Kutheni ndiphupha malunga nokumbamba?
Ukuze uqonde kakuhle intsingiselo yobuthongo, kufuneka uqwalasele zonke iinkcukacha zayo, kuba iinkcukacha ezincinane kakhulu zibaluleke kakhulu.
- Intsingiselo yokuqala kunye neyona nto ixhaphakileyo yintetho ephuphayo kunye nokufakwa kobudlelwane bokwenene bokomoya.
- Kodwa kwiNcwadi encinci yephupha iVeles kuthiwa xa uvakalelwa ngumntu othile ephupheni, empeleni unako ukuhlahloka kakhulu ubudlelwane kunye nalo mntu. Ukongeza, iphupha elinjalo liba ngumbonakalo wokungcatsha, ukuthengwa kunye nezinye iingxaki ezinxulumene nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
- Ukuba ubone iphupha ombethe ngalo umfi, zama ukukhumbula ukuba ngubani owokuqala ukuthatha inyathelo. Ukuba ukhona, utshintsho olukhulu kulindeleke phambi kwakho. Kwaye xa umntu ofileyo ephakamisa ukuba iphupha alinanto ebalulekileyo.
- Ukuqhayisa ephupheni kunye nobaba uthi umphuphi uya kuba nekhontsi enamandla kakhulu oza kuxhasa kuzo zonke iinjongo.
Kutheni uphupha umfana othanda kakhulu, funda apha
Ukuba umntu ubamba ephupheni
Ngokweentsingiselo ezininzi zeencwadi zokuphupha, ukumbambisana nomntu othandekayo kubonisa ukuba injongo yakho iya kuzaliseka. Kodwa oku kusebenza kuphela kwezo zifundo apho le ndoda ikhunyiwe nguwe. Nangona kunjalo, kunye nephupha apho umthandayo enamathele khona ungathwali nentsingiselo engalunganga. Uthi ulwalamano oluthembekileyo luya kusekwa phakathi kwamaqabane.
Ukuba umntu othanda ngokwenene, ulungele kwaye akugubungele ngasemva, ungabi nca. Mhlawumbi ngokwenene uziphatha ngokuzithemba, kwaye loo nto ingase ibe yincinci njengoko ucinga. Ngoko ke, jonga ngokusondeleyo kumthandi wakho ukukhusela ukuqhuma emva kwexesha.
Iingqungquthela zomntu ongaqhelekanga zithi phambi kwakho ulinde abaninzi abantu abaqhelana nabo, okuya kuthi emva kwexesha liza kuba luhlobo oluqinileyo. Kukho umlinganiselo ophezulu wokuba utshintshe imisebenzi kwaye uhambe kwiqela elikhulu kunye nobungane. Ngaphezu koko, phakathi kwabasebenzi bakho abatsha baya kuba yinkwenkwe yakho yexesha elizayo.
Ukuba indoda iyakwamukela ephupheni, ngelixa ufumana unomdla oqinileyo kunye nomtsalane, ubuhlobo obutsha bokuthandana abuyi kukugcina ulinde ixesha elide. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubantombazana abangenayo okhethiweyo okwangoku. Kulabo sele sele bafumene umphefumlo wabo umlingane, ubuthongo buthembisa ukuguquka okutsha kwintsebenziswano. Intombazana eyayingqongqoza umfazi kwidonki okanye kwindlu yokuhlambela iya kufakwa ngokukhawuleza kulwalamano oluya kuthi, nangona luya kuba lunomdla kakhulu, luya kukhawuleza. Kodwa uzive ukwamkela umyeni wakhe - uphawu oluhle kakhulu. Nangona isibini esitshatileyo singesona sihlandlo esilungileyo kulwalamano, iphupha lithetha ukuba ubomi babo buya kuphucula kwaye ubudlelwane bomnye nomnye buya kuba bufudumele kwaye bube ngcono.
Xa uhlalutya iphupha lakho, qiniseka ukuqwalasela iimvakalelo oye wazibona. Yimvakalelo enokuthi ibe yinto ephambili yokutyhila oko ubona kumaphupha.
Ngokuthetha oko, ukuba umntu ofanayo uyaziphupha, funda apha