Ukuzimisela kokuphakama ngokwemiqulu yephupha likaMiller
Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kaMiller kunikeza inkcazelo ngokubanzi yintoni na ukuphakama kwiphupha. Ngokutsho kwengcaciso yakhe, oku kuthetha ukulinda impumelelo. Ukuba udiliza, uyawa-ukuphoxeka ngokukhawuleza. Ukwesaba kukungakhuselekanga kwizakhono zakho.
Kutheni ukuba ukwesaba iindawo eziphakamileyo kuphupha kwabo bangenako ukwesaba?
Njengesiqhelo, umntu akakwazi ukuthetha nantoni na. Khawucinge ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuphakama ephupheni kubantu abangenako ukwesaba okanye abanokuthanda ukunyuka phezulu, becingisise ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo, lokoyiko luhambelana nomfuno wenkululeko enkulu. Mhlawumbi enye yeentsapho okanye into evela kwi shishini ikuthintela ukuphefumula ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uhlala ucinga ngako.
- Ukubaluleka kokuphumla. Mhlawumbi, umba umsebenzi ophezulu kakhulu kwaye uya kuba nempilo xa kukho ixesha leveki okanye ezimbini ukuba ukhulule.
- Kuba umntu othanda ukuvuyisa nokugqithiseleyo-uthetha impumelelo yesikhathi esizayo, ukuzinza kwi-career kunye nolwalamano nabantu abakujikelezile.
- Kulabo bajongene nokukhetha - uphawu lweemfuno zokuzibamba kunye kunye nokwamkela isigqibo esifanelekileyo, kungekhona ukutshintshaniswa.
Uloyiko lwezinto eziphakamileyo luphupha ntoni, ngubani oloyiko loyiko?
Ngokungafani nabantu abangenalo ukuphakama kwimpilo eqhelekileyo, kwabo besaba indawo eziphakamileyo, amaphupha athetha ukuba ahluke.
- Musa ukuzibekela iinjongo ezingenangqiqo. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyeke ukuphupha, kodwa xa uceba ikusasa lakho, kufuneka uqwalasele inyaniso kwaye wenze isinyathelo ngenyathelo, kunokuba umgaqo "Ndifuna yonke into kanye."
- Iyakubonisekisa imfuneko yokungafuneki kwaye iyigxininise.
- Kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo, umphuphi angalinda iimvavanyo ezinzulu. Akunjalo ukuba baya kudibana nokulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo okanye ipropati, kwiimeko ezininzi uzakujamelana nokukhetha okunzima, ukuthotyelwa kwesigqibo esinqweneleyo esinokuchaphazela ubomi bakho besikhathi esizayo.
Kutheni sifuna ukuphakama kwiphupha?
Ubuncwane buntuntu ngamawaka eminyaka buninzi obunokwesaba, okunye kukho ukwesaba ukuba phezulu. Xa usebenzisa umfanekiso wesincophiso wokwesaba ukuphakama kwiphupha, sizama ukuhambisa ulwazi olubalulekileyo, kuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo kulo mntu. Kwabo abangesabi okanye bathanda ukuziziva bephakamileyo kwinqanaba lomhlaba kunye nolwandle, ngokomthetho, oku kulungile. Abo baziva bebhetele xa beva ubunzima phantsi kweenyawo zabo banokuyilumkiso kwiingxaki zobomi.