Iimpawu ezilungileyo
Ukubona umtshato wakho, apho iindwendwe ezininzi ezinjengeempahla eziqaqambileyo zithembisa ezininzi iziganeko ezivuya ebomini. Unendima yomtshakazi, umyeni uyanqwenela kuwe kunye nomoya jikelele wokulala ulungile? Lungiselela iziganeko ezimnandi ebomini, impumelelo kwishishini kunye nobomi bomntu.
Uphuhliso olulungileyo lwemicimbi lunokuba ngumphumo wephupha, apho unceda ukulungiselela umtshato womntu. Ekuphumeleleni kwakho kuya kunceda ubulumko bomntu othandekayo (isihlobo okanye umhlobo).
Oku akuthethi ngaso sonke isikhathi umnqweno wokuqalisa ubomi bentsapho ngokukhawuleza. Amadoda asetshatiweyo okanye abafazi abatshatileyo banokubona ukulungiselela umtshato. Ngoko, kungekudala uza kufuneka wenze izigqibo ngokukhawuleza ukuze uphumelele kwishishini.
Ukubona umtshato weentombi zakho uthembisa ubomi obutyebi kunye novuyo kwintombazana okanye kumfazi. Ulindele ukuzonwabisa okuninzi, abaqhelana nabo kunye nokuhamba.
Intombazana encinci eyenziwe ngokukhawuleza ukutshata ephupheni inokulindela iziganeko ezilungileyo. Iimpawu zayo ezintle kunye nobuntu kunye nayiphi na imisebenzi iya kubingelela abanye kwaye bayayixhasa ngayo yonke into emisebenzini yabo.
Umama unokuphupha umtshato wakhe yentombi. Kuwuphawu oluvela phezulu ukuba kungekudala luya kugcinwa kumthwalo wexhala. Kungcono ukuba intombi intombi igqoke ingubo emhlophe yemveli. Lo ngumqondiso olungileyo. Ukuba ingubo yomtshato yomnye umbala - malunga nokubonakala kwenani elikhulu labantu abanomona kunye neentlebo.
Xa udade ebona umtshato womntakwabo, unokumenza avuyise. Kungekudala, uya kufumana ukunyusa emsebenzini, ukuba akanakho. Ukuba umntu sele sele esatshatile, ngokukhawuleza uza kuba nguyise.
Ukuba ngumndwendwe emtshatweni womnye umqondiso olungileyo. Mhlawumbi, unomnqweno onqwenelekayo, ukuzaliseka okwakungalindelekanga. Kwixesha elizayo elikude liza kungalindelekanga kuwe. Kukho ithuba eliphezulu lokuba uya kudibana nomhlobo omdala. Kulabo abangenalo umthandi, eli phupha lithembisa i-romance esivuthuzelayo, kunye nabafazi abatshatileyo-kubhiyozo olukhulu lwentsapho.
Okubi
Nangona ebomini umtshato uyonwabile, ephupheni oku kungenokuba luphawu oluhle.
- Uzibonele ukutshata nendoda endala-iingxaki kunye nezifo. Ukuba umyeni usemncinci, kodwa egqoke emnyama kwaye edabukisayo, uya kubhekana nokubanda kunye nokungakhathaleli komhlobo.
- Khawucinge ngakumbi kwiindwendwe emtshatweni. Ukuba bembethe iingubo ezimnyama, uya kuvela kwiimeko ezibuhlungu ebomini. Ukuba uxoxa ngesivumelwano somtshato-lindela iindaba ezimbi ezivela kumntu ongazibonanga ixesha elide.
- Ngethuba lomtshato ocingileyo, wenza into engathandekiyo eyenzekayo? Lindela izifo kunye neziganeko ezibuhlungu kwintsapho.
- Intombazana inokubangela ukudimazeka ngokuthanda kwiphupha ekuzibonela ngayo njengomtshakazi, kodwa ibuhlungu kwaye ayikhathaleli ngokupheleleyo into eyenzeka kuyo. Kubalulekile ukujongisisa ngokusingqongileyo. Phakathi kwabo ucinga ukuba ngabahlobo, baninzi abantu abanomdla nababi.
- Ukukhansela umtshato wakho kukuqaphelisisa kumashishini angabazayo. Ungakholelwa abantu abakwenzayo izilingo ezilingo, ngakumbi ukuba awukwazi lo mntu kakuhle.
- Umtshato ongafunekiyo ephupheni, okanye umtshato onyanzelekileyo, unokuphupha ngentombazana okanye ibhinqa elithwala umthwalo wemisebenzi emahlombe akhe, apho engakulungelekanga kwaye ayikwazi ukufeza.
- Ukuba ubonile ukuba umthandi wakho utshata omnye - zama ukuphepha umona ongenangqiqo, ngaphandle koko ungalahlekelwa ngumkhethiweyo wakho.