha elifanayo (ikhandlela, i-napkins, imihlobiso).
Ukuba uyonwabile ngesipho, akufuneki ukufihla imizwa yakho. Kungcono ukuvumela umnini-mvume ukuba umbulelo kuye umnqweno wakho oyintandokazi unokufezekisa. Ewe, ukuba udidekile ngesipho, kufuneka uziphatha ngendlela engabonakaliyo ngaphandle. Ngendlela, kudingekile ukuba ulale ngexesha elinjalo. Ngenxa yokuba umntu owanike isipho akayikusohlwaya ngenxa yokungakuvuyisi.
Kodwa ukuba isipho esinikwe kuwe sifaka into ebiza kakhulu, kwaye ngenxa yezinto ozijonga ngayo ngokuziphatha akunakukwazi ukuwamkela njengesipho (awukhathazeki, kuba akukho nto "yokuyeka" okanye kukho ukuvakalelwa ukuba isipho senziwe ngenxa yeenjongo zemali), nonke -ngokuba kulungele ukulahla ngaphandle kokungabaza. Kulungele ngeli xesha ukuphikisa ukukhanyela kwakho, ngokubhekiselele kwinto ongavumelekanga (umfana, umama, umyeni) ukuba wamkele izipho okanye uchaze loo meko kwifomu efumanekayo, njengoko kunjalo. Ukwamkela isipho emva kokungabaza okuninzi akufanelekanga.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, akukaze kulungele ukuxoxa ngezipho ezingaphumelelanga zomntu phambi kweendwendwe, njengoko lo ngumkhuba ongathandeki. Ngendlela, iindwendwe ngokwabo zingabangela ukuba bangathandabuzi ukusetyenziswa kwezipho zabo. Kwakhona, akufanele uzame ukudlulisa izipho ezivela kwizihlobo kunye nabahlobo, ukuba zigqiba ukukukholisa ngesipho, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuzenza ngokwabo.
I-Etiquette yokwamkela isipho
Kufuneka uhlale ufunda ukwamkela nasiphi na isipho, ukubonisa ukubonga kwakho ngamazwi, kwizenzo nangakumbi. Kulo mzuzwana kuyakufanelekile ukumomotheka nokuthetha amazwi ombulelo, ekhangele kumniki-mnikelo emehlweni, ungathabathi amehlo akhe kwisipho. Kunyanisekileyo ukubulela zonke iindwendwe, kungakhathaliseki iindleko kunye nesidingo sesipho, nangona iindwendwe nganye zihlala zicinga ukuba unako ukumkholisa. Ukususa iipakethe kunconywa kumnikeli, emva koko ungasicinga ngokuqinisekileyo isipho kwaye uphendule ngokucacileyo kuyo. Kule meko, kufuneka uhambelane nelizwi elihloniphekileyo ngokupheleleyo ngamnye umntu othe wagqiba ukukukholisa kunye lakho langoku. I-bouquet of gifted flowers is to be immediately put in a vase of water, and not excluding, so ucebise ukuba unike igumbi ngexabiso elifanelekileyo leembotyi zeentyatyambo. Ezi zimbali kufuneka zifakwe kwigumbi apho iindwendwe zikhona. Ngendlela, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukuba ngeli xesha leholide uphinda ugxininise ubuhle bembali kwaye uphinda ubonise ukubonga kwakho. Izixhobo kunye nemigangatho, ukuba iimeko zivumelekile, zinokuzama ukukhawuleza. Iinkcukacha zangaphakathi zidlalwa kwindawo evelele. Izipho ezidliwayo okanye iziphuzo zamkelekile ukuphatha ezinye iindwendwe, kwaye ungabonakali kwindawo efihliweyo. Konke oku kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenzela ukuba ungafaki iindwendwe kwindawo engabonakaliyo kuba abayizazi ngokwabo isipho ngezandla zabo. Ngendlela, ezinye izipho ezingadingi ukuvula ngokukhawulezileyo, ungongeza kwiindawo ezikhethiweyo. Futhi ungakulibali ukuthabatha ukuba ukuthatha izipho kwelinye igumbi kuthathwa njengefomu elibi kakhulu kwaye ukungahloneli kwiindwendwe.