Kutheni ibhere liphupha ngentombazana?
Iphupha elinjalo lidla ngokuchazwa, ngokuqwalasela ngesondo somphuphi. Intombazana ephuphayo le silwanyana, unokuqiniseka ukuba kusekusondele ukutshata. Ngaphezu koko, wakhethayo uya kuphendula zonke iingcamango zomntu omtsha malunga neqabane elifanelekileyo.
Indoda ebone ibhere ephupheni kufuneka inqume indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Enyanisweni, kuya kufuneka akhethe izinto azenzayo: ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi.
Ibhinqa elitshatileyo aliyifumani kakuhle iphupha elinjalo. Iinguqu ezininzi zephupha ziphatha ibhere ephupheni, njengokubonakala komlingani, apho umlingane azama ukuphazamisa. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba uhlale unamehlo kwaye ube nomnene kwaye unomdla nomntu wakho womntu, ukuze indoda yakho ingabi ncamango yokugwenxa.
Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, indoda eyabona iilwanyana zasendle ephupheni inokwenza lula nayiphi na imisebenzi, kuba iimpawu zakhe zobunkokeli kunye nokuzinikela kuya kunceda ukufezekisa oko kuyifunayo.Kodwa kwincwadi yephupha likaWang isiphumo esibi esichaza umsindo, ukukhohlisa nokutshabalalisa. Iphupha lifanele liphephe ukuhlanganisana okukhulu kwabantu kunye nemisebenzi yomsindo.
Ukubalekela kwiibhere
Ukuze uphendule kakuhle iphupha lakho, kufuneka uqwalasele izenzo ezenziwe kuyo.
- Ukubalekela kwizilwanyana kukubona, ukuba iintshaba zephupha eliphuphayo ziceba ukucwangcisa ngokunyanisekileyo kuye, ngoko ungahlali kwimisebenzi eyahlukileyo okanye iziphakamiso.
- Kubantu abangakafumani mlingane, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa umtshato wokuqala. Kwaye, i-bachelor eyayesoloko isaba ubomi bentsapho, iya kufumana ikhethekileyo kwaye iyakuyeka ukutshatisa umtshato.
- Intombazana endibalekela kwaye ifihla ibhere ehlasela, ngokwenene ayikwazi ukufihla kumbono othukutheleyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukujonga isiganeko esinobuqili nesingenakunzima, ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka kwingxabano.
Iphupha libhebhe elimnyama?
Iinguqulelo zamaphupha zivame ukuhlola kuphela isini kunye nesakhelo sombono, kodwa kunye nokubonakala kwezilwanyana ezibonwayo.
Ibhere elihle lithetha ngohanahaniso kwintsimi okanye umntu omaziyo oye waba neentloni kwaye unokuzisa ingxaki.
Ibhere elimnyama yi-harbinger yesifo esibi kakhulu. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuthatha amanyathelo kwangaphambili: ukutyelela ugqirha, ukubeka iliso impilo yakho kunye nokuphila ngendlela enempilo.
Umdlobi oBrown, owambona umfazi ongatshatanga, wathi udidekile ngothando, mhlawumbi ngenxa yecala lomdlali. Kubameli bezesondo eziqinileyo, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa izithintelo ezincinci endleleni eya kwinjongo efunwayo.
Ibhere elimhlophe luphawu oluhle kakhulu. Umphuphi uya kuba novuyo ebomini bakhe, kodwa nakweminye imiba. Ngokubanzi, iqela langempela lenhlanhla liza kumntu.
Ekubeni ukutolika kuhlukeneyo kwaye kuxhomekeke kwinani elikhulu leenkcukacha, zama ngokukhawuleza emva kokujonga kwiphupha kwincwadi yephupha, ngelixa zikhumbula izinto ezintsha. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, bhala phantsi iinkcukacha zokulala kwiphepha, kwaye emva koko ukhangele iinguqulelo ezifanelekileyo.