Kutheni uphupha isipho sokutshata?
Kumantombazana amancinci angakaboshwa ngumtshato, loo mbono ebusuku ubathembisa utshintsho oluthile kwimpilo yangempela. Kodwa kubhinqa abatshatileyo iphupha elinjalo liyakuthi lithathwe njengesilumkiso. Kufuneka uqikelele ngakumbi kumazwi kunye nezenzo zakho, ukuze ungakhange ubambe ingqalelo engadingekanga kumntu wakho.
Le ntombazana, eyamkela umtshato isisombululo esivela kumfana oselula ongaqhelekanga, unokuqiniseka ukuba ngokukhawuleza uya kumhlangabeza kwaye uvuke.
Ukuba wenza isiluleko sokutshata ephupheni waza wanikela ingqungquthela, ngoko ngokwenene okhethiweyo uyavakalelwa kukuba unyanisekileyo. Kwaye ukuba ebomini bakho, ngaphandle kokuba kungekho mntu onjalo, ngoko unokuqiniseka ukuba kungekudala uza kudibana nomntu ongeyena kuphela umthandi wakho, kodwa naye ungumhlobo wenene. Kodwa qaphela. Ekuqaleni, uya kucasulwa ngumntu lo, kodwa kungekudala uza kuqonda ukuba yintoni imvakalelo yakho.
Olunye uphilo lwephupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba intombazana okanye intombazana inokufumana isicatshulwa kumntu ongaqhelekanga kwiphupha elimxelela ukuba uphumelela ngempumelelo kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Umphuphi akayi kubona kuphela isimo sezentlalo, kodwa uya kuzuza ukuzimela kwemali kunye nokuchuma.
Ezinye iinguqulelo zobuthongo
Ukuba ngexesha lokunikezelwa kwakho uzive udidekile kwaye awukwazi ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza, ke lixesha lokuba uphakamise igunya lakho emehlweni abanye. Zama ukwenza isenzo esibonisa ubungqina bakho kunye noxanduva lwakho, kuba abanye bayakubona njengomntu onobuqili nabamfutshane. Xa usabele ngokuqinisekileyo kwisiphakamiso esamkelekileyo, uya kuvuya ngokuhlonela abanye ngenxa yobungqina obufanelekileyo kunye nokukwazi ukunceda abo baneemfuno.
Isicelo esifanelekileyo somntu ukudibanisa isithuba sakhe kunye nawe akusona uphawu oluhle kakhulu. Sekudlulileyo kwixesha elizayo ebomini bakho kuza kuqala uluhlu lwezinto ezincinci kunye nobunzima. Ngethamsanqa, abanakukunqanda ukuba ufezekise oko ufunayo, kodwa komeleza kuphela ukuthanda kwakho kunye namandla omlingiswa.
Indoda esatshatileyo ebonayo ephupheni ukuba iphinda inikeze umfazi wayo osemthethweni ukutshata kufuneka iqaphele ingxaki emsebenzini. Ukuba awuthathi amanyathelo ngexesha kwaye ungagcini imvakalelo yakho, kokubili emsebenzini nakwikhaya, unako ukulinda imicimbi ebi kakhulu. Okokuqala, ukutshabalalisa umsebenzi wakhe, kwaye okwesibini - ukuba ahlukane nomkakhe.
Ukusuka kwinjongo yengqondo, iphupha apho umfazi ngokwakhe enza isipho kumfana wakhe uthi sele sele ekulungele ukuziphatha ukutshatisa ubudlelwane kumgangatho omtsha kwaye akakwazi ukulinda isinyathelo esinjalo kwisithandwa sakhe.
Kukho amaphupha angaqhelekanga apho intombazana okanye indoda yenza isithembiso sezandla kunye neenhliziyo kumalungu obulili. Ekubeni eqinisweni umphuphi okanye umphuphi ngokuqhelekileyo umgangatho wesintu, eli phupha lifanekisela ukungoneleliseki ngokupheleleyo ngesondo kunye nomnqweno wokuzisa izinto ezintsha kunye nokungaqhelekanga kobuhlobo obusondeleyo.
Yaye nangona amaphupha anjalo avuyisa kakhulu ngesondo esilungileyo, musa ukuwajonga njengelungelelaniso olungenangqiqo yokuba isiqinisekiso somtshato siya kwenzeka ngokwenene. Ngoko ke, ukuchazwa okuchanekileyo kwento ebonwayo ngexesha lokuphumla ebusuku kubaluleke kakhulu.